girl vs. friend but it's not that simple.

[Tangled Web]

Well, I'm off to go see her. If anything happens I'll be sure to tell you guys. Your words of wisdom will be with me.

I'm going early, maybe I'll be able to catch her before the show.

 

[Calvin]

Think of us when you're banging her.

 

[Erzengel]

I was going to make a joke about how his mom would have to drop him off than I realized that you can drive at 16 in California.

 

[Tangled Web]

All right. So we're there and it was a good show. She wasn't in it a whole lot but she was great.

Flash forward to after the play and me and my pals (including him) were talking to some of the cast. Well my friend who was in the show (who is well aware of the situation) seizes the oppurtunity to make things awkward for him. The girl that he crushed on walks towards us and my friend who was in the show pushes the guy towards her and demands a hug. She hugs him and all the while she looks at me making this awkward face.
Well after that I tell her that she was great and as we walk out he was like "Damn it I knew he was gonna do that." He was blushing and then someone pointed at his pants and said "ah look who has a ***** " he blushed some more and I think she heard because she started laughing.

Tommorow night is the cast party but I don't know if I want to go. He said he's not going to.

Over all, it was a pretty fun night.

 

[Crooklyn]

How the f**k did he get a ***** from a hug? When I was 13, I needed more than that.

 

[Tangled Web]

I'm not sure if he got one but someone said he did.

 

[Tangled Web]

So her and I might make a little movie type thing.

She's a cool girl. It's weird that it didn't work between he and her because i can see how she's kind of like myself.

He revealed to me that he's "85% over her"

I've came to the conclusion that his moves regarding this whole thing are a bush leage way to steer me away from her. That's kind of insecure but I understand. It's not going to work, I mean her and I are going to be friends. He's going to have to move on and accept the ridicule that goes along with his 85%. t:

Over time it should be fine. I don't know if I like her like he says I do (based on my eyes or something like that) but I know if I do I would be making the right choice.

Atleast this experience has gotten me out of the realm of taking advantage of naive young girls and into the realm of rediculous High School melodrama.

Plus, I now have a motivation to write something.

 

[ScottyBBadd]

One of my best friends used to like this girl who is in our english class. He liked her for a while and got wrapped up in it but I guess she wasn't on the same page. He was pretty down about it. He seemed upset. This girl is really cool so I have no ill will towards her.

Well, anyway, one day her and I were doing a group assignment in class. We were talking and making fun of our history teacher. After class, my friend goes up to me. He was clearly distraught but he pretended not to be. He said things like "Oh, you two look cute together" and "I can tell you like her". The thing is, I never have seen her like that. Especially since he had a huge crush on her.


The next day her and I presented in class. We worked well together. After class he tells me about how her and I have great chemistry and how he could tell that I have a crush on her by the way my eyes move or something equally rediculous. Again, it was easy to see that he was trying not to sound upset.

Like I said earlier, I've always thought about her as a friend. But on the other hand, I've been thinking; of all the girls at school, she's the only one I can imagine having a good relationship with. Her and I really get along well.


Well, if I did go for it and if she did like me back (he insists that she might) would I be a bad friend?

That is one tough situation, the best friend or the girl friend. I have always believed it was always easier to get a girlfriend than a best friend, but that is just my opinion. Turst your instincts above all else.

 

[Locs]

Like I said earlier, I've always thought about her as a friend. But on the other hand, I've been thinking; of all the girls at school, she's the only one I can imagine having a good relationship with. Her and I really get along well.

This reinforces everything I've always suspected about male/female friendships. That is, that most if not all, of a guy's girl "friends" are girls he would sex if given the opportunity.

Well, if I did go for it and if she did like me back (he insists that she might) would I be a bad friend?

Go for it.

 

[Tangled Web]

This reinforces everything I've always suspected about male/female friendships. That is, that most if not all, of a guy's girl "friends" are girls he would sex if given the opportunity.

How so? I don't see any sexual undertones in that post. It looks pretty innocent to me.

Anyway, I guess it's getting better. He's still a little delusional over this whole time and a little paranoid but I hope he gets clue soon. He says he rather