Ditching unhealthy realtionships

[C.F. Kane]

In spring of my senior year I fell in love with this girl. Pretty easy to love at the time, hot, sexy, talented, and she had a crush on me as well. She was the first girl I kissed. Except when she told me she had a crush on me, she took the time to immediately explain why we could never be together (geography mainly, we were going to colleges that were way to far apart to even sucessfully manage a distant relationship with). So she never wanted a strong relationship with me, yet I stayed in love with her. And yet I stayed in love with her. Even as she went of, found a boyfriend, and ignored me whenever she had to.

And it's been about a year and a half since that incident. And I've finally realized, I don't need some distant lover that I can faun over. And I definitely don't need someone like her; who can profess affection while rebuking intimacy at the same time. And shame on me for not realizing it sooner. Shame. So, I'm gonna tear whatever feelings I have for her out by the roots. I don't need this. I, C.F. Kane, no longer need to be infatuated with someone who doesn't love me back; with someone who doesn't treat me the way I want to and need to. I will have none of it.

 

[cryptic name]

Oprah would be so proud.

 

[OverMyHead]

*golf clap*

Bravo.

 

[tzarinna]

Good for you.
It's harder when the sex is off the hook though and you're actually good friends.

 

[Abaddon]

it probably wouldn't have worked.

 

[C.F. Kane]

Good for you.
It's harder when the sex is off the hook though and you're actually good friends.

Nah, she was too bone-able to have been a friend. Besides, I don't even see her anymore. And I really don't even want to see her anymore. I should just send her an email telling her to **** off and be done with it.

 

[tzarinna]

Don't do that.
Forget about it,it's hard. I still have some things I'd like to say to some of the asses I've dated. It's best to just move on.

 

[winky]

Why can't we be happy with the women who never love us in return? Why do we always expect the objects of our affection to have similar feelings towards us? Hey..I'm just trying to be realistic here.

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