"Dateless" Attractive Women

[SWAT]

When I first see a hot chick I think: "I'm Horny"... Ahem, then I think: "She got to have a boyfriend"

 

[Angry Sentinel]

^ I'm surprised this hadn't come up before. I've heard a lot of guys say that before. I even remember thinking it a couple of times. This may explain why 'hawt' women's attention get relegated to a rude comment. If most guys are figuring that they already have someone, then wouldn't it stand to reason that mostly jerks would approach the girl.

 

[Avangarde]

I often find myself just friends with hot women, its normally through work. After working with them I get to know them better and I end up becoming really good friends with them but I never have a relationship with any of them. I'm quite happy like this as well, believe it or not but they are capable of an intelligent conversation.

 

[Calvin]

I often find myself just friends with hot women, its normally through work. After working with them I get to know them better and I end up becoming really good friends with them but I never have a relationship with any of them. I'm quite happy like this as well, believe it or not but they are capable of an intelligent conversation.

You can't have a conversation with them while dating?

 

[GoldenAgeHero]

when i find a girl im attracted i really don't have the guts to talk to her. and i walys say to myself maybe shes already taken or maybe she won't like me, i certainly don't have a car nor a job, so why should a girl think im good enough for her?.........

 

[Calvin]

when i find a girl im attracted i really don't have the guts to talk to her. and i walys say to myself maybe shes already taken or maybe she won't like me, i certainly don't have a car nor a job, so why should a girl think im good enough for her?.........

Cars and jobs don't really factor much into attraction these days. Maybe if you're in the south, I dunno.

I don't get why the "she must have a boyfriend" thing should be that much of a discouragement. I've stolen from, and been stolen from. It doesn't take a lot for a girl to switch from one guy to another.

 

[terry78]

^That right there is why you don't get anywhere. Maybe they'll walk away if you say you have no car or a job, maybe not. May as well jump into the fray instead of just standing on the sidelines. I go up to girls I feel won't give me the time of day all the time, but I also work in the sales industry so that mentality is pretty much embedded.

 

[Honey Vibe]

Am I the only one who sometimes think it's total b.s. when an attractive woman says that men don't ask her out or approach her?

Not to say it isn't true, because some men do get intimidated when being around attractive women (hell, I do sometimes); but other times I think what they're really saying is men that THEY LIKE aren't asking them out, not that men don't approach them period.

...But you don't do that. Right?