What If They Came Out To You...?

[Majik1387]

uh-oh, Taiwarriors online.

Hurray for ignore buttons.

 

[The_Raven]

Meh. The whole "coming out of the closet" thing is too 90's.

For a "good ole boy" from the South I have quite a few gay/bi friends. A few more wouldn't surprise me. Whatever.

I guess if like....my MOM went lesbo it would weird me out for a bit because it would be totally unexpected but I'd deal.

I'd hardly be the person to go all "HELLFIRE AND TEH BRIMSTONEZ ON J00, SINNER!". That's just lame.

Bottom line: If I'M the ******* you have to come out to, don't worry. I don't give a **** so long as you're good at Tekken and can loan me a few bucks every now and then.

 

[Kevin]

Meh. The whole "coming out of the closet" thing is too 90's.

For a "good ole boy" from the South I have quite a few gay/bi friends. A few more wouldn't surprise me. Whatever.

I guess if like....my MOM went lesbo it would weird me out for a bit because it would be totally unexpected but I'd deal.

I'd hardly be the person to go all "HELLFIRE AND TEH BRIMSTONEZ ON J00, SINNER!". That's just lame.

Bottom line: If I'M the ******* you have to come out to, don't worry. I don't give a **** so long as you're good at Tekken and can loan me a few bucks every now and then.

I hate tekken and I'm always broke.

 

[Kritish]

my cousin came out too me. i already knew he was gay since we were kids. i didnt really care, its his choice. so i took him to a gay club and we got krunk. it was a blast...it took a while to get used to him dancing with dudes and all but i could tell he felt free. so i was happy for him. im the only family member that he has told, but the rest of the family talks about how they can tell but no one says anything. i dont say anything because my family is full of holy rollers and wouldnt understand.

I wouldn't care if my cousin was gay but he'd have to go to a gay bar by himself.

I want his opinion as well, as long as he's respectable.

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[The_Raven]

I hate tekken and I'm always broke.

You know what I meant dammit.

 

[kytrigger]

I pretty much wouldn't care. If a male friend told me they were gay, I'd probably make a lighthearted joke first, to make them laugh and feel relaxed, and then remind them that I don't give a ****. I'd tell them that I would never them because they are gay, and I would never hate them because of it either. How much I like or dislike them depends on what, not who, they do around me

If the friend was female, I would do pretty much the same thing, only the joke I would say to make them laugh would be different.

The only person that I would probably be intially upset about would be if it was my wife or girlfriend. I'd probably feel betrayed and lied to, at least at first. Hopefully though I would come around and deal with it more maturely (although I honestly don't know since this has never happened to me)

 

[kytrigger]

I wouldn't care if my cousin was gay but he'd have to go to a gay bar by himself.

eh...it's not that bad. I've been to gay bars a few times with some gay friends of mine and we always had a good time (except for one time, but that's a long story that includes me being forced into a dance-off with 4 crossdressers). Other tan that though, they were actually pretty fun.

 

[Abaddon]

yeah, it would suck if it's your lover.

 

[Kritish]

eh...it's not that bad. I've been to gay bars a few times with some gay friends of mine and we always had a good time (except for one time, but that's a long story that includes me being forced into a dance-off with 4 crossdressers). Other tan that though, they were actually pretty fun.

 

[kytrigger]

yeah, it would suck if it's your lover.

Yeah, it kind of reminds me of the discussion I had with some of my fraternity brothers of would you be upset if your girfriend slept with another woman. I was one of the few that said yes I would. Cheating on me with just a woman is still cheating.

 

[kytrigger]

The only other thing I'll tell you, is that I won that damn dance-off!!!

 

[The_Raven]

Cheating on me with just a woman is still cheating.

It's downright dirty pool, too, unless they bring back pics.

 

[Kritish]

The only other thing I'll tell you, is that I won that damn dance-off!!!

I shudder to think what the prize was.

 

[Mr Sparkle]

hell, even your PET--it doesn't matter! If they came out to you, how would you react?

I'd be totally psyched that he could talk, I'd forget about his/her gayness

 

[Kevin]

If someone close to you, Mother, Father, brother, sister, friend, cousin, Wife, husband, boyfriend, girlfriend, son, daughter, hell, even your PET--it doesn't matter! If they came out to you, how would you react?

Fixed.

 

[Mr Sparkle]

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LMAO

 

[Kritish]

I'd be totally psyched that he could talk, I'd forget about his/her gayness

A dobermen with a lisp is not a pretty sight.

 

[jimmy]

I don't care: as long as some gay guy doesn't try to butt secks me in sexi jail, I really don't care.

One of my cousins is gay. When I found out, It didn't surprise me; it's not like he's a flaming homo, but I just don't judge people on stuff like sexuality.

Gay, straight -- if you're cool by me, you're cool.

 

[Abaddon]

Yeah, it kind of reminds me of the discussion I had with some of my fraternity brothers of would you be upset if your girfriend slept with another woman. I was one of the few that said yes I would. Cheating on me with just a woman is still cheating.

I'd feel a little humiliated.

 

[Kritish]

LMAO

I do my best.

 

[kytrigger]

I'd feel a little humiliated.

I'd be humiliated and pissed. I mean, if my girlfriend came up to me and said she wanted to have sex with another girl and me, then I'd be like "okay, let's talk about this", but not behind my back.

 

[Kritish]

I'd be humiliated and pissed. I mean, if my girlfriend came up to me and said she wanted to have sex with another girl and me, then I'd be like "okay, let's talk about this", but not behind my back.

Yeah, you bring a web cam before you munch on carpet!!

 

[tzarinna]

I'd be surprised, if I never sensed it. But I'd be accepting of them.
I remember a girl in HS had told me she was Bi. We hung out in school only and the way she told me was all most jokingly and I have to admit I was a little uncomfortable being around her but I didn't alienate myself. Odd thing is another friend from a totally other click knew. I had very little gaydar back in the day.

I too am off to bed.

 

[Kevin]

OK, so last year I told my sister that I was gay. I've always felt she had a problem with this, but she's bi, so WTF?

I told her today that only one comicbook was important to me, and I would be happy if it was the only one I had. It was My Young Avengers collection. Explaining to her that there were two gay characters in it, that were in a relationship, she responds "What is the world coming to?"

 

[kytrigger]

^Is she at ease with herself beig bi?