why do some girls like to get choked when having sex?

[Liquid Snake]

yea i have sex too....

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

I'm willing to bet at least some of them didn't sound very fun or sexy to you.

jag

Perhaps. Perhaps not. I'm actually rather extroverted when it comes to physics. I didn't mean there are literally "only" three things I would never do. I mentioned there were three things that others brought up in this discussion here that I wouldn't get any pleasure from. For example, sexual defacation...disgusts me. I don't care how horny I may be...I don't play with scat.

However, the key words in my previous post were "selective freakiness". Meaning freaky practices are nearly limitless in their scope; but it's up to the persons involved to set the boundaries. We all have such limits...although limits may vary from person to person.

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

[Michael Hutchence]BOOOoooOOOooOOOoo[/Michael Hutchence]

 

[Halcohol]

Bad idea. Read my post in this thread about breath play and how it can bring on sudden coronary attack in ANYONE be they young or old, fit or out of shape by changing the pH composition of their blood even hours after they finished said sexual asphyxiation. This just isn't something to just take lightly. People die on a regular basis from strangulation play because of this factor.

jag

Obviously it's a serious issue. You can't really be 100% safe when you're choking someone, hell, how many grade 3 kids die each year because they think it's fun to make themselves pass out? But again, if she says "Choke me!"... just do it.

Carefully

Halcohol, You had me up until you quoted that horrible, HORRIBLE Three Days Grace song.

I can live with that. I get off on being disappointing. So far, it's worked out well for me.

 

[jaguarr]

Perhaps. Perhaps not. I'm actually rather extroverted when it comes to physics. I didn't mean there are literally "only" three things I would never do. I mentioned there were three things that others brought up in this discussion here that I wouldn't get any pleasure from. For example, sexual defacation...disgusts me. I don't care how horny I may be...I don't play with scat.

However, the key words in my previous post were "selective freakiness". Meaning freaky practices are nearly limitless in their scope; but it's up to the persons involved to set the boundaries. We all have such limits...although limits may vary from person to person.

Well, why didn't you just say that in the first place, then?

Obviously it's a serious issue. You can't really be 100% safe when you're choking someone, hell, how many grade 3 kids die each year because they think it's fun to make themselves pass out? But again, if she says "Choke me!"... just do it.

Carefully

Read the article I posted. There IS no carefully in the equation where strangulation play is concerned.

jag

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

[Michael Hutchence]BOOOoooOOOooOOOoo[/Michael Hutchence]

I was sleeping with a woman who did fetish shows at one of the underground clubs downtown, really freaky **** like being hung upside down from the roof and whipped... not only did I find out that I kinda like that sort of thing, but I look damn good in a fishnet shirt, too.

LMAO!!!! Bwhahahahah!!

Well, why didn't you just say that in the first place, then?

It would've defeated the fricking purpose!!

 

[jaguarr]

It would've defeated the fricking purpose!!

It would have kept you from getting called out.

jag

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

It would have kept you from getting called out.

jag

Whutebah. Ya'll weren't trying to call me out...

Spoiler

Ya'll were trying to see how far I get down with mine! Don't front!

 

[jaguarr]

I ain't frontin'! I seek only understanding and you needed a prod to communicate more effectively so I could do that!

jag

 

[Lazlo Panaflex]

My girlfriend likes it when I bite her nipples.

 

[Halcohol]

My girlfriend likes it when I bite her nipples.

Most chicks do.

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

I ain't frontin'! I seek only understanding and you needed a prod to communicate more effectively so I could do that!

jag

Yeah, but considering the position I'm in, my hands are tied!

 

[Lackey]

Lightning Strykez and Morg = creepy ass ****s

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

Lightning Strykez and Morg = creepy ass ****s

*looks at thread title*

Ya know, it takes a creepy ass **** to even take an interest in and click on a subject like this.

*looks at you*

Don't throw stones...you're surrounded by glass playa.

 

[Kyalesyin]

Most chicks do.

Are you kidding? They end up sore for WEEKS if you do that. Why do you think women stop breastfeeding when babies grow teeth? Thats one of the areas I don't get bitten.

 

[Golgo-13]

Only three? Everything else if fair game, then? How about cuckolding? You down with being cuckolded? How about play-piercing? You cool with your genitalia being used as a pin cushion for surgical needles? How about a menstrual fetish? Got your red wings, yet? What about adult baby play? What size diapers do you wear? You cool with being used as a human ashtray? I could go on, but I think you get the gist. There's a whole lot of things out there that people eroticize. Those are all real fetishes and I'm willing to bet at least some of them didn't sound very fun or sexy to you.

jag

Wow! that's quite a resume you have there jag. Sounds like your a well rounded (and sick as ****) kinda guy..

 

[jaguarr]

Wow! that's quite a resume you have there jag. Sounds like your a well rounded (and sick as ****) kinda guy..

Reading comprehension isn't your strong suit, is it?

jag

 

[AndThePickles]

Are you kidding? They end up sore for WEEKS if you do that. Why do you think women stop breastfeeding when babies grow teeth? Thats one of the areas I don't get bitten.

Damn, you must get bitten pretty hard then!!! I think that "nibbling" is a better thing.

 

[Lackey]

*looks at thread title*

Ya know, it takes a creepy ass **** to even take an interest in and click on a subject like this.

*looks at you*

Don't throw stones...you're surrounded by glass playa.

said just like a creepy ass ****

You and Morg must go to the same meetings.

 

[Kyalesyin]

Damn, you must get bitten pretty hard then!!! I think that "nibbling" is a better thing.

Not even that hard. A tweak is enough to make em painful for a day or so. I'm wondering though if my oversensitive nipples are anything to do with the other random mutations, like my toenails of doom and the extra little finger I was born with...

 

[BRUTAL]

Reading comprehension isn't your strong suit, is it?

jag

I have a suit, but it's Blue not strong...

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

Reading comprehension isn't your strong suit, is it?

jag

I was wondering how you'd reply to that. Although I must admit that I spit my coke when you mentioned cuckolding and red wings. I was like, "Well Gaaaahhh-DAYUM, is there anything you don't know about???"

Then--in an instant--I felt sad and dirty. Because I knew that those things were.

 

[AndThePickles]

Large utensils are in this spring

Indeed

 

[jaguarr]

I was wondering how you'd reply to that. Although I must admit that I spit my coke when you mentioned cuckolding and red wings. I was like, "Well Gaaaahhh-DAYUM, is there anything you don't know about???"

Then--in an instant--I felt sad and dirty. Because I knew that those things were.

Well, you and I are both in our thirties. We've had time to mature past the giddy teenage/early-twenties notion of just getting laid and at least learn about some of the more adventurous and sophisticated aspects of sexual deviancy if not explore some of it ourselves. I've seen and experienced a lot of crazy things in my days, many of which I very much enjoyed and some others I could go without repeating. None of that's really a conversation many people on this particular forum are probably mature enough to have, though; sort of the wrong place for such a discussion. But, when I see certain topics come up that I might be able to offer some insight and education for, I try to chime in and dispell any misconceptions I might see taking place.

jag

 

[Kyalesyin]

Its a shame the hype doesn't award some posters medals... I know who I'd nominate.

Saying that, I'm still waiting for Tai to walk in here.