Atheism: Love it or Leave it? - Part 3

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I feel that respect is part of the problem. Religions have been given a free pass from scrutiny. Mostly because up until recently, you would have had your head on a pike for even questioning it. Much less mocking it. They would burn you at the stake for simply not being religious enough. This is sadly still the case in a number of countries.
 
Burning people at the stake um...kinda make them look bad. You'd think a simple fine or banishment would be enough....no let's kill ones who don't agree with our God and etc.
 
I feel that respect is part of the problem. Religions have been given a free pass from scrutiny. Mostly because up until recently, you would have had your head on a pike for even questioning it. Much less mocking it. They would burn you at the stake for simply not being religious enough. This is sadly still the case in a number of countries.
Some would say that it was earlier, less developed humanity's way of utilizing and not abusing religion, and not religion's fault for the whole 'head on a spike' thing. Are you willing to even entertain the idea that as we grow 'smarter' and more knowledgable, we might be in an even better place to use religion more wisely and make best use of its merits as a concept?

Do you feel that we can with science?
 
Burning people at the stake um...kinda make them look bad. You'd think a simple fine or banishment would be enough....no let's kill ones who don't agree with our God and etc.

It's because they wanted to do that anyway as an expression of power and fear. Religion just gave it more flavor and excusability. Is that religion's fault, or the fault of those who used it as an excuse? Must we continue the same pattern, or can't we in our more advanced and rational world find a way of not being so barbaric about it?
 
This is the classic, "Is religion a force for good in the world?" Anyone who's familiar with history, and is not an apologist will answer no. Then again a religious group such as the red cross can be a strong force for good. So like every coin, it has two sides.

And I'm not even religious. But myopic, dismissive, and disrespectful scrutiny on religion gives atheism a bad name....which feeds theist's opinions that they are synonymous.


And vice versa. :O
 
Some would say that it was earlier, less developed humanity's way of utilizing and not abusing religion, and not religion's fault for the whole 'head on a spike' thing. Are you willing to even entertain the idea that as we grow 'smarter' and more knowledgable, we might be in an even better place to use religion more wisely and make best use of its merits as a concept?

Do you feel that we can with science?

I suppose. Though then I'd ask why we'd have it period. But yes, it can get better.

Science will be very good for us, until it ultimately destroys us. But that's inevitable. The last generations can probably relate. Nuclear power is great. Problem is, weaponized, it can potentially (and almost did) destroy the world.

Human technology has, and continues to outpace humanity's maturity.
 
I suppose. Though then I'd ask why we'd have it period. But yes, it can get better.

Science will be very good for us, until it ultimately destroys us. But that's inevitable. The last generations can probably relate. Nuclear power is great. Problem is, weaponized, it can potentially (and almost did) destroy the world.

Human technology has, and continues to outpace humanity's maturity.

Because we need it, and we've always needed it....or at least need the concept and utility of it...what it provides, or what it can help strengthen. Not necessarily only from or by it for everyone anymore, but we'll probably always have that need. And mutual respect despite disagreeing with the literal premises starts with acknowledging that, I believe.
 
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Well, maybe I'll be more respectful when religious people stop lynching atheists. But at least the witch trials are behind us. Hell, I'd be happy if religious people stopped persecuting each other.
 
Well, maybe I'll be more respectful when religious people stop lynching atheists. But at least the witch trials are behind us. Hell, I'd be happy if religious people stopped persecuting each other.

You know the saying "It's a shame that youth is wasted on the young"?

Much the same could be said about religion, sometimes.
 
Regarding the 'God is the embodiment/source/definition of good', I would love to see a 'mine vs. yours' game with God.....

Man: Greed?
God: Yours.
Man: Jealousy?
God: Yours.
Man: Beauty?
God: Mine.
Man: Hubris?
God: SO yours...
Man: Love?
God: Between a man and a woman, mine.
Man: But what about two m...
God: ..between a MAN AND A WOMAN.... Next.
Man: Stubbornness?
God: Funny. Keep it up...
Man: Humility?
God: Good boy. Mine.
 
