why do some girls like to get choked when having sex?

[Halcohol]

Not even that hard. A tweak is enough to make em painful for a day or so. I'm wondering though if my oversensitive nipples are anything to do with the other random mutations, like my toenails of doom and the extra little finger I was born with...

That's hot.

Then--in an instant--I felt sad and dirty. Because I knew that those things were.

Is it wrong that I did as well? Then I felt kinda bad because I HAD those things?

Have you ever tried it? Biting? Scratching? Its been my experience that nearly all men like the whole nails down the back thing though I could never get why.

Because it makes you feel alive... it's probably the hottest thing a woman could POSSIBLY do while we're... you know... ***king. I'm not even kidding, just the thought of it... MMM!

This is my new favourite thread.

 

[nosebleed.]

Because it makes you feel alive... it's probably the hottest thing a woman could POSSIBLY do while we're... you know... ***king. I'm not even kidding, just the thought of it... MMM!

I dunno about the feeling alive part...but it sure does make me feel like I'm doing something right when she just has to grab/scratch you like that. Grabbing the bedsheets is another good thing...unless you didn't hit the correct target or something.

 

[Halcohol]

I dunno about the feeling alive part...but it sure does make me feel like I'm doing something right when she just has to grab/scratch you like that. Grabbing the bedsheets is another good thing...unless you didn't hit the correct target or something.

That's EXACTLY what it is. It's validation that you know what you're doing.

 

[nosebleed.]

That's EXACTLY what it is. It's validation that you know what you're doing.

Ladies should ALWAYS validate. Validation is good...especially HONEST validation. Ladies...verbally validate your vaginal satisfaction.

 

[Halcohol]

Ladies should ALWAYS validate. Validation is good...especially HONEST validation. Ladies...verbally validate your vaginal satisfaction.

We guys have pretty fragile egos. We need everything we can get.

 

[nosebleed.]

Ladies don't have the same problem as guys do. They know if they are satisfying us...there are obvious signs. Guys need to read into it more...especially since each girl is satisfied differently.

 

[Halcohol]

Ladies don't have the same problem as guys do. They know if they are satisfying us...there are obvious signs. Guys need to read into it more...especially since each girl is satisfied differently.

As a guy, I'm perfectly willing to admit that I'm a complete idiot when it comes to women. Most of us are. Some guys have figured out the oh-so-subtle art of luring women into bed, but learning how to read women is something a man only obtains through experience.

 

[Hyper Venom]

what?!!?
i can't help that i was impregnated by a toothpaste tube!!

You're officially the coolest person on the Hype.

 

[Hyper Venom]

You know what I found disturbing? My ex liked to be choked/tied up/simulate rape during sex, and apparently she hadn't developed these fantasies/fetishes until after her previous boyfriend had raped her.

When she told me that, I couldn't even have sex with her for about a month. Just found it too disturbing.

 

[nosebleed.]

You know what I found disturbing? My ex liked to be choked/tied up/simulate rape during sex, and apparently she hadn't developed these fantasies/fetishes until after her previous boyfriend had raped her.

When she told me that, I couldn't even have sex with her for about a month. Just found it too disturbing.

wow...chick needs help.

after the month-long sabbatical did you hit it like she asked?

 

[heypapajinx]

You're officially the coolest person on the Hype.

awwww.... tanks.
:meow:
watch out, kittie bites.

You know what I found disturbing? My ex liked to be choked/tied up/simulate rape during sex, and apparently she hadn't developed these fantasies/fetishes until after her previous boyfriend had raped her.

When she told me that, I couldn't even have sex with her for about a month. Just found it too disturbing.

wow.....

that is indeed disturbing.

 

[Hyper Venom]

wow...chick needs help.

after the month-long sabbatical did you hit it like she asked?

First time we did it after that month, it was more or less normal. We didn't do anything that moved into the realm of kinky.

Thing is, my tastes tend to lend themselves toward the kinky side, but then I didn't feel comfortable doing anything even remotely kinky with her for awhile. To be honest, the entire time we were together our sexual relationship was somewhat uncomfortable to me. When we first got together, bringing up the subject of sex with her was awkward to me because she told me shortly after we got together that she had been molested as a child and still had flashbacks and nightmares about it. I was afraid I'd trigger a flashback or something. I know it sounds irrational, but at the time I had no idea how to react to such news.

 

[nosebleed.]

