You're basically checking things off a list here. Faith is irrational but emotional, then it must be meaningless to anyone who has their emotional needs filled. Check. Irrationality leads to ignorance and bigotry. Check.
You don't get it, and you probably won't get it, because you're rationalizing it here too. I believe what I believe because it feels right and it makes sense to me. Simple as that.
Not true. Just because faith may not be rational does not make it exempt from rational criticism or analysis. If what it breaks down to is what you describe then it's just a subjective phenomenom which is no more different from art or beauty. In that case, it has no basis to determine what's real, only what you find desirable, and I'm content with using that feeling to better appreciate what I have and is real, than what I wish was real so that I may have it. And even then, I keep my emotions on a short leash because, like it or not, they're just not suited for to help anyone make good decisions.
It isn't as if I don't get it, though. I wasn't always the skeptic. I went through the rituals of Catholicism back when my dad indoctrinated me into that, and then Baptists when my mother transitioned me to that. I thought my friend David was crazy not to believe in God when he first told me, and I thought I saved his soul when I ratted him out to his parents. Now I'm happy not to have to worry about the eternal souls of my friends burning. And besides the fear of my religion's punishments, I'm happy not to waste time with spiritual rituals of any kind when I could be doing something productive for my material self and still have happiness and meaning in my life.
That said, I don't have problem with spiritual people in general. In fact, the more atheists I see treat religion in general like it's the problem rather than the specifics of the specific religion, the more annoyed I get. I mostly agree with Sam Harris, that it's not religion that's a problem, but the religions full of intolerance and bigotry that are. This is why most of my vitriol is reserved for the Abrahamic faiths. Though I think, at the very least, Christianity can be salvaged if people would just ripp out and discard the part of their Bibles not titled Mark, Luke, John, and Matthew, since it seems like too many of them (cough Conservatives ahem) use the OT as a guide for morality like the Jews instead of using it as context for what goes in these four books.
Also, it might open the door for ignorance and bigotry, but you've got to choose to walk through that door. Even when I was kind of Christian, I didn't let that affect my scientific beliefs,
If you were "kind of" a Christian, I wouldn't doubt that your scientific beliefs would remain in check. Someone who has complete faith in the religion and feel it to be right and because it feels right would likely have a problem with things like zoology, the big bang, and modern dating techniques.
and being a bigot is more the person's fault for *****ebaggery than it is the fault of what they believe.
When I was a Christian, I thought homosexuality was wrong. I tried to preach to homosexuals about it. I wasn't friends with these "unrepentant people" because of it. And I had nothing against them, but I was taught that what they were doing was wrong. It didn't make sense, but I figured God knew what he was talking about. Thus, faith opened the door to my irrational intolerance which allowed my religion to push me through.
That being said, I think the other big issue in this discussion is the over-generalization of people based on their beliefs.
This is true, and though I went on a tangent a bit, I still don't see how you can't see the problem in trying to give faith some special treatment above rationality or even leave it immune to criticism from rational argument. I don't really see how you can have such pride in your emotions despite how misleading human feelings can be and the foolish situations it can set us up for. I'm no stoic or loljedi, but I've learned from my previous faith it's best to have some doubt in all things, even real things you love, ( a sort of ll emcompassing agnosticism) and nearly complete doubt in things you can't prove if you don't want to find out what's really right and makes sense rather than feel like it's right and makes sense.