I'm so sorry, arguments of this nature with friends can be difficult. I've been there with someone who I call best friend, 25 years we've known each other. When I tried to tell her who I am, she freaked. I still call her best friend we just avoid the topic of religion.

Yeah I know that feeling :(

My best friend converted to Islam and got married a couple of years ago. It's actually what sparked the confirmation of my own atheism.

Before then, I'd not been sure what I believed though I suppose I was one of those people who would say 'I believe in something more'.

Now there is absolutely nothing nasty about her. She's a wonderful, generous, caring and light hearted person.

But we had 'the conversation' once. Never again. :(

It started small, and it grew and grew until we both got to the sticking point of this - she believes I am going to hell when I die. I was looking her right in the eye, and very emphatically saying 'So you are SERIOUSLY saying that you think my soul will burn for eternity because of my sins and the fact I do not believe in Allah'... And she was sheepishly but stubbornly replying that she was sorry, but yes.

And in that moment, I realised how ridiculous religion is. How it can brainwash completely rational and wonderful people that I've grown up with my whole life to the point where they suddenly start seeing me as DESERVING the fire of hell. How destructive and negative it can be. And I really started to HATE it.

The more I thought about it, the more I wanted to read about it. And once I'd familiarised myself with the words of Christopher Hitchens, Richard Dawkins and Stephen Fry on the matter, it all just kind of fell into place.

Since then, I've just acted like that conversation never happened. But I have to admit there is a part of me that's secretly hoping she will come to her senses one day. Maybe that's wrong of me, I don't know.

Let me put it this way. Do we remember the virtues of ancient religions? I'm sure they had some. But no, we don't. We remember the human sacrifices and bloody wars.

Now obviously, our religions have become more civilized. But in the future, people will remember the Dark Ages, the Crusades, and the countless other religious conflicts, before they remember the positive things, if they remember them at all.

So, I respectfully disagree. Though I will concede that there has been some damn good music.

I agree, I don't think you have to consider the 'positives' of religion as equally as the negatives. The negatives are much much bigger than the positives IMO, and that's why those are the parts that will be remembered the most.

Though I'd be interested to see what people think the positives of religion are. Cause personally, I don't see many, if any.
 
Yeah I know that feeling :(

My best friend converted to Islam and got married a couple of years ago. It's actually what sparked the confirmation of my own atheism.

Before then, I'd not been sure what I believed though I suppose I was one of those people who would say 'I believe in something more'.

Now there is absolutely nothing nasty about her. She's a wonderful, generous, caring and light hearted person.

But we had 'the conversation' once. Never again. :(

It started small, and it grew and grew until we both got to the sticking point of this - she believes I am going to hell when I die. I was looking her right in the eye, and very emphatically saying 'So you are SERIOUSLY saying that you think my soul will burn for eternity because of my sins and the fact I do not believe in Allah'... And she was sheepishly but stubbornly replying that she was sorry, but yes.

And in that moment, I realised how ridiculous religion is. How it can brainwash completely rational and wonderful people that I've grown up with my whole life to the point where they suddenly start seeing me as DESERVING the fire of hell. How destructive and negative it can be. And I really started to HATE it.

The more I thought about it, the more I wanted to read about it. And once I'd familiarised myself with the words of Christopher Hitchens, Richard Dawkins and Stephen Fry on the matter, it all just kind of fell into place.

Since then, I've just acted like that conversation never happened. But I have to admit there is a part of me that's secretly hoping she will come to her senses one day. Maybe that's wrong of me, I don't know.

Well...if there was someone who shared your beliefs exactly, and she didn't know him...she'd probably believe that person is going to hell, no? So it's only fair that she believe the same of you, even though she is your friend, since in the eyes of religion friendship doesn't decide that. At the same time, I would assume that she also believed yo had a chance to change that ultimate fate by believing and repenting, etc...rather than feeling you're screwed no matter what you do.



I agree, I don't think you have to consider the 'positives' of religion as equally as the negatives. The negatives are much much bigger than the positives IMO, and that's why those are the parts that will be remembered the most.