First time we did it after that month, it was more or less normal. We didn't do anything that moved into the realm of kinky.

Thing is, my tastes tend to lend themselves toward the kinky side, but then I didn't feel comfortable doing anything even remotely kinky with her for awhile. To be honest, the entire time we were together our sexual relationship was somewhat uncomfortable to me. When we first got together, bringing up the subject of sex with her was awkward to me because she told me shortly after we got together that she had been molested as a child and still had flashbacks and nightmares about it. I was afraid I'd trigger a flashback or something. I know it sounds irrational, but at the time I had no idea how to react to such news.

I feel you on that one. I used to go out with a chick who was molested by her dad when she was a kid. Her dad used to go down on her...messed her up pretty good. Sooo...I didn't know if she wanted me to go down on her and I was afraid to ask. Eventually I did and she responded positively...but it was damned awkward at first.

 

[kainedamo]

Yeesh!! I don't know how I'd feel if I had a girlfriend that had been molested. I think that would definately make sex a little awkward.

 

[Kyalesyin]

Yeesh!! I don't know how I'd feel if I had a girlfriend that had been molested. I think that would definately make sex a little awkward.

It can at first, but molestation and the sex you'll be having within the relationship are two very different things. What makes sex, although it seems to be more for women than men, is the emotional context. Molestation: Totally different context to consensual relationship.

 

[FaT_tONle]

It is all biological... they need the feeling that the man is dominant and can subdue her physically... it shows that animal instict of being "raped" by another male in the wild... so next time she wants to be tied up and beaten... just realize its how God intended it to be

 

[Lord Doom]

You know what I found disturbing? My ex liked to be choked/tied up/simulate rape during sex, and apparently she hadn't developed these fantasies/fetishes until after her previous boyfriend had raped her.

When she told me that, I couldn't even have sex with her for about a month. Just found it too disturbing.

Wow. I'm not sure how I'd react to something like that. I'm too nice of a guy to even pretend to rape someone. The whole idea of rape completely sickens and infuriates me.

 

[terry78]

Lightning, I may have to use that anal line for future reference.

"Come on, baby..anal is great! It's the sure fire way to make sure you won't get pregnant."

 

[Sugarculted]

Most of these posts reminds me of a girl on my course, whose boyfriend is actually 48. She's 18.

She invited a friend of mine to a club, where they'd chain her up and whip her.

What's the appeal, getting whipped by a beer bellied, pierced in various places, balding with ponytail 48 year old?

I just don't get it...

 

[terry78]

Most of these posts reminds me of a girl on my course, whose boyfriend is actually 48. She's 18.

She invited a friend of mine to a club, where they'd chain her up and whip her.

What's the appeal, getting whipped by a beer bellied, pierced in various places, balding with ponytail 48 year old?

I just don't get it...

Father issues? When the dude is like 3 decades older, I'm leaning towards daddy wasn't there, or was there too much, if you get me.

 

[Lord Doom]

Father issues? When the dude is like 3 decades older, I'm leaning towards daddy wasn't there, or was there too much, if you get me.

Eww...

 

[Abaddon]

Most of these posts reminds me of a girl on my course, whose boyfriend is actually 48. She's 18.

She invited a friend of mine to a club, where they'd chain her up and whip her.

What's the appeal, getting whipped by a beer bellied, pierced in various places, balding with ponytail 48 year old?

I just don't get it...

did he call her a rude little pig while he did it?

 

[Spider-Who?]

yikes.
i think the only girls that dig that are girls who have never been through a traumatic sexual experience.
*shrug*

Absolute BS.

I know plenty of girls who have had horrible sexual experiences (ie: rape, etc) but enjoy choking, spanking, cutting, etc.

Just because YOU dont understand how some people can get pleasure from something like that doesnt mean anything.

 

[Jolie_Desastre]

there are those types of women that want to make sweet gentle love....and others that want the pinned down, tied up, pushed against walls, hair-pulling, biting kind of romp. it also depends on their mood at that time.

some women just plain get off on the fact that they are not in control and helpless. when role playing, some tend to want to be tied up and be the helpless victim, while others love to do the opposite and take control.

i think the women that loved to be choked are really into the hardcore kinky ****..which they say is the best sex you can possibly have. there is no real answer for it, they just like it. just like some guys like to be whipped and chained..same thing.

 

[GoldenAgeHero]

i wonder if black guys like to get whipped and chained..