Tmob - The reason Dew is the one to come in here right now is b/c she seems to be the only one that doesn't get swamped with harassment when trying to deal with some oldbie posters in this manner. As i said when the other Mundi thread was closed, all you have to do is tone down the sexual stuff and it's fine, stuff about *****s, sex with minors and rape is not appreciated here, beyond that there isn't any major issues.
Hey hunter...
I would say your initial comment is untrue, as least from my end, because when you dealt with me during the closing of the Rex Mundi thread, even though I barely know you, I treated you with respect because you came across with the same type of respect in your PM's...
We don't specifically need Heather to calm heads here, we need level headed mods that have the ability to recognize when a joke is a joke, and to not get bent when the joke goes overboard. And the convo's between you and me are proof (at least where I am concerned) that what I just wrote is true.
As Lackey stated, and I've been here almost 8 years on a daily basis to see this, we'd all like more consistency from the mods, as opposed to the few that go off a-shootin' and trying to nail that long time trouble making oldbie asswipe, which unfortunately, I've seen happen here as well.
And like I said in my earlier post, I've seen mods whom I considered to be my good Hype friends
call me names that shall remain unsaid when there was no reason for such actions. At some point or another, a few of us have had access to the VIP Bathroom, and the way you guys go on about us would make my Mom blush. And what was said (in the past, I know), takes away from any and all honesty, integrity and validity in
anything you may be trying to say to me now. It's not your fault, but I can't help being cynical because of "secret comments" that I have seen with my own eyes.
Some of the things you guys seem interested in are actually talked about elsewhere as well, but i guess you are more comfortable just discussing with each other in here, so we let this thread be your lounge.
And I, for one, appreciates that. Now go away.
As for the VIP wash, well the equivalent of that is now over at Lesoft only not hidden since Ive been told of various insults towards me or other mods who make a call here that a poster doesn't like, but there is nothing to stop anyone bad mouthing in PM's which serves as the same function of private anger.
Nonetheless, if you read a PM that some poster (that you thought was a good friend and fellow Hype pal) sent to another poster calling all kinds of unmentionable names, how seriuously could you ever take that poster afterwards? Sticks and stones may break my bones, but hurt feelings can last a lifetime.
I had a long talk with Daisy a few days ago about the ongoing heat, and we both agreed that there needs to be give and take on both sides or it will simply end in bannings and a mini civil war, which is not good for anyone.
I thought Daisy was fired because she was "too close" to the posters...
I think you meant Heather, whom you simply know as Dew.
Honestly, I think bannings are unecessary here, because even though we all live with "reputations", we're pretty timid here when compared to other threads in Community. However, if one of us happens to step out of line, simple PM's could (or could not) resolve the issues rather than immediate probationary bannings. The latter just tends to increase resentment, and nobody really learns when they're resentful. And I would agree with the give or take on both sides, but it appears to me that you guys think that you're doing all the giving and we are merely taking, which is far from untrue.
I've suggested in the past that a Commitee of non-mods be created as the voice of the people, and be given limited access to certain Mod-Only threads where situations can be calmly discussed, but it always gets the "Nay" vote from Mirko, because he doesn't really care about how the posters feel, just as long as the mods properly police them in whichever manner they see fit. And unfortunately, that type of system has never really worked.
However, perhaps it can be suggested again...
Cheers...
Mike