Though I'd be interested to see what people think the positives of religion are. Cause personally, I don't see many, if any.
Maybe you should at least try actually considering/acknowledging the positives AS positives, and find out more about them, before deciding whether or not to dismiss them. Would you not ask that of anyone who was judging their opinion of you or anything you held to be valuable and dear? I see that as a required qualification of respect when debating anything, on any side, really...especially something of this magnitude...to be rational and fair, if that's at all important.

At the same time, some people feel that you could just replace 'religion' with Naziism in discussions like this and see how they got people to do what they did.
 
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There's too much to appreciate what religion...or at least the need for it...has done for us to confidently call it in any way unnecessary. This was already cited, but I basically have the kind of outlook that de Botton does....

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...although some theists might see that as trying to swing a free lunch out of life. :O

You know, I was never a big fan of de Botton... and then he actually suggested that we build an "Atheist Temple".

I'm not an antitheist. I respect people's right to be religious and I don't advocate the end of faith. But the only difference between de Botton and S.E. Cupp is that SE Cupp is a member of the Tea Party. I'm pretty much convinced that, one day, both of them will convert to Christianity, and that those conversions will be very public and very lucrative.

Maybe...I doubt it...but maybe we won't actually have religion...a la a consensus of belief in a deity et al. But I very much doubt we'll still be able to continue without retaining much of the merit that religion has provided us.

Why? What has religion provided that a secular organization can't provide?

And I'm not talking about in the past. I fully acknowledge that we wouldn't be where we are today without religion... aside from the Dark Ages, of course, in which the stagnation can be at least partly blamed on the Catholic Church, which impeded scientific advance by jailing scientists who made discoveries that went against Church dogma and forcing them to recant (see: Galileo).

I wonder how much sooner we would have had cars had the Church never done that...

Like I said... I'm not talking about the past with my question above. I'm talking about now, and moving in to the future...

But just that I don't feel that there are any immutable moral absolutes uniquely borne from religion, I also don't feel that any evils are either. It's a powerful enabler, to be sure, but the good or bad that it may aid in facilitating comes from us.

So religion (a bit like God) can do no wrong? Religion is never to blame for any evil ever perpetuated by humans? So religion is free from the burden of the Spanish Inquisition, or the Crusades, or the Salem Witch Trials, or, more current, the Middle East (which, at the end of the day, is Judaism, Islam, and Christianity fighting each other over who has the right to the "Holy Land", which not be considered as such if not for these three religions)?

Again, that notion itself is not the end of the argument to decide on the entire validity and merit of an ideology like this. And you're being way too dismissive of religion's merits, even as a human construct, in putting its harm so overwhelmingly and generally above its good. That's not debating religion, that's persecuting it....which no one or thing deserves.

But what merits does religion provide in today's day and age that can't be provided for any other way?

Sure, that does eat away at it, but it also emboldens its importance to many. In no way does that ensure that they will be more likely to wage wars et al. Wars will always be fought over power...with or without religion.

Yes, but that does not mean that there have not been evils committed in the name of religion.

You mean like the Bible? I've heard it's still pretty popular.

Unfortunately. It really is a horrible collection of myths and fairy tales.

It's not so much disagreeing, it's just that you're taking too narrow...and frankly disrespectful...an outlook on it to be taken too seriously on this. It's like trying to take down a mountain with a rock hammer...sure you'll chip away at stone with each swing, but you'll need a lot more to make a real dent. :O

I don't think religion will ever become extinct as a whole, but I do believe it will evolve.

See, this is what I don't understand. In what way does religion deserve respect? Why should anyone take a "respectful" outlook on religion? Why should religion not be scrutinized as skeptically and as harshly as any other idea?

I feel that respect is part of the problem. Religions have been given a free pass from scrutiny. Mostly because up until recently, you would have had your head on a pike for even questioning it. Much less mocking it. They would burn you at the stake for simply not being religious enough. This is sadly still the case in a number of countries.

AMEN!

