I'd hate to see your repoire with females in your life.....I pray you don't have a daughter. I hear my friends say some of most god-awful puppylove things to their girlfirends, wives etc. It doesn't make them less-masculine, it just means their hopelessly lost in that little sea of love.
Listen to Leykis 101 much?
Besides the
ad hominem attacks, you have not explained how an effeminate Superman is better (or more justified) than a masculine one.
I do like the "hopelessly lost in the little sea of love" line. Puppy love is cute when a relationship starts. In the long run it’s substance-less. Puppy love does not paint the full picture of what holds strong relationships together.
In the long run, putting a woman on pedestal is boring and insulting to the woman. Some women see the "nice guy routine" as an act to get into their panties. At least that "jerk" and bad boy is forward with his intent. They detest this duplicity. Treating them as you would treat a good friend (i.e. other guy friends) is the correct stance. Be forward and honest with them as you would with any good friend. The reward is a strong relationship and it has to work BOTH ways.
Read Rousseau much? He originated Romance, and he hated the bourgouis' idea of love, he thought passion should not be defined by Truth and Honor, but by "Romance". From my experience of failures and success, it is the former values that held longest and strongest relationships.
That 'spying' scene was just that. And was the most uncharacteristic thing about Superman in this movie. But what happens not 1 minute later? He's in space hearing the cries of the world....gutless and spineless, I know.
What does he being in space hearing other people’s cries, have anything to do with his emo moment from Lois’s response? Oh wait it doesn’t. NEXT.
He's always been too much of a ***** to tell her he's really Clark...At least he lets her know he was wrong to leave.
'Goodbye Lois'
That was a forever goodbye. He thought he was never going to see her again. He didn't tell he her loved her in front of Richard and Jason. He could have, but didn't. That is 100x more inappropriate than 'spying'. Even though we know he should have because it might be the last time he saw her.
The stalking was inappropriate.....Superman f'd up. But lord knows all of us never screw up. God forbid Superman doesn't 1 inappriate thing in his life. He realized it by the end of the film...
Coulda woulda… you excuse his actions. Singer could have cut the stalking scene out and retain the "chat" in the rooftop.
The writers screwed up his characterization in that one scene, stop making up excuses for them. NEXT.
At this point in his life....what other female approval does he have in his life besides his mother?
Or any approval at all?
My question is why the hell does he need approval to do what he wants to do? Oh wait... that’s right, he doesn’t need anyone’s approval. NEXT.
That was just a bad plot point. There was no context to it whatsoever.
How is there no context. I point at Superman for being a ***** for not telling Lois he will be leaving, even Lois calls out on his BS. NEXT.
Pa Kent is dead......he has only 2 people in his life. And he has the consent of only 1. It's a human trait we all have. We want certain people to like us....family, friends, co-workers, lovers, etc.
Leads to a healther life when people actually care about you.
No it doesn’t, that’s my point.
You do not need anyone’s approval to do what you want. If you think having a woman in your life or getting her approval will make you more content, you need a serious reality check.
A content life is one etched by you, not by the approval of others. If you love writing music, make a career out of it. Not because your mommy said being an engineer or lawyer is better. A good relationship with another woman is a byproduct of a good life of your own design.
If Superman wanted the approval of people he would not have been Superman. He does what he does because knows it is right, even if the authorities do not "approve it" in the onset.
Two words.......Peter Parker.
And just so you know,that IS Superman's reality. Your problem is looking for human based relatabilty for a God. Superman isn't Batman. He never will be. Even then, how much can one relate to a billionare, really? Simple....his issues in daily life.
death, love, and responsibility.
The sooner all you guys get over 'oh, what a *****' to everything you see....the better off you'll be.
And I want to thank you Pickle-El for bringing your “Peter Parker”. This is a nice way to wrap things up.
I was never a fan of the Spidey films, but at the end of both films, Peter realized his reality cannot revolve around MJ. He moved on at the end of BOTH movies. Notice how MJ came to him AFTER he went his own way, be his own man, have his own life without her? The one time in Spidey 2 when he was obsessing over her, was when she was the most repulsed. This was no coincidence. That was Parker's most important lesson. MJ is not your reality, you have to make do and create your own.
And when did I say Superman is Batman? They happen to have a overlapping quality. That was what made the two heroic. In the face of disapproval, despite their difference approach to crime fighting, they did what was right.
There is nothing sacrificial about Superman’s actions like Spider-Man, nor was it for vengence like Batman, it was because of Superman's strong upbringing. He simply was a good guy, doing the right thing based on the ideas of Truth, Justice and the American Way.