Evil Step-mother

[Darth Rockwell]

So my sister got a call from our step-mother telling us our father is in the hospital and she is done he is our responsibility now. Then she hung up on my sister. We don’t know what hospital, what’s wrong, or how to find him. We’ve called the hospitals but because of new laws they are not required to tell you if people are there. We are in Indianapolis and they are in Salt Lake. This woman is psycho. I needed to vent and just get stuff off of my chest. I’m sure this thread will get locked but I feel a little better for posting it.

The hell this woman has put our family through is a long story. The simplest version is her children don’t like her so they won’t talk to her; our family was very tight nit and talked all the time. She has driven our father way from us and the only conversation we have with him tend to end in arguments now. If her kids wont talk to her she’ll make sure we can’t talk to our father.

She constantly tells me I’m a failure and will amount to nothing. That I do not deserve love or to be loved by anyone. That I am a waist of a human being. GGGRRRRRRRRRRR I’m just so freaking mad.

I want to know where my Dad is and what is wrong.

 

[POWdER-man]

Wow, that's horrible. Makes you wonder what your father saw in her.


In any case, do you have any family in Salt lake? I am unfamiliar with this law, but I am flabbergasted if they wouldn't reveal if your father is at that hospital. What if you had important medical information that would save his life or if he was dying and you couldn't reach him b/c of some stupid law. I can understand not revealing his condition or why he is there but they should be allowed to state whether or not they have been admitted.

 

[Darth Rockwell]

Yeah I agree one hundred percent that it is ******ed. It's to protect people. That way they don't get people calling and then showing up causing problems if they aren't suppoused to see the person.

He was lonely after my mom died and she was the first thing that paid attention to him

 

[POWdER-man]

Eh, that is still messed up. There should be a way to confirm you are a family member by running off his birth date, address, etc. What do they suggest that you do then, b/c I am sure they are encountering this problem more than once a day? If he was admitted by himself and no one knew he was there, I could see so many different complications with this set up.

IDK, ask them to advise your father (if they are there) to give permission to disclose information to you or have him contact you if he is well enough. Try every hospital and if they are willing to do that you might get fortunate.

 

[DarkReflections]

So my sister got a call from our step-mother telling us our father is in the hospital and she is done he is our responsibility now. Then she hung up on my sister. We don’t know what hospital, what’s wrong, or how to find him. We’ve called the hospitals but because of new laws they are not required to tell you if people are there. We are in Indianapolis and they are in Salt Lake. This woman is psycho. I needed to vent and just get stuff off of my chest. I’m sure this thread will get locked but I feel a little better for posting it.

The hell this woman has put our family through is a long story. The simplest version is her children don’t like her so they won’t talk to her; our family was very tight nit and talked all the time. She has driven our father way from us and the only conversation we have with him tend to end in arguments now. If her kids wont talk to her she’ll make sure we can’t talk to our father.

She constantly tells me I’m a failure and will amount to nothing. That I do not deserve love or to be loved by anyone. That I am a waist of a human being. GGGRRRRRRRRRRR I’m just so freaking mad.

I want to know where my Dad is and what is wrong.

call her back up and tell her "you need to return some videotapes", then hang up on her. that should scare the skank.

 

[Darth Rockwell]

Well we found him. So now comes trying to figure out what happened and how we got to this point. A long road a head.

 

[DarkReflections]

i hope your dad is alright darth.

 

[Darth Rockwell]

He is sedated and restrained. They think he has a stroke but aren't sure. I hate being acros the country.

 

[Prison Mike]

wow, I'm sorry to hear this Darth. This is straight out of a fairy tale with the evil stepmother...

 

[Ahura Mazda]

I hope things get better for you.

 

[Immortalfire]

Very sorry man, I pray your dad the best.

 

[Darth Rockwell]

Thanks you all. I just really needed to vent. My sister isn't helping much. She just wants to go on with life and is like, "There is nothing we can do right now so we just need to wait and see."

I've lived with my dad and step-mom before. I know what hell that woman put me through and how she treated my dad day to day. She has twice told me I could come home and then promptly kicked me back out.

