What Is Wrong With Me?!

[RKO]

We'll see.

That's good enough my Godzy-poo. :heart:

You had me at "Arcade".

 

[Knightsaber Priss]

That's good enough my Godzy-poo. :heart:

You had me at "Arcade".

Hah hah! I guess those are romantic words for people like us.

Seriously, I'm just more inclined towards things I feel are more real...like football and video arcades. That's where I really shine. I'm not a princess and I don't like playing dress up, meaning I won't spend hours in a clothing store with you as my hostage. I mean come on, just how long could you guys stand being around a woman that talks like she's straight out of a magical fairy land and is clinging to you so much she's like an extra appendage?

 

[RKO]

Yes, that is something that just irritates me.

The just standing around at the clothing store. Dreadful.

I wouldn't say theres something wrong with you, is more like you don't fit the women, or feminine generalization that the mainstream leads you to believe.

Wich isn't a bad thing.

Lots of men find this very attractive. Me being one of them.


PS: Did you say you like Football? My God! you're perfect!

 

[Knightsaber Priss]

Yes, that is something that just irritates me.

The just standing around at the clothing store. Dreadful.

I wouldn't say theres something wrong with you, is more like you don't fit the women, or feminine generalization that the mainstream leads you to believe.

Wich isn't a bad thing.

Lots of men find this very attractive. Me being one of them.


PS: Did you say you like Football? My God! you're perfect!

I don't know. A lot of guys, you know, the club hopping, jet set types, think my silence in those sort of "feminine" situations, like clothing shopping or seeing a chick flick (Which I just don't do by the way. I can count the "Chick Flicks" I actually like on one hand.) is a sign of being jaded, but in actuality I'm just getting bored out of my skull and crave something more exciting like going to a football game (Would love to see an NFL or NHL game live.) or chatting about something that interests me more, like sports cars. I love sports cars though I couldn't tell you the mechanics behind them. I just love looking at all the latest sports car models.

And I can't attest to being perfect, but I was born a Tomboy. What can I say? I've also lived independently, and thought independently, free from the restrictive boundaries of people telling me what I should wear and like, for a very long time now. Plus with having more male friends than female I've kind of been able to learn a few behavioral patterns from my friends that's helped me relate to guys a lot better than those clucking hens. I guess I'd be the girlfriend you could have hang around your male friends and not worry if I'll start talking about things that make guys squirm.

P.S. To anyone in Europe, when I say Football, I mean NFL styled Football, not what we call Soccer. Sorry for the confusion.

 

[Ahura Mazda]

I don't know. A lot of guys, you know, the club hopping, jet set types, think my silence in those sort of "feminine" situations, like clothing shopping or seeing a chick flick (Which I just don't do by the way. I can count the "Chick Flicks" I actually like on one hand.) is a sign of being jaded, but in actuality I'm just getting bored out of my skull and crave something more exciting like going to a football game (Would love to see an NFL or NHL game live.) or chatting about something that interests me more, like sports cars. I love sports cars though I couldn't tell you the mechanics behind them. I just love looking at all the latest sports car models.

And I can't attest to being perfect, but I was born a Tomboy. What can I say? I've also lived independently, and thought independently, free from the restrictive boundaries of people telling me what I should wear and like, for a very long time now. Plus with having more male friends than female I've kind of been able to learn a few behavioral patterns from my friends that's helped me relate to guys a lot better than those clucking hens. I guess I'd be the girlfriend you could have hang around your male friends and not worry if I'll start talking about things that make guys squirm.

P.S. To anyone in Europe, when I say Football, I mean NFL styled Football, not what we call Soccer. Sorry for the confusion.

I apologise if this sounds forward but if you look like Kim Kardashian, have tastes which most men wuold find desirable and all in all seem to have at least an attractive online personality, how is it you are still single?

 

[Knightsaber Priss]

I apologise if this sounds forward but if you look like Kim Kardashian, have tastes which most men wuold find desirable and all in all seem to have at least an attractive online personality, how is it you are still single?

You know, as much as I try to answer that question, so many thoughts swirl around in my head as pertaining to my singledom. I've always thought that maybe it's my stubborn independence that could be a turn off because, well, I just need "me" time where I can just be alone for awhile to recharge my battery. Or maybe it's my personality because I can be a very quiet, reserved person most of the time, which I guess most people would translate as meaning I'm no fun to be around. But really I'm just trying to assess the situation and gauge the other person because I have problems just trusting men I meet in the real world. I don't know if they're going to accept me for who I am and make me happy or try to hurt me because they can't understand why I am the way I am. Sometimes I feel like I'm a complicated puzzle only a few men can figure out.

