Women, Men, SEX, Most common,....

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  1. Varient Guru for Geeks

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    Source : http://www.citynews.ca/news/news_13359.aspx

    What Got my attention were the similarities in placement.
    Top 50 Reasons For Having Sex

    Women/Men

    1. I was attracted to the person/I was attracted to the person
    2. I wanted to experience the physical pleasure/It feels good
    3. It feels good/I wanted to experience the physical pleasure
    4. I wanted to show my affection to the person/It's fun
    5. I wanted to express my love for the person/I wanted to show my affection to the person
    6. I was sexually aroused and wanted the release/I was sexually aroused and wanted the release
    7. I was "horny"/I was "horny"
    8. It's fun/ I wanted to express my love for the person
    9. I realized I was in love/I wanted to achieve an orgasm
    10. I was "in the heat of the moment"/I wanted to please my partner

    11. I wanted to please my partner/The person's physical appearance turned me on
    12. I desired emotional closeness (i.e., intimacy)/I wanted the pure pleasure
    13. I wanted the pure pleasure/I was "in the heat of the moment"
    14. I wanted to achieve an orgasm/I desired emotional closeness (i.e., intimacy)
    15. It's exciting, adventurous/It's exciting, adventurous
    16. I wanted to feel connected to the person/The person had a desirable body
    17. The person's physical appearance turned me on /I realized I was in love
    18. It was a romantic setting/The person had an attractive face
    19. The person really desired me/The person really desired me
    20. The person made me feel sexy/I wanted the adventure/excitement

    21. The person caressed me/I wanted to feel connected to the person
    22. It seemed like the natural next step in my relationship/I wanted the experience
    23. I wanted to become one with another person/It was a romantic setting
    24. It just happened/The person caressed me
    25. I wanted to increase the emotional bond by having sex/The person made me feel sexy
    26. I wanted the experience/It seemed like the natural next step in my relationship
    27. I wanted the adventure-excitement/ I wanted to increase the emotional bond by having sex
    28. The person had an attractive face/I wanted to keep my partner satisfied
    29. The person was a good kisser/The opportunity presented itself
    30. I wanted to intensify my relationship/It just happened

    31. My hormones were out of control/I wanted to intensify my relationship
    32. I wanted to try out new sexual techniques or positions/I wanted to try out new sexual techniques or positions
    33. I wanted to feel loved/My hormones were out of control
    34. The person had a desirable body/The person was too "hot" to resist
    35. I wanted to celebrate a birthday or anniversary or special occasion/I was curious about my sexual abilities
    36. I wanted to communicate at a "deeper" level/I wanted to improve my sexual skills
    37. I was curious about sex/I wanted to become one with another person
    38. It was a special occasion/I saw the person naked and could not resist
    39. The person was intelligent/The person was a good kisser
    40. I wanted to say "I've missed you"/I wanted to feel loved

    41. I wanted to keep my partner satisfied/I wanted to celebrate a birthday or anniversary or special occasion
    42. I got "carried away"/The person was too physically attractive to resist
    43. The opportunity presented itself/It was a special occasion
    44. The person had a great sense of humour/I hadn't had sex for a while
    45. I wanted to improve my sexual skills/The person had beautiful eyes
    46. I was curious about my sexual abilities/I wanted to communicate at a "deeper" level 47. The person seemed self-confident/I wanted to experiment with new experiences
    48. I wanted to make up after a fight/The person was intelligent
    49. I was drunk/I wanted to keep my partner happy
    50. I was turned on by the sexual conversation/I was curious about what the person was like in bed

    Most infrequent reasons for having sex

    Women/Men

    1. I wanted to give someone else a sexually transmitted disease/The person offered to give me drugs for doing it
    2. Someone offered me money to do it/I wanted to give someone else a sexually transmitted disease
    3. I wanted to get a raise/I wanted to punish myself
    4. It was an initiation rite to a club or organization/I wanted to breakup my relationship
    5. I wanted to get a job/I wanted to get a job
    6. I wanted to get a promotion /It was an initiation rite to a club or organization
    7. The person offered to give me drugs for doing it/Someone offered me money to do it
    8. I wanted to punish myself/ I was afraid to say "no" due to the possibility of physical
    harm
    9. I wanted to hurt-humiliate the person/I wanted to make money
    10. I wanted to feel closer to God/I wanted to feel closer to God

    11. I wanted to breakup my relationship/I wanted to get a raise
    12. I wanted to breakup another's relationship/I wanted to hurt/humiliate the person
    13. I wanted to be used or degraded/Because of a bet
    14. I wanted to gain access to that person's friend/I wanted to breakup another's relationship
    15. I wanted to get a favor from someone/I wanted to get a promotion
    16. I wanted to enhance my reputation/I wanted to hurt an enemy
    17. It would get me gifts/It would get me gifts
    18. I wanted to make money/The person had a lot of money
    19. I wanted to hurt an enemy/I wanted to be used or degraded
    20. Because of a bet/I wanted to break up a rival's relationship by having sex with his/her partner
    21. It was a favor to someone/I wanted to get rid of a headache
    22. I wanted to end the relationship/It would damage my reputation if I said "no"
    23. I wanted to break up a rival's relationship by having sex with his-her partner/I wanted to get back at my partner for having cheated on me
    24. It would damage my reputation if I said "no"/ I felt sorry for the person
    25. The person had a lot of money/I wanted to gain access to that person's friend
    26. Someone dared me/I wanted to be popular
    27. I wanted to have more sex than my friends/I was physically forced to
    28. I wanted to even the score with a cheating partner/I felt jealous
    29. I thought it would boost my social status/The person bought me jewelry
    30. I wanted to be popular/I wanted to end the relationship

    31. I wanted to get a special favor from someone/My friends pressured me into it
    32. I was afraid to say "no" due to the possibility of physical harm/It was a favor to someone
    33. I wanted to relieve menstrual cramps/I wanted to get a favor from someone
    34. My friends pressured me into it/Someone dared me
    35. I felt sorry for the person/I wanted to avoid hurting someone's feelings
    36. I felt jealous/My regular partner is boring, so I had sex with someone else
    37. My regular partner is boring, so I had sex with someone else/I wanted to be popular
    38. I wanted to get rid of a headache/I felt guilty
    39. I wanted to change the topic of conversation/I wanted to enhance my reputation
    40. The person had too much to drink and I was able to take advantage of them/I wanted to gain acceptance from friends

    41. I wanted to impress friends/I thought it would boost my social status
    42. The person was famous and I wanted to be able to say I had sex with him-her/I thought it would help "trap" a new partner
    43. I wanted to get out of doing something/I was mad at my partner, so I had sex with someone else
    44. I wanted to get even with someone/I wanted to get out of doing something
    45. I wanted to make someone else jealous/I wanted to have a child
    46. I was competing with someone else to "get the person"/I wanted to make someone else jealous
    47. I thought it would help "trap" a new partner/I wanted to change the topic of conversation
    48. I was slumming/I wanted to defy my parents
    49. I wanted to brag to friends about my conquests/I wanted to stop my partner's nagging
    50. The person demanded that I have sex with him-her/I wanted to manipulate him/her into doing something for me
     
  2. November Rain Single Mother

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    there aren't a hundred reasons to have sex....

    alot of those points could easily be combined or are just re-worded...
     
  3. Varient Guru for Geeks

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    The Study just compared the reasons each gender did or did not and put them in order of pref side by side.

    For example - the Number one reason for both was the same,...
    So was # 6,7, and 15.

    Interesting.
     
  4. Eggyman The Oval Avenger

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    O rly?

    :D
     

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