I don't know what to do. I can't run off down there to be with my Dad cause i don't have the money and my sister told me if I go off half cocked and lose the job I have here not to come back. My family feel apart the day my mom died :-(

 

[C. Lee]

Sad news....I hope the best for you and your dad.

 

[amazingfantasy15]

Thanks you all. I just really needed to vent. My sister isn't helping much. She just wants to go on with life and is like, "There is nothing we can do right now so we just need to wait and see."

I've lived with my dad and step-mom before. I know what hell that woman put me through and how she treated my dad day to day. She has twice told me I could come home and then promptly kicked me back out.

I don't know what to do. I can't run off down there to be with my Dad cause i don't have the money and my sister told me if I go off half cocked and lose the job I have here not to come back. My family feel apart the day my mom died :-(

That sucks man, you could try explaining the situation to your job, do you work at a retail place or a 9-5 type place. I'm sure a 9-5 type place would let you take at least a few days off, since it's a family emergency, a retail place probably wouldn't be as understanding though. Sounds like your dad could at least really use the company.

As for your stepmother, I'd definitely stand up to her, deal with these problems head on, what she did was totally out of line, sounds like no one has ever put her in her place so she just thinks she can keep acting like this and get away with it. It's like a bully, he'll keep being a bully until someone finally kicks his @$$.

 

[Darth Rockwell]

That sucks man, you could try explaining the situation to your job, do you work at a retail place or a 9-5 type place. I'm sure a 9-5 type place would let you take at least a few days off, since it's a family emergency, a retail place probably wouldn't be as understanding though. Sounds like your dad could at least really use the company.

As for your stepmother, I'd definitely stand up to her, deal with these problems head on, what she did was totally out of line, sounds like no one has ever put her in her place so she just thinks she can keep acting like this and get away with it. It's like a bully, he'll keep being a bully until someone finally kicks his @$$.

I'm a chef so it's a little hard to take time off. I've stood up to this woman multiple times but then she makes it hell for my dad. It is a lose lose situation with her.

At least my dad is doing a little better. THey have him resting and they think they may have figured out whats wrong.

 

[DarkReflections]

well since your a chef, maybe you can poison the *****es food. but then again thats just me.

 

[Asteroid-Man]

This is some serious, messed-up ****. I hope you get through this.

 

[Dr Lee]

Hope your father recovers Darth...... and that, with this creature gone, you and your sister can attempt to restore your relationship with your father.

 

[Darth Rockwell]

I think this is another smoke up the @$$ thing. Last we heard she was at the hospital with him. She does this everytime and we don't know to believe her or not. My father is so scared to be alone that he wont leave. I'm going to try to call him today and see if they will let him talk on the phone.

 

[SpideyInATree]

That is a very terrible situation with your stepmother, man. I have a buddy who went through about the same thing that you are going through. He always felt completely powerless because his father was just extremely lonely and didn't want to go through life without somebody.

Sorry about your father's health and that makes the situation so much more worse. Though to get rid of the woman it's gotta be up to your dad and your sister needs to really help as well.

Not really to convince your dad but talk with him and let him know how you and your sister feel because of this woman and what it does to you. Once my friend went to his dad and poured his heart out to him his father felt terrible that he was putting his own kid through hell because he just didn't want to be lonely. So, he got rid of the woman eventually, but it wasn't easy. It's never easy.

I know the stress that you have to be going through and having that long of a distance makes it way tougher. Just take it day by day and do what you gotta do to assist your father back to health. Also don't take any **** from that woman either. Horrible people like her need to be constantly put into their place.

Good luck, man

 

[The Squirrel]

 

[Darth Rockwell]

I just want to thank you all for the support. You've all ben amazing.

 

[chaseter]

Wow, that is horrible. I hope things work out for you and I wish the best.

 

[Drakon]

Sorry to be late to the party, but maybe if she's gone, then your family can get back to being the way it was.

 

[Maximum Carnage]

Heya, Darth. I hope everything goes ok with you and your family. We're all here for you!