Some would say that it was earlier, less developed humanity's way of utilizing and not abusing religion, and not religion's fault for the whole 'head on a spike' thing. Are you willing to even entertain the idea that as we grow 'smarter' and more knowledgable, we might be in an even better place to use religion more wisely and make best use of its merits as a concept?

Or how about throwing it away entirely?

It's because they wanted to do that anyway as an expression of power and fear. Religion just gave it more flavor and excusability. Is that religion's fault, or the fault of those who used it as an excuse? Must we continue the same pattern, or can't we in our more advanced and rational world find a way of not being so barbaric about it?

We could start by letting religion go... the idea of a personal god is already coming untenable. I have a very strong desire to do a poll/study throughout the US to get specifics in what people believe about God, because I'm honestly convinced that Deism is more and more becoming the norm, even though most people wouldn't admit it. I could be wrong, which is why I'd like to see the study conducted.

I've already sent an email to both Pew and Gallup about it, so we'll see what happens.

And I'm not even religious. But myopic, dismissive, and disrespectful scrutiny on religion gives atheism a bad name....which feeds theist's opinions that they are synonymous.

Scrutiny of religion is neither respectful nor disrespectful... and it shouldn't be. Scrutiny of religion should be and is skeptical. Skepticism is the lens through which religion should be evaluated. Respect is not an idea that should even be entertained.

Because we need it, and we've always needed it....or at least need the concept and utility of it...what it provides, or what it can help strengthen. Not necessarily only from or by it for everyone anymore, but we'll probably always have that need. And mutual respect despite disagreeing with the literal premises starts with acknowledging that, I believe.

But why do we need it? What purpose does religion serve that a secular organization can't serve?

Well...if there was someone who shared your beliefs exactly, and she didn't know him...she'd probably believe that person is going to hell, no? So it's only fair that she believe the same of you, even though she is your friend, since in the eyes of religion friendship doesn't decide that. At the same time, I would assume that she also believed yo had a chance to change that ultimate fate by believing and repenting, etc...rather than feeling you're screwed no matter what you do.

You don't see an inherent problem with the whole scenario? He is going to potentially lose a good friend because she believes in the reality of something that quite simply isn't real. At least from my perspective, there's a huge problem there... not to mention the problems it brings up with the idea of a supposedly "loving" god...

Maybe you should at least try actually considering/acknowledging the positives AS positives, and find out more about them, before deciding whether or not to dismiss them. Would you not ask that of anyone who was judging their opinion of you or anything you held to be valuable and dear? I see that as a required qualification of respect when debating anything, on any side, really...especially something of this magnitude...to be rational and fair, if that's at all important.

But shouldn't respect be something that is earned, not given willy-nilly? Why should anyone respect religion at all?
 
Well...if there was someone who shared your beliefs exactly, and she didn't know him...she'd probably believe that person is going to hell, no? So it's only fair that she believe the same of you, even though she is your friend, since in the eyes of religion friendship doesn't decide that. At the same time, I would assume that she also believed yo had a chance to change that ultimate fate by believing and repenting, etc...rather than feeling you're screwed no matter what you do.

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That's how your going to excuse it?

It's okay that she thinks I'm going to suffer eternal tormet cause it's 'nothing personal', she just thinks that of all non Muslims and people who sin?

Your quite right, in the eyes of religion that is totally fair, and she has to believe that of me.

That's precisely why I said it sparked a hatred of RELIGION...

I don't hate her. We never even fell out over it. We had our disagreement, we both decided to simply never speak of that subject again. She's still my best friend and I love her to bits.

I hate that some religions tell people that anyone, even their loved ones, who doesn't believe exactly as they do, and who doesn't obey the same rules, is going to suffer in hell for their sins. And that they have to accept that God/Allah or whoever else deems they DESERVE it. They deserve to SUFFER.

Which is SICK. That's a disgusting thing to teach people. Absolutely vile.

Sorry, but I feel really strongly about that.

Maybe you should at least try actually considering/acknowledging the positives AS positives, and find out more about them, before deciding whether or not to dismiss them. Would you not ask that of anyone who was judging their opinion of you or anything you held to be valuable and dear? I see that as a required qualification of respect when debating anything, on any side, really...especially something of this magnitude...to be rational and fair, if that's at all important.

