I Personally think the term 'ass kissing' is one that has been raised to justify those who perhaps excel quicker in their career development because they know how to play the game better.
A lot of people here aren't either working in their desired fields or aren't close to their ideal jobs yet but if the opportunity is there for progression, I don't see why one shouldn't try to grab it with both arms.
A large percent of business isn't dealt with in the board room and people at the end of the day are simply people and everyone knows getting on with the right people will help you (considering everything else is there) along your way.
Now if your employers are not nice people then fair enough but if they seem alright, there's nothing wrong with leaving them with a good impression of yourself, you never know where that may lead you in life.
The funny thing is that the higher you go in your career the more informal business relationships get and the big money gets played out in a more casual way so probably the more ass you need to kiss. My father was a politician and you should just see the way he cuts other ministers down but in their presence they all are kissing major ass, it's just the way the game is played.
As long as you can separate your work self from your private self and you don't kiss ass or want your ass kissed in real life, then fair enough.
Scott didn't become leader of the x-men for nothing. no wonder he's got those ruby=quartz lenses on, it's to stop all the **** going in his eyes...
think about it...