 

[chamber-music]

I don't watch anything on the Lifetime Network. Movies/TV Shows like Sex and the City, Twilight, Mamma Mia!,

That means your sane.

P.S. To anyone in Europe, when I say Football, I mean NFL styled Football, not what we call Soccer. Sorry for the confusion.

oh right you mean armoured catch

 

[04nbod]

I have been contemplating this for a very long time, and I've come to the conclusion there's definitely something wrong with me, but I have no idea what it is. You see, I just never could get into anything people labeled as strictly aimed at "the female demographic" whatever that means. I don't watch anything on the Lifetime Network. Movies/TV Shows like Sex and the City, Twilight, Mamma Mia!, or any chick related media medium makes me want to vomit. And whenever I go into the mall I get really bored really fast browsing in clothing stores unless I know what I want and where to get it. I also just hate styles of clothing that are "feminine", especially things that are splashed in the color pink. I tend to like a more "rock star" type look, or I'll wear sarcastic T-shirts with those Happy Bunny phrases on them. At the mall I'd rather spend my time actually having real fun at the arcade. But seriously, is there something wrong with me because I despise all things that have been labeled as "feminine"?

you are a tomboy, there is nothing wrong with that. I personally can't stand Sex and the City or Mamma Mia!(although I love abba). I don't have the lifetime network because I'm in the UK but I guess that would be the equivalent of Living here. I only watch Charmed on there. Also I love sarky T Shirts. Nothing wrong with being casual.

 

[Majic Walrus]

I have been contemplating this for a very long time, and I've come to the conclusion there's definitely something wrong with me, but I have no idea what it is. You see, I just never could get into anything people labeled as strictly aimed at "the female demographic" whatever that means. I don't watch anything on the Lifetime Network. Movies/TV Shows like Sex and the City, Twilight, Mamma Mia!, or any chick related media medium makes me want to vomit. And whenever I go into the mall I get really bored really fast browsing in clothing stores unless I know what I want and where to get it. I also just hate styles of clothing that are "feminine", especially things that are splashed in the color pink. I tend to like a more "rock star" type look, or I'll wear sarcastic T-shirts with those Happy Bunny phrases on them. At the mall I'd rather spend my time actually having real fun at the arcade. But seriously, is there something wrong with me because I despise all things that have been labeled as "feminine"?

It's probably your boobs.

 

[Asteroid-Man]

I believe the fact that you actually made a thread about this answers itself. I find it ironic, really.

 

[Anti-Moderator]

You sound too good to be true. It makes me wonder...what's really wrong with you?

 

[Matt]

I have been contemplating this for a very long time, and I've come to the conclusion there's definitely something wrong with me, but I have no idea what it is. You see, I just never could get into anything people labeled as strictly aimed at "the female demographic" whatever that means. I don't watch anything on the Lifetime Network. Movies/TV Shows like Sex and the City, Twilight, Mamma Mia!, or any chick related media medium makes me want to vomit. And whenever I go into the mall I get really bored really fast browsing in clothing stores unless I know what I want and where to get it. I also just hate styles of clothing that are "feminine", especially things that are splashed in the color pink. I tend to like a more "rock star" type look, or I'll wear sarcastic T-shirts with those Happy Bunny phrases on them. At the mall I'd rather spend my time actually having real fun at the arcade. But seriously, is there something wrong with me because I despise all things that have been labeled as "feminine"?

I'm honestly just shocked that you are a female. I've known you on these boards for awhile and I had no idea. Must be the user name.

But no, there is nothing wrong with you.

 

[Kmack]

I have been contemplating this for a very long time, and I've come to the conclusion there's definitely something wrong with me, but I have no idea what it is. You see, I just never could get into anything people labeled as strictly aimed at "the female demographic" whatever that means. I don't watch anything on the Lifetime Network. Movies/TV Shows like Sex and the City, Twilight, Mamma Mia!, or any chick related media medium makes me want to vomit. And whenever I go into the mall I get really bored really fast browsing in clothing stores unless I know what I want and where to get it. I also just hate styles of clothing that are "feminine", especially things that are splashed in the color pink. I tend to like a more "rock star" type look, or I'll wear sarcastic T-shirts with those Happy Bunny phrases on them. At the mall I'd rather spend my time actually having real fun at the arcade. But seriously, is there something wrong with me because I despise all things that have been labeled as "feminine"?