At the same time, some people feel that you could just replace 'religion' with Naziism in discussions like this and see how they got people to do what they did.

That's exactly why I said 'I'd be interested to see what people think are the positives of religion'.

Did you just skip over that line?

I mean tell me, what do you consider the positives of religion?

Or point me in the direction of an articles or something that you agree with?

Cause personally, they don't come to my mind.
 
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That's how your going to excuse it?

It's okay that she thinks I'm going to suffer eternal tormet cause it's 'nothing personal', she just thinks that of all non Muslims and people who sin?

Your quite right, in the eyes of religion that is totally fair, and she has to believe that of me.

That's precisely why I said it sparked a hatred of RELIGION...

I don't hate her. We never even fell out over it. We had our disagreement, we both decided to simply never speak of that subject again. She's still my best friend and I love her to bits.

I hate that some religions tell people that anyone, even their loved ones, who doesn't believe exactly as they do, and who doesn't obey the same rules, is going to suffer in hell for their sins. And that they have to accept that God/Allah or whoever else deems they DESERVE it. They deserve to SUFFER.

Which is SICK. That's a disgusting thing to teach people. Absolutely vile.

Sorry, but I feel really strongly about that.

I couldn't agree more. The constant condemnation is without a doubt the worst part of traditional religion (and it in turn led to hate, murder, etc). I also think it is the worst teaching. I can't quite wrap my head around it either. I have friends of many different types who are all pretty open minded- I honestly don't think I'd want to know the type who are condemning of others in that way (eternal hell for you, you and you!)

The funny thing is that there are so many groups who all condemn each other. Your friend is a Muslim who believes all non-muslims are going to hell... but guess what, you've got Catholics who believe Muslims and Jews are going to hell. You've got Mormons who believe all of the above are going to hell and then there are Jehovah's Witnesses who believe over 99% of the population are going to hell. No matter what group you belong to, there are others out there who will swear you are bound to an eternal hell because of what you do or do not believe. It's so silly.

But like I said, I know many people who are religious but very cool. Not all are like that. Like Piers Morgan says all the time, the bible and other religious creed are books written thousands of years ago. It's unfathomable how someone would try to live totally by it. The religious books were written by men and made to keep people in line. They're designed to make you not divert from any of their teachings but newsflash: it is 2012.

Oh and as for my own beliefs, I have very pantheistic views. I think the earth is sacred and I think man's biggest problem is that we're too self centered. We are not the center of the universe and the universe was not created for us. This is something so many people refuse to accept. The earth and the universe existed perfectly fine long before us and make no mistake, the earth and the universe will one day exist perfectly fine long after us. That's if we don't screw it up before we perish. My view is that the universe itself is a thing of divinity.

My boyfriend is an atheist and we get along fine. I don't think there is a topic more unnecessary to debate than religion.
 
Then again a religious group such as the red cross can be a strong force for good. So like every coin, it has two sides.

The Red Cross isn't a religious organization; it's secular.
 
Though I'd be interested to see what people think the positives of religion are. Cause personally, I don't see many, if any.

Religion is not positive, regardless of any individual positive things they do. Its irrelevant to me. This isn't about a list of pro's and con's.

The last positive qualities of spiritualism was Shamanic in nature and had specifically to do with the ecstatic experience: dissolution of the ego, and a sense of connectedness with the everything, etc. (which comes from the ecstatic experience.

The primary problem with everyone today is the EGO run rampant. In people, institutions, societies, etc.

Its the enemy, the devil, the adversary, whatever you want to call it. Not many even realize it.
 
Probably thinking of Salvation Army.
 
The Red Cross isn't a religious organization; it's secular.

Sorry, I actually meant the salvation army. Apologies, thank you for pointing out my error. . :yay:
 
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That's how your going to excuse it?

It's okay that she thinks I'm going to suffer eternal tormet cause it's 'nothing personal', she just thinks that of all non Muslims and people who sin?

