Girl Stabs Boyfriend for watching Porn.

[enterthemadness]

I don't have porn on the computer. I live at home....now whenever I move out, porno mags ftw. Porn on the PC messes PC up anyhow.

 

[Colossal Spoons]

Wanted to add, I do not think rape is entirely about power. Well at least control. Power and control are not the same thing although they overlap. For one simple reason; you can't get a stiffy (sexual arousal) if its mostly about control. I don't get a stiffy if the wind blows against my twinkywinky and I feel like controlling something. I would not get a stiffy if wanted to "control" a warpig.

The one thing that does confound it being about control is that there is a disproportionate amount of rape victims (amongst women) between the early teens to early 30s. Aka the most fertile times for child rearing. It should be more uniform (or close to) if it is about control.

I just don't buy it, and especially since it is parroted by feminists the most. I find feminists to be one of the most intellectually dishonest groups in academia.

Exactly. I don't believe the "power" thing every time. What if the rapist was just horny? If it were always about power and control; then the best thing a rape victim could do mid-rape is pretend they're enjoying it. Then the rapist would lose interest and leave lol.

 

[TheZink]

I agree with most of the opinions here. It is silly for a woman to get jealous of her man ******* it to porn, let alone stabbing him for doing so.

Now, I can agree for a woman getting upset if her man is not wanting to have sex because he just got done pulling the pud while watching porn, or ONLY wants to have sex while watching or porn, or porn starts to run the guys life.

I am fortunate to have a wife that not only doesn't mind me watching porn, but she will also watch it with me, and get in the mood

 

[The Guard]

Exactly. I don't believe the "power" thing every time. What if the rapist was just horny? If it were always about power and control; then the best thing a rape victim could do mid-rape is pretend they're enjoying it. Then the rapist would lose interest and leave lol.

You can't remove power or sex from rape. If it were just about being really horny and not about subjugation on some level, the rapist would likely do something other than force themselves on someone, wouldn't they? If they do not or cannot, it's more often than not likely because they have no power over their sexual destiny, or at least, not power to the extent they want. Power is very much a part of it, whether the rapist knows or understands it or not.

 

[Anubis]

I am fortunate to have a wife that not only doesn't mind me watching porn, but she will also watch it with me, and get in the mood

Ah, but does she watch it when you aren't there?

 

[TheZink]

Ah, but does she watch it when you aren't there?

Doubtful, I got a sex drive she can't keep up with. If she did and used her toys, it wouldn't bother me. Hell I'm sure she thinks about Johnny Depp, Christian Bale or Jared Leto while doubling clicking her mouse. I wouldn't even mind her not telling me.

Her and I are different in the aspect of sex-drives, as I am sure many couples are. Hell, my mother said she had the same problem with my father. I'm guessing she was a nympho and he just didn't care much. If you are in that kind of relationship, *********ion/porn and such can really help keeping a person in check

 

[Anubis]

Otherwise, somebodies gonna get stabbed.....

 

[Raiden]

Doubtful, I got a sex drive she can't keep up with. If she did and used her toys, it wouldn't bother me. Hell I'm sure she thinks about Johnny Depp, Christian Bale or Jared Leto while doubling clicking her mouse. I wouldn't even mind her not telling me.

Her and I are different in the aspect of sex-drives, as I am sure many couples are. Hell, my mother said she had the same problem with my father. I'm guessing she was a nympho and he just didn't care much. If you are in that kind of relationship, *********ion/porn and such can really help keeping a person in check

My wife also tolerates me watching watching porn.

 

[Colossal Spoons]

You can't remove power or sex from rape. If it were just about being really horny and not about subjugation on some level, the rapist would likely do something other than force themselves on someone, wouldn't they? If they do not or cannot, it's more often than not likely because they have no power over their sexual destiny, or at least, not power to the extent they want. Power is very much a part of it, whether the rapist knows or understands it or not.

What do you mean by this? Like the person cannot control who they'll have sex with next or when it'll happen? Needless to say, I've never raped anybody but I'd imagine it going something like this in some cases:

1. Guy sees a woman he finds sexually attractive.
2. Wonders what it'd be like to have sex with her.
3. Is ballsy/crazy enough to try it.
4. Has no interest in a relationship or even talking, just wants the sex.
5. Rape

 

[The Guard]

What do you mean by this? Like the person cannot control who they'll have sex with next or when it'll happen?

I mean that more often than not, the person doesn't have the ability to decide who he will have sex with, when, to what extent, etc. If they did, it wouldn't be rape. It would just be consensual sex on some level.

I.E, you've got a person who wants to have sex with a particular person or type of person or what have you, but is unable to make that happen. That creates a power issue. They often lack the power to make what they want to happen take place.

Needless to say, I've never raped anybody but I'd imagine it going something like this in some cases:

Except that it looks more like this:

1. Guy sees a woman he finds sexually attractive.
2. Wonders what it'd be like to have sex with her.
3. Is ballsy/crazy enough to try it.
4. Woman (or man) doesn't like the idea
5. Has no interest in a relationship or even talking, just wants the sex.
6. Rape

 

[Colossal Spoons]

^Suppose the rapee put up no struggle whatsoever. Do you think that would discourage the rapist? It wouldn't be quite "consensual" but not your typical "thrashing around in an alley" rape.

 

[AndThePickles]

Hmmm....would it still be considered rape if the person started reciprocating?

 

[Colossal Spoons]

I believe it just becomes "surprise buttsecks" at that point

But seriously, good question.

 

[The Guard]

Suppose the rapee put up no struggle whatsoever. Do you think that would discourage the rapist? It wouldn't be quite "consensual" but not your typical "thrashing around in an alley" rape.

I doubt it, since rape is about sex and power, not always the degree of struggle. Hence date rapes involving alchohol, drugs, etc. The rapist then has power over another person and is getting the sex, and is doing so without the express written consent of Major League Baseball and this station, then it's still rape.

Hmmm....would it still be considered rape if the person started reciprocating?

Depends on if that person gives consent. That's why rape cases are sort of a gray area.

I think if someone starts recipricating (that's what, every rape fantasy ever conceived?) it's still technically rape, because at some point, they were forced to have sex against their will.

 

[Colossal Spoons]

I think if someone starts recipricating (that's what, every rape fantasy ever conceived?) it's still technically rape, because at some point, they were forced to have sex against their will.

I'm just guessing here, but I think the fantasy would be ruined if the person began to reciprocate or even look like they were enjoying themselves. Staying "in character" is key.....I'd imagine.

 

[AndThePickles]

I'm just guessing here, but I think the fantasy would be ruined if the person began to reciprocate or even look like they were enjoying themselves. Staying "in character" is key.....I'd imagine.

Hahaha, adding that at the end makes you look like a creepo

 

[Colossal Spoons]

I guess

 

[Star]

If I walked in on my boyfriend watching porn I'd just slap him in the cock

 

[AndThePickles]

I guess

Sorry, I didn't want that to sound mean

 

[Colossal Spoons]

If I walked in on my boyfriend watching porn I'd just slap him in the cock

Playfully or w/ malice in your heart?

 

[Star]

A bit of both

Come on, it's me

 

[Colossal Spoons]

Ha, you could have gone either way

 

[Star]

Honestly I wouldn't care though

I seriously would be like 'whatever' and move on

 

[Colossal Spoons]

What if he was *********in'?

 

[Star]

I'd be like 'You are disrespecting me yo!'

But really, hahahaha, people who care about that make me want to punch them

I'd just join in!