YOu mentioned what´s annoying about Raimi´s defenders, I´m saying his critics can be equally, ir not more, annoying, and they are.
I mean that Hollywood has a tendency to do much more bad stuff than good. Just check the amount of crap releases last year, or any year.
My mentality is definitely the first over the second, but you forget there´s also:
WA WA WAAAA! Raimi always sucked major ass cuz MJ didn´t have boobs big enough and Spidey didn´t say a lame joke every ten seconds!! I know the reboot can only be better even if most things Hollywood do suck!! WA WA WAAAAAAAA!!!
Terminator Salvation is a good example of a reboot that doesn´t match the originals. A lot of Bond fans were unhappy with Quantum Of Solace, which was part of the reboot of the franchise.