What would you consider cheating?

[Lunar_Wolf]

I think we all pretty much agree when your partner has sexual interactions with a another girl i.e Kissing, foreplay, ex etc

But what about other things? Do you mind your partner watching porn? Let's take it a step further, do you mind your partner watching live cams, where women strip?(not talking about chatting, just watching) or what about strip clubs?


Where do YOU draw the line?

 

[AndThePickles]

I don't care about porn and strip clubs. Heck, I've watched/been to both WITH my sig other, and it's always a good time.

I think that in terms of a lot of "visuals," a lot of it depends on people's mindsets. If it's a situation where when someone is watching these women and hardcore fantasizing about being with them instead of their partner, that's not cool. If you're drooling after someone else THAT much, perhaps you don't truly want to be with your partner.

And with things such as porn and strip clubs, if it is to the point where it's negatively affecting your relationship, clearly, something is wrong. Moderation is important with everything in life. If, for example, someone is addicted to porn, that will certainly negatively impact their sex life.

I've never thought about web cams...that's kinda weird. Hmm. Do you mean a one on one situation? I actually don't care for that idea because it makes it a bit too "personal." Strip clubs = women doing it for money and not giving a crap about who is watching. Porn = obviously pre-recorded and impersonal.

You're opening a huge can of worms, btw...this is a very sensitive topic for most people! haha

 

[Aesop Rocks]

If you're going to cheat, at any level, even if it's playing vidya games with ya lady, U BEST BE GETTIN' SINGLE.

 

[Harry_Lime02]

Frankly I consider looking at a cucumber for longer than two seconds cheating.

 

[Jack O'Lantern]

I probably wouldnt mind as long as it wasnt going on behind my back.

 

[Erzengel]

One of my ex's as well as one of my friend's wife abhor pornography. From it's wrong, to the whole, if you have me why don you need this?

I have a fine line, no physical/intimate contact and essentially don't treat someone else the way you treat your partner, in terms of emotional bonding.

Also we both have friends of the opposite sex and as long as we are open about who we are going out and there is none of the aforementioned touching or connecting, then everything is cool.

 

[BizarroAids]

Thread title is deceiving!!

Because I wanted to say "HELL F***IN YES"

My chick watches porn, gets pissed if I do, and also has an account on AFF. Why? No clue. It's ****ish in my book.