I agree with this part.Having/Not having a child isn't a decision like popping Flintstone vitamins. Whether the father is in the picture or not. It's a life altering decision.
As for if we don't supply safe abortions the women will do it anyway I won't argue against or for. It's more the moral qualms about being placed in the position of telling the woman as a voter yeah go ahead is what I don't like as I don't feel (for better or worse whichever side you go on this whole debate) the voter (for a presidential election) should have to intrinsically comment on the issue every presidential election.
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