why do some girls like to get choked when having sex?

[kainedamo]

Part of my problem with relationships is probably my dyspraxia.

Speech difficulties
Adults with dyspraxia can also experience other difficulties. These include:

Relationship difficulties - for example, difficulties fitting into new groups, problems understanding body language. The result is that adults can become isolated and withdrawn. Those who have dyspraxia often try too hard to make relationships work.

I'm screwed.

 

[Kyalesyin]

Maybe I need a woman.

I'm probably slightly biased on the issue, but I'd definitley recomend it.

#1: She'll understand periods far better than even the most educated man could
#2: She'll know enough about clothing sizes to be able to help you shop
#3: She'll more than likely know how to shop
#4: You can have a girls night in, without needing to invite anyone over
#5: When you're both having mood swings at once, its actually easier because nobody is to blame. If you have a boyfriend, its automatically his fault, and that makes things messy.
#6: Maybe this is just me, but I've always found girls are better at cuddling- post nightmare, post 'bad day', post sex, the cuddling always works better. Guys never seem to be so tactile.

As I said, I'm probably biased, but I've always done better with girlfriends.

 

[hotmail]

I haven't had the time to read all the posts, but it's my understanding that it basically comes down to what females find sexy about the male.

A male that has the ability and power to hurt somebody, but doesn't do so makes him sexy in a female's eyes.

So in that sense, a woman might get off on a man who chokes her close to submission, but doesn't go beyond that point.

 

[Kyalesyin]

Part of my problem with relationships is probably my dyspraxia.

Speech difficulties
Adults with dyspraxia can also experience other difficulties. These include:

Relationship difficulties - for example, difficulties fitting into new groups, problems understanding body language. The result is that adults can become isolated and withdrawn. Those who have dyspraxia often try too hard to make relationships work.

I'm screwed.

Trust me, I do know what you mean. Ausperger's syndrome runs in my family. I am the most socially clumsy person you will ever meet- speech, body language, all too complex. Is it any wonder that most of my friends are online? I also have the worst stutter ever with people I don't know.

 

[X-Chick]

I'm probably slightly biased on the issue, but I'd definitley recomend it.

#1: She'll understand periods far better than even the most educated man could
#2: She'll know enough about clothing sizes to be able to help you shop
#3: She'll more than likely know how to shop
#4: You can have a girls night in, without needing to invite anyone over
#5: When you're both having mood swings at once, its actually easier because nobody is to blame. If you have a boyfriend, its automatically his fault, and that makes things messy.
#6: Maybe this is just me, but I've always found girls are better at cuddling- post nightmare, post 'bad day', post sex, the cuddling always works better. Guys never seem to be so tactile.

As I said, I'm probably biased, but I've always done better with girlfriends.

That's so true. My fiance pisses me off when it comes to clothes shopping because depending on his mood, he either likes or dislikes every single thing I try on. He's not bad at cuddling, but he could be better. I think I'd miss man-woman sex though.

 

[Kyalesyin]

*confused* Well:



Did I misread this? lol

Oh crap... sorry, I'm coming up to a bad anniversary, which is why I've eaten my blood sugar up to sky-high and I'm not sleeping. I started having sex with my Stef when I was 14, but in terms of history... goes back a long way and probably accounts for a lot of my self-destructiveness

 

[Kritish]

I've never understood the whole pain aspect of sex. Perhaps I'm just boring.

 

[Kyalesyin]

That's so true. My fiance pisses me off when it comes to clothes shopping because depending on his mood, he either likes or dislikes every single thing I try on. He's not bad at cuddling, but he could be better. I think I'd miss man-woman sex though.

To be honest, the sex takes a back seat to the emotional side. Sure, in the first few months we lived for it, but now were happy to lay in bed and talk about sex more than we bother to have it.

Besides, a little bit of practice with a strap-on and it isn't all that different. In my case, more fun, becuase I get to play with boobs too.

 

[X-Chick]

I've never understood the whole pain aspect of sex. Perhaps I'm just boring.

Have you ever tried it? Biting? Scratching? Its been my experience that nearly all men like the whole nails down the back thing though I could never get why.

 

[Kritish]

Have you ever tried it? Biting? Scratching? Its been my experience that nearly all men like the whole nails down the back thing though I could never get why.

I don't like pain.

 

[X-Chick]

To be honest, the sex takes a back seat to the emotional side. Sure, in the first few months we lived for it, but now were happy to lay in bed and talk about sex more than we bother to have it.

Besides, a little bit of practice with a strap-on and it isn't all that different. In my case, more fun, becuase I get to play with boobs too.

You're awesome.

I'm pretty happy with my guy, though. I get the best of both worlds with him.