Your quite right, in the eyes of religion that is totally fair, and she has to believe that of me.

That's precisely why I said it sparked a hatred of RELIGION...

I don't hate her. We never even fell out over it. We had our disagreement, we both decided to simply never speak of that subject again. She's still my best friend and I love her to bits.

I hate that some religions tell people that anyone, even their loved ones, who doesn't believe exactly as they do, and who doesn't obey the same rules, is going to suffer in hell for their sins. And that they have to accept that God/Allah or whoever else deems they DESERVE it. They deserve to SUFFER.

Which is SICK. That's a disgusting thing to teach people. Absolutely vile.

Sorry, but I feel really strongly about that.
She may not feel that it needs excusing, even if you do. I do agree that there is something fundamentally wrong with negative reenforcement and using fear to strengthen a stance...but we have a lot of that in law as well. Difference being that religious fear can advantageously hide behind the fact that it can't be tangibly proven or shown...so 'fear of the unknown' is a powerful enabler.

But for someone who truly believes to say that to someone like a friend top another friend isn't necessarily an act of malice. It could very much represent how strongly a person does care about your soul or what have you, and how important it is to stress the possible misery that one risks. Now....if you look at it as a personal endorsement of spreading fear and submission through a virtual totalitarianism or the like....yeah....that's pretty bad for those who are looking to abuse it that way.



That's exactly why I said 'I'd be interested to see what people think are the positives of religion'.

Did you just skip over that line?


I mean tell me, what do you consider the positives of religion?

Or point me in the direction of an articles or something that you agree with?

Cause personally, they don't come to my mind.

I didn't skip over the part where you said "I don't think you have to consider the 'positives' of religion as equally as the negatives.", did you forget you wrote it? Because you probably should feel compelled to consider them equally in the name of fairness when debating it. Otherwise it's more like persecuting it. Not atypical of reactionary outlooks, understandable as the reaction itself may be.

To scrutinize what are the positives of religion or ANY ideology...aside from some of the good models of communion it's provided...is to question the legitimacy of positives that religious people find in being religious. It's as if you're saying 'prove that I've already chosen wrongly'...that's not the issue, since you certainly can't prove that they've chosen wrongly especially without fully considering everything. They likely don't come to mind because you don't want them to for any purpose...which is anyone's right. But if we are in any way interested in a more objective comparison between the two, it's no better than a religious person saying that they can't (i.e. won't) see any positives in not having God in their life....if that matters.

A better or more useful question may be...what makes religion actually work for so many for so long? Can't just be fear or ignorance or the like. It can't be as simple as people being naive enough to be fooled into a silly premise. I think it's only fair to consider the complexity of its ubiquity to begin with, which must be wrought with positives as well, even if its most fundamental premise of a deity is ultimately not right.
 
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You know, I was never a big fan of de Botton... and then he actually suggested that we build an "Atheist Temple".

I'm not an antitheist. I respect people's right to be religious and I don't advocate the end of faith. But the only difference between de Botton and S.E. Cupp is that SE Cupp is a member of the Tea Party. I'm pretty much convinced that, one day, both of them will convert to Christianity, and that those conversions will be very public and very lucrative.
I'm not a particular fan of de Bottom either, but I do agree with a lot of what he said here, particularly. If it's somehow part of a larger agenda...htat agenda doesn't interest me.


Why? What has religion provided that a secular organization can't provide?
It's provided religion...it's addressed a human need for it as a concept and ideology, and the means for those who do seek it to commune around it. And they do't find that to be a waste of time even if some of us do.

And I'm not talking about in the past. I fully acknowledge that we wouldn't be where we are today without religion... aside from the Dark Ages, of course, in which the stagnation can be at least partly blamed on the Catholic Church, which impeded scientific advance by jailing scientists who made discoveries that went against Church dogma and forcing them to recant (see: Galileo).