You don't fit any of the common female stereotypes, you should feel liberated I'm guilty of all the things you've listed except Lifetime

 

[chamber-music]

you are a tomboy, there is nothing wrong with that. I personally can't stand Sex and the City or Mamma Mia!(although I love abba). I don't have the lifetime network because I'm in the UK but I guess that would be the equivalent of Living here. I only watch Charmed on there. Also I love sarky T Shirts. Nothing wrong with being casual.

Oh trust me those chick channels exsist in the UK. My girlfriend loves channels like Diva and True life movies

 

[Logan's Runt]

And people call me an attention ****e? Hahahahahahaaa

 

[Obi-Ron]

But seriously, is there something wrong with me because I despise all things that have been labeled as "feminine"?

Being an individual is something to be proud of, not embarrassed by. You rock!

 

[Spider-Who?]

I have been contemplating this for a very long time, and I've come to the conclusion there's definitely something wrong with me, but I have no idea what it is. You see, I just never could get into anything people labeled as strictly aimed at "the female demographic" whatever that means. I don't watch anything on the Lifetime Network. Movies/TV Shows like Sex and the City, Twilight, Mamma Mia!, or any chick related media medium makes me want to vomit. And whenever I go into the mall I get really bored really fast browsing in clothing stores unless I know what I want and where to get it. I also just hate styles of clothing that are "feminine", especially things that are splashed in the color pink. I tend to like a more "rock star" type look, or I'll wear sarcastic T-shirts with those Happy Bunny phrases on them. At the mall I'd rather spend my time actually having real fun at the arcade. But seriously, is there something wrong with me because I despise all things that have been labeled as "feminine"?

I think every guy on here just feel in love with you.

 

[PemLam]

I think every guy on here just feel in love with you.

Ummm, no.

 

[Showtime]

It really isn't all that original to be Anti-Feminine anymore. That has been the cool thing to do for much of the 2000's.

 

[gogetter0587]

If you are to shy in public and you don't express your personality when around others. If you stay in your 'comfort zone', chatting online, you will have a very hard time finding someone who appreciates who you are.

 

[Showtime]

You're a real go-getter.

 

[Knightsaber Priss]

you are a tomboy, there is nothing wrong with that. I personally can't stand Sex and the City or Mamma Mia!(although I love abba).

Yes, I love ABBA music as well. It's kind of weird because of my personality. But spin some ABBA and I'm dancing (Very badly.) along with the music. It's just that I can't get into that musical Mama Mia! at all.

You sound too good to be true. It makes me wonder...what's really wrong with you?

Trust me, I'm not going to make myself out to be 100% without flaws. I think I listed a lot of my less than stellar personality traits, such as my shyness and my feisty stubborn nature. But realistically, no one is ever going to be perfect like something out of a 50's Family Sitcom. People are people regardless of their gender and we are prone to our emotions.

I'm honestly just shocked that you are a female. I've known you on these boards for awhile and I had no idea. Must be the user name.

But no, there is nothing wrong with you.

You know, I get this an awful lot from a lot of newbies who assume because of my spunky nature I am a guy and yes my user name does disguise my gender. But here's a fairly recent picture of me if you want to know.

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v83/Godzilla2000/MeUpdated.jpg

I think every guy on here just feel in love with you.

Oh no! To most girls this might seem like a good thing, but for me it's a little scary. I mean if this were a real life situation, I'd be sort of scared of choosing because no matter who I'm with there will be a path of broken hearts left in our wake. And being the compassionate soul I am I'd feel just a tad bit guilty of causing such pain.

If you are to shy in public and you don't express your personality when around others. If you stay in your 'comfort zone', chatting online, you will have a very hard time finding someone who appreciates who you are.

I don't really know about that anymore. I think someone has found me instead (I do work at a public place where I see a lot of people come and go.) but I'm not 100% certain yet until I can place a name and a face. That's how secret crushes go.

 

[C.F. Kane]

So, you're think there's something wrong with you because you don't adhere to what the popular media defines as "feminine".

I fail to see a problem.

 

[bullets]

the only problem is assuming every girl likes to watch lifetime and shop for clothes .

 

[Gilpesh]

I guess I should make an admission...but I do like ABBA music (Eeeep!) but not Mamma Mia!

There is something wrong with you. Feel bad.