 

[Kyalesyin]

Have you ever tried it? Biting? Scratching? Its been my experience that nearly all men like the whole nails down the back thing though I could never get why.

Ironically enough, it was a gay friend of mine that recomended the biting. His exact words were 'if you ever do it from behind, ask her to bite you on the back of the neck, lion-style. You'll never go back.'

He was very, very right.

 

[kainedamo]

Trust me, I do know what you mean. Ausperger's syndrome runs in my family. I am the most socially clumsy person you will ever meet- speech, body language, all too complex. Is it any wonder that most of my friends are online? I also have the worst stutter ever with people I don't know.

That sucks. I'm socially awkward, but in a different way. Dyspraxia is an odd disability that I don't even fully understand. When someone else is talking, I'll loose track of what they're saying. I have a tendancy to interrupt people - I believe this is because I can't read body language well and don't pick up other signals and don't know when it's my "turn" to speak. So, because it appears that I don't listen, and because I interrupt people, people think I'm being ignorant and rude. I also feel insecure sometimes and don't really know what to say to people. And I definately try too hard sometimes. When I was in Vienna, I talked to this Australian girl in a bar and basically made an ass of myself, rambiling on and on changing subjects rapidly.

 

[X-Chick]

I don't like pain.

*****.

 

[Kyalesyin]

You're awesome.

I'm pretty happy with my guy, though. I get the best of both worlds with him.

Fair enough. If it makes you happy, thats what counts. Besides, with any relationship, a big section of it is simply training your partner to your needs. Works both ways.

 

[X-Chick]

Ironically enough, it was a gay friend of mine that recomended the biting. His exact words were 'if you ever do it from behind, ask her to bite you on the back of the neck, lion-style. You'll never go back.'

He was very, very right.

Gay men give the best sex advice ever. One of my close gay friends told me how to give a perfect *******.

 

[GunBlade]

Ky, are you bisexual or gay? Not craving penis once in a while seems other-worldly.

 

[Kyalesyin]

That sucks. I'm socially awkward, but in a different way. Dyspraxia is an odd disability that I don't even fully understand. When someone else is talking, I'll loose track of what they're saying. I have a tendancy to interrupt people - I believe this is because I can't read body language well and don't pick up other signals and don't know when it's my "turn" to speak. So, because it appears that I don't listen, and because I interrupt people, people think I'm being ignorant and rude. I also feel insecure sometimes and don't really know what to say to people. And I definately try too hard sometimes. When I was in Vienna, I talked to this Australian girl in a bar and basically made an ass of myself, rambiling on and on changing subjects rapidly.

My brother... I'm serious man, you and me should have a conversation face to face sometime. The only time I can talk properly is if I'm giving a presentation to a group I have academic authority over. Then, you can't stop me or get me off topic.

 

[kainedamo]

You're awesome.

I'm pretty happy with my guy, though. I get the best of both worlds with him.

He has boobs?

 

[X-Chick]

Ky, are you bisexual or gay? Not craving penis once in a while seems other-worldly.

While we're on the subject of gay women, do you think its true that women can choose which sex they prefer or just go back and forth? I mean for guys, either they are gay, bi, or straight, there's really no middle ground. But with women, I only know of one woman over the age of 18 who has never done anything sexual with another woman.

 

[X-Chick]

He has boobs?

No, he has pecs.

 

[Kritish]

While we're on the subject of gay women, do you think its true that women can choose which sex they prefer or just go back and forth? I mean for guys, either they are gay, bi, or straight, there's really no middle ground. But with women, I only know of one woman over the age of 18 who has never done anything sexual with another woman.

True, but most of those women are drunk, in clubs and have a camera in their faces. 95% of the time their just trying to get attention.

 

[Golgo-13]

While we're on the subject of gay women, do you think its true that women can choose which sex they prefer or just go back and forth? I mean for guys, either they are gay, bi, or straight, there's really no middle ground. But with women, I only know of one woman over the age of 18 who has never done anything sexual with another woman.

I thinks it's the same with woman, just as it is with men. Either you are or your not gay.

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

Strykez you've been in this thread way to long.

Actually, I was in the shower, but forgot to close this window. So while the Hype system may have I said I've been "reading" this thread for the last 45 minutes or so...I haven't.

I'm back now however, zestfully clean.

 

[Kritish]

Trust me, I do know what you mean. Ausperger's syndrome runs in my family. I am the most socially clumsy person you will ever meet- speech, body language, all too complex. Is it any wonder that most of my friends are online? I also have the worst stutter ever with people I don't know.

You're better than me, I just plain dislike most people.

*****.

Can we just cuddle?