I wonder how much sooner we would have had cars had the Church never done that...
I don't think it's religion so much but human resistance to change that stagnated it, with religion being a powerful and convenient tool to reenforce it. If we didn't have religion, that tool may not have been there...but if we didn't have religion to begin with, culture may not have developed to a point where a Galileo would be what he was. So I think there's always a give and take over time.

Like I said... I'm not talking about the past with my question above. I'm talking about now, and moving in to the future...



So religion (a bit like God) can do no wrong? Religion is never to blame for any evil ever perpetuated by humans? So religion is free from the burden of the Spanish Inquisition, or the Crusades, or the Salem Witch Trials, or, more current, the Middle East (which, at the end of the day, is Judaism, Islam, and Christianity fighting each other over who has the right to the "Holy Land", which not be considered as such if not for these three religions)?



But what merits does religion provide in today's day and age that can't be provided for any other way?
Again, it provides religion and all that comes with it...which for some people is an essential and worthwhile part of their lives. That may or may not include wars and such depending on how it's used. I think we have the ability to abuse anything...religion or otherwise...it's just that religion has been with us for longer and more available.

Whatever has made it a popular excuse or enabler has also made it a scapegoat.

Some people still seek this...
If your hope is simply for guidance and assistance in leading a fulfilling life here on earth, a “way of living” without firm beliefs in any supernatural being may well be all you need. But many religions, including mainline versions of Christianity and Islam, promise much more. They promise ultimate salvation. If we are faithful to their teachings, they say, we will be safe from final annihilation when we die and will be happy eternally in our life after death.

If our hope is for salvation in this sense — and for many that is the main point of religion—then this hope depends on certain religious beliefs’ being true. In particular, for the main theistic religions, it depends on there being a God who is good enough to desire our salvation and powerful enough to achieve it.
...now, and moving into the future.

Maybe secular life and science will provide some of that down the road...but must people stop seeking it through religion?



Yes, but that does not mean that there have not been evils committed in the name of religion.
I never said there weren't.


I won't get to the rest, but suffice to say I am not religious, and I've often felt the same way as you. But more and more, I find it important to strive for respect and fairness despite opposition to much of it. that doesn't mean excusing or ignoring the bad...but being able to acknowledge and appreciate the good parts of it as well in an overall interest in it as a phenomenon. Put it this way...I don't agree with it...but I also don't hate it, even if it can be used for hateful things at times. So can secular life and anything else that doesn't quite have the enviable emotional power of religion.
 
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For some, it may not be a hate for religion per se but rather a distaste for the hate and discrimination that comes with it. Just a thought. :)
 
For some, it may not be a hate for religion per se but rather a distaste for the hate and discrimination that comes with it. Just a thought. :)

As long as they hate is just as much when it comes from areas other than religion....just another thought.

Again...inspiration, excuse, scapegoat...the common denominator is us.

As I mentioned before, "It's a shame that youth is wasted on the young." maybe applies to religion as well. :O I.e., maybe religion really should be dropped because we're not good enough at it. "If you don't surf, don't start". :P
 
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I couldn't agree more. The constant condemnation is without a doubt the worst part of traditional religion (and it in turn led to hate, murder, etc). I also think it is the worst teaching. I can't quite wrap my head around it either. I have friends of many different types who are all pretty open minded- I honestly don't think I'd want to know the type who are condemning of others in that way (eternal hell for you, you and you!)

The funny thing is that there are so many groups who all condemn each other. Your friend is a Muslim who believes all non-muslims are going to hell... but guess what, you've got Catholics who believe Muslims and Jews are going to hell. You've got Mormons who believe all of the above are going to hell and then there are Jehovah's Witnesses who believe over 99% of the population are going to hell. No matter what group you belong to, there are others out there who will swear you are bound to an eternal hell because of what you do or do not believe. It's so silly.
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Yup. Completely ridiculous. But you've got a bunch of stubborn people who all think they are the ones who are right, and look down at people on the other side and give a patronising sigh in the middle of every debate

She may not feel that it needs excusing, even if you do. I do agree that there is something fundamentally wrong with negative reenforcement and using fear to strengthen a stance...but we have a lot of that in law as well. Difference being that religious fear can advantageously hide behind the fact that it can't be tangibly proven or shown...so 'fear of the unknown' is a powerful enabler.

