would you do it?

[heypapajinx]

if you were at a wedding, and you felt you had a good reason "why these two should not be wed"

would you speak up?
or forever hold your peace?

and i'm just dying to hear how you would say "i object", if you would indeed, say something.

 

[blind_fury]

I would object if it was a close family member and the groom was a known wife-beater.

 

[heypapajinx]

I would object if it was a close family member and the groom was a known wife-beater.

that is the only situation that you would speak up in?

 

[blind_fury]

Also if the groom was a pedophile or a republican.

 

[Caliber]

if you were at a wedding, and you felt you had a good reason "why these two should not be wed"

would you speak up?
or forever hold your peace?

and i'm just dying to hear how you would say "i object", if you would indeed, say something.

I would if it was someone close and they were going to make a big mistake by getting married.

 

[heypapajinx]

Also if the groom was a pedophile or a republican.

what if it was a friend and you knew they were wrong for eachother?
still not?

 

[heypapajinx]

I would if it was someone close and they were going to make a big mistake by getting married.

really!?!
how would you say it!?

 

[blind_fury]

what if it was a friend and you knew they were wrong for eachother?
still not?

That's something they need to find out on their own.

 

[ang_hulk]

That's something they need found out on their own.

thats true,it would have more of an impact BUT you could save them alot of cash and heart break by calling it out then,the thing is if you knew before the wedding it should be said then,if you found out the day do somthing about it before that question was asked.

 

[AndThePickles]

Wow, super hard question. I don't know if I could bring myself to do it!

 

[NewYorkSpider]

Would you do it? Or Do you want it? If you want it, you probably can't have it. If you don't have it, people just seem to know. Old Spice

 

[heypapajinx]

thats true,it would have more of an impact BUT you could save them alot of cash and heart break by calling it out then,the thing is if you knew before the wedding it should be said then,if you found out the day do somthing about it before that question was asked.

i concur.
but some might think that meddlesome.
it's a conundrum.

 

[Caliber]

really!?!
how would you say it!?

I object, I guess. Stop this abomination from continuing if I had time to think about it.

 

[heypapajinx]

Wow, super hard question. I don't know if I could bring myself to do it!

what situation might cause you to throw thow inhibitions out the window and speak up?

 

[heypapajinx]

Would you do it? Or Do you want it? If you want it, you probably can't have it. If you don't have it, people just seem to know. Old Spice

that's what you would say?
that would be one for the YouTube wedding video collection.

 

[heypapajinx]

I object, I guess. Stop this abomination from continuing if I had time to think about it.

 

[NewYorkSpider]

that's what you would say?
that would be one for the YouTube wedding video collection.

I'm just trying to promote the product. I'm also touring with John Mellencamp singing Our Country.

 

[AndThePickles]

what situation might cause you to throw thow inhibitions out the window and speak up?

Honestly, it would have to be something very extreme (like one of the people was a murderer or something) or I think I'd rather just wish them the best and then hope everything works out. I feel like waiting til the wedding to speak up is just plain........not tactful. If something really needs to be said, do it BEFORE the day of the wedding.

 

[Caliber]

How would you object?

 

[Hades]

Weeelll, if I did feeel something was wrong, I wouldn't address it during the wedding, in front of everybody. That would be hell.

Unless of course I was super pissed. Which I can see happen if I ever get invited to my friends marriages.

 

[blind_fury]

Also if I was deeply in love with the bride and felt she was my soulmate I would object.

how would i do it?

Mrs. Bouvier!!! Mrs.Bouvier!!! [/Grandpa Simpson]

 

[ScottyBBadd]

I would object if it was a close family member and the groom was a known wife-beater.

I agree there.

 

[heypapajinx]

How would you object?

i would yell out "NOOOOOOOOOO!!!!"

 

[CConn]

what if it was a friend and you knew they were wrong for eachother?
still not?

In that particular case, personally, I wouldn't wait until that pivotal moment at all. I'd talk to my friend before hand, and honestly tell them what I think, and tell them how strongly I believe in it, and let them decide if I'm full of it or not. If it changes their own thoughts, then great, it if doesn't, then I would respect my friend enough to trust his/her judgment.

If it were something more concrete (the bride/groom is abusive or a criminal, or whatever), yeah, I would definitely say something. Preferably before the wedding, but if that wasn't possible, I'd have no problem saying I object and saying whatever needed to be said.

 

[Caliber]

i would yell out "NOOOOOOOOOO!!!!"

That works and its simple.