would you do it?

[heypapajinx]

Honestly, it would have to be something very extreme (like one of the people was a murderer or something) or I think I'd rather just wish them the best and then hope everything works out. I feel like waiting til the wedding to speak up is just plain........not tactful. If something really needs to be said, do it BEFORE the day of the wedding.

good point.
what if you were secretly in love with them?
would you tell them before?
object and tell them during?
or just leave it alone?

 

[heypapajinx]

Weeelll, if I did feeel something was wrong, I wouldn't address it during the wedding, in front of everybody. That would be hell.

Unless of course I was super pissed. Which I can see happen if I ever get invited to my friends marriages.

what would piss you off enough to the point as to where you would say something.

 

[heypapajinx]

Also if I was deeply in love with the bride and felt she was my soulmate I would object.

how would i do it?

Mrs. Bouvier!!! Mrs.Bouvier!!! [/Grandpa Simpson]

YOU WOULD!?!?!
THAT'S AMAZING!
i was wondering if someone was going to say that.

 

[AndThePickles]

good point.
what if you were secretly in love with them?
would you tell them before?
object and tell them during?
or just leave it alone?

I think it would be childish to even approach them about secretly loving them.......and it would show that you don't truly love them that much. If you love someone you should want them to be the happiest they can be, even if it isn't with you. The fact that the person is getting married shows that hey, their true love is at the altar with them!

 

[heypapajinx]

In that particular case, personally, I wouldn't wait until that pivotal moment at all. I'd talk to my friend before hand, and honestly tell them what I think, and tell them how strongly I believe in it, and let them decide if I'm full of it or not. If it changes their own thoughts, then great, it if doesn't, then I would respect my friend enough to trust his/her judgment.

If it were something more concrete (the bride/groom is abusive or a criminal, or whatever), yeah, I would definitely say something. Preferably before the wedding, but if that wasn't possible, I'd have no problem saying I object and saying whatever needed to be said.

that sounds very reponsible.

That works and its simple.

yeah. i don't think it would work as well if i yelled out "KAHHHHHHHHHHN!"

 

[heypapajinx]

I think it would be childish to even approach them about secretly loving them.......and it would show that you don't truly love them that much. If you love someone you should want them to be the happiest they can be, even if it isn't with you. The fact that the person is getting married shows that hey, their true love is at the altar with them!

:heart:

 

[Hades]

what would piss you off enough to the point as to where you would say something.

Pissed as in drunk.

Lol, silly girl.

 

[Kaleb]

if I knew the bride or groom didnt really love the other person I would yell,but I would object mostly to see what happens,I mean do they stop the expensive wedding saying "oh well he objected,better luck next time"or would I get thrown out.I really want to see what would happen.

 

[Joker]

Also if the groom was a pedophile or a republican.

there's a difference??

 

[muertevilla]

nah its too much trouble to try and break up a wedding. if they are getting married then its obvious they dont want you...especially if you werent invited. let them be happy without you and move on. i dont care if its one of those John Cusak moments where you think the girl wants you to break up the wedding. : its lame and pathetic.

 

[Iceman]

If you're going to tell a couple they shouldn't be together for a particular reason do it before the wedding. If it's impossible to do so for some reason then only say something if the issue is serious enough to warrant it.

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

I'd object so fast it would make your head spin.

 

[Kaleb]

id object,then blame it on the person in front of me.

 

[Kaleb]

But honestly nobody really has a right to object,that person should have objected before the wedding,and that crap about seen your soulmate marry somebody else and objecting to it,well sorry obvously you should have done something sooner.

 

[jimmy]

I'd say something.

 

[Hunter Rider]

It would depend on how close i was to the person getting married

 

[Lord Valumart]

only if i were best man...and then only as a joke which would ruin the entire wedding but i would have had fun which is all that matters

 

[heypapajinx]

only if i were best man...and then only as a joke which would ruin the entire wedding but i would have had fun which is all that matters

that's the spirit!
you only live once!t:

 

[Lord Valumart]

that's the spirit!
you only live once!t:

damn right!

and it may come sooner that i think

 

[jimmy]

It is said that one only lives twice -- once when born; again before death.

 

[Bastila]

I would or I would talk to either the groom or bride before, depening on which one had to know the reason why they couldn't get married, but either way yes I would, or just for fun really lol.
I am going to a wedding this month as well lol.
There sooooo boring hehe.

 

[Sensi]

I probably would have already tried to talk to them before the wedding; so at the wedding I would be quiet. It is their lives not mine.

 

[SLVRSR4]

After drinking for a few hours i would probably stumble up to the altar and say don't do it man! Remember how that stripper was all over you!? We can still enjoy that man. This girl is just going to let herself go after this man! man man man!

 

[kytrigger]

No I wouldn't say anything. If for some reason I had onfo tht the marriage would be a bad idea, I would tell them before the wedding started, not during.

 

[Kritish]

Also if the groom was a pedophile or a republican.

You mean those aren't the same things?

*cough* Mark Folly