But for someone who truly believes to say that to someone like a friend top another friend isn't necessarily an act of malice. It could very much represent how strongly a person does care about your soul or what have you, and how important it is to stress the possible misery that one risks. Now....if you look at it as a personal endorsement of spreading fear and submission through a virtual totalitarianism or the like....yeah....that's pretty bad for those who are looking to abuse it that way.

Like I said... I didn't consider what she was saying as an act of malice. She's my best friend, she would never wish me any pain. I don't know where your getting that from...

I just hate that the idea of hell even exists. And I hate that this idea is still being spread around today by religious people. And that those who believe in it, actually worship a God who would condemn souls for eternity, and still call him 'Good' and 'Righteous'.

There's nothing good or righteous about eternal punishments being dished out for a lack of belief.

How is worshipping a God who would condemn a person to hell for not believing in him any worse than worshipping Hitler, a man who would kill you for openly disagreeing with him? Hitler only made people suffer until they died. If God really does condemn people to hell, he's worse. He makes you suffer for eternity.

And these people, worshipping a vindictive and sadistic mystical being... what are they learning from the thing they are looking up to?

What does hell teach people about how to feel in this life?

It teaches them to be good for selfish reasons only. It teaches them that some people deserve to suffer. It teaches them that if a man is a 'sinner' you should feel no pity or empathy or human emotion when he is 'judged' because God says they need to be punished.

I think if we could completely abolish the idea of hell, we'd be accomplishing something really really positive for humanity.

And that's why I don't feel like you have to look at the positives equally.

I don't have to see all the nice happy sides of religion to know that things like this are wrong and we shouldn't be afraid to stand up against it. We shouldn't be 'respectful' to these nice people kindly begging us to obey God so that our souls can be saved. We should tell them exactly what's wrong with what they are saying to us, and why.

I am tolerant enough to my best friend to let sleeping dogs lie... actually i'm just afraid to talk about it, because I know if I loose control, i'll loose her friendship forever.

But if she'd been a stranger and she'd said those things to me, I would have told her how disgusting I really think her belief is. I'd have told her I think her God sounds like a nasty peice of work and that i'd want nothing to do with him even if he did exist. If I had to keep quiet about all my friends suffering in hell in order to keep my seat in heaven, i'd rather join them. Or i'd live the rest of eternity feeling sick with myself.

I didn't skip over the part where you said "I don't think you have to consider the 'positives' of religion as equally as the negatives.", did you forget you wrote it? Because you probably should feel compelled to consider them equally in the name of fairness when debating it. Otherwise it's more like persecuting it. Not atypical of reactionary outlooks, understandable as the reaction itself may be.

To scrutinize what are the positives of religion or ANY ideology...aside from some of the good models of communion it's provided...is to question the legitimacy of positives that religious people find in being religious. It's as if you're saying 'prove that I've already chosen wrongly'...that's not the issue, since you certainly can't prove that they've chosen wrongly especially without fully considering everything. They likely don't come to mind because you don't want them to for any purpose...which is anyone's right. But if we are in any way interested in a more objective comparison between the two, it's no better than a religious person saying that they can't (i.e. won't) see any positives in not having God in their life....if that matters.

A better or more useful question may be...what makes religion actually work for so many for so long? Can't just be fear or ignorance or the like. It can't be as simple as people being naive enough to be fooled into a silly premise. I think it's only fair to consider the complexity of its ubiquity to begin with, which must be wrought with positives as well, even if its most fundamental premise of a deity is ultimately not right.

Look, all i'm asking you to do is give me some examples of what you consider the positives of religion so that I can consider them... like you said you wanted me too.

Yes, I consider that the negatives of religion outway the positives. I have never seen an example of religion doing anywhere near as much good as it has bad.

You want me to consider them fairly. See the balance of 'good' and 'bad', or 'pros' and 'cons' to religion, then can you please tell me what these pros are that you speak of. That you want to me to consider for the sake of fairness.
 
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