Why Do Girls Like jerks?

[ShadowBoxing]

These pickup artists teach people how to EMULATE THEIR PERSONALITY. That's how they make money, go pickup some of their works (BTW, heres a list and photos of the major PUAs).

All pretty weird looking by modern standards.

However what they do to make money is their business, it's not what they do to make women. That's like trying to argue and bad personal trainer isn't actually buff when he obviously is. They may not be great teachers, but they obviously follow the basic rules I set down.

You could argue this is not the same as molding yourself to a women's desire. But at the end of the day, you have no self-identity. You are just pretending to be (or somewhat like) Mystery or Juggler, and their lives are built on the Speed Seduction of women (that's how they make money). But that's not how every men are built. That's the rub. That's the problem.

Wrong, some people immitate. But some of us, like myself, are able to grasp a concept behind what those guys are saying. I never onced used one of their routines, at least not without my own personal modification. If other people pay (and I have never bought any of their books besides Style's biography) to emulate them that's no different from idiot trainers who attempt to copy Arnold Schwarzenegger. Arnold wrote several books detailing his method of training, advocating his method, but any seasoned bodybuilder knows the basic principles behind his method and doesn't do it word for word (assuming the subscribe to SPLIT training at all...I advocate split though).

 

[terry78]

Playing on men and women's insecurities is a business tactic that will never phase itself out. We spend millions attempting to better ourselves or showcase to the other sex that we're the best our gender has to offer, and they know it. If you've never done this, I want you to just go up to a random female you find attractive, and just strike up a conversation, relating to what she's doing, or a question you may have. Either she shoots you down or you continue to talk. That's the most basic way to do it, minus the rigmarole.

 

[Paradoxium]

All pretty weird looking by modern standards.

However what they do to make money is their business, it's not what they do to make women. That's like trying to argue and bad personal trainer isn't actually buff when he obviously is. They may not be great teachers, but they obviously follow the basic rules I set down.

Wrong, some people immitate. But some of us, like myself, are able to grasp a concept behind what those guys are saying. I never onced used one of their routines, at least not without my own personal modification. If other people pay (and I have never bought any of their books besides Style's biography) to emulate them that's no different from idiot trainers who attempt to copy Arnold Schwarzenegger. Arnold wrote several books detailing his method of training, advocating his method, but any seasoned bodybuilder knows the basic principles behind his method and doesn't do it word for word (assuming the subscribe to SPLIT training at all...I advocate split though).

That depends on what basic rules, the idea of "Speed Seduction" or some of the social interaction skills involved. For me there is a big difference between those two. The former is more problematic.

SS is good for the short-term. But it holds no substance in the long term. You will find most SS material does not teach you LTR. The Anti-Dump machine is more useful for LTR. You must evaluate the girl. If she disrespects you and shows low interest, you DUMP her and move on to the next girl. You see the difference I am trying to get at? SS is more interested in getting her to latch on to you (while being a lot more successful than the AFC).

Here is a post worth looking at. None of that zen-testosterone mumbojumbo. I know I am sounding like a Pook lapdog but its more recent.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=77446

EXCERPT

Nice Guys measure themselves based on their degree of chivalry. "I am so nice to her!" they take as pride. They wish only to be nicer to women then they actually are!

Materialists measure their masculinity based on their paycheck. "Look at me!" says the salesman, working god-awful shifts. "I am making so much money!" If someone is making less money then they are, they are an idiot. If someone is making more money then they are, then they are to be treated as a demi-god.

Citizen *****s (my name) for the Seducer/ Player types measure their masculinity based on how many girls they can sleep with. They demand 'proof' and 'reports' of "conquests" from everyone.

Shining Stars are the type of people who want to be socially superior to others. These type of people start off in life as tattletalers. But they nevertheless end up going into journalism, law, running for political office, not because they want to but because they measure themselves based on how other people see them. These people have some fame but nothing lasting. Many irrelevant rockstars, actors, and artists fit in this condition. They become, at best, a Ben Jonson, but never a Shakespeare. Their success is short-lived. They also become famous because they fall, as shining stars are meant to do.

Gentlemen, what do all four of these have in common? They are structures built around women.

In a woman's life, she will go through all four of these types, as all four types serve her purposes. The Nice Guy is easily exploited (by her and rest of society). Materialists give her the gifts and things she thinks she 'needs'. Shining Stars give her the illusion of success (why get a doctorate when you can just marry a professor?) And Citizen *****s are the mutual *********ion as she goes through these guys.

All these guys profess they are happy, that they are the ONLY ones living the 'true' life and ALL others are living a life of shame. They are happy but not joyful. Their happiness is that of an addiction, the addiction is to feminine praise. When it is not there, these males become depressed. The four 'structures' are simply means of getting feminine praise, in some form or another.

 

[Venom'sDad]

I was talking to some of my coworkers at work and one of them who happens to be a female (Katy)was telling how guys should act towards women.She was saying that girls like guys who are confident ect and this guy kind of interrupts and says "act like a a$$hole", that'll work. Even Katy admiited that girls like jerks which sucks becuase nice guys like me never get anywhere. It's been like that all of my life. I can never get the girl that I want but I get the left overs(you know what I mean) instead.

Ladies, why do like guys that act like *******s?

Opposites attracts

 

[terry78]

Opposites attracts

 

[Muze]

mannnn, i wish i were a citizen *****.

 

[El ASESINO]

I'm not a jerk
And girls like

I'm the guy that opens the door to them
And makes them feel important

 

[Kritish]

Pretty much what I was gonna say. An asshloe is fun to play around with, but you get outta there before the ego takes over. Works the same way with girls, believe it or not. Every other lesbian I run accross say 'I always prefer to play with *****y girls' and its so not fun.

Aw Kaz you naughty minx, how am I going to turn you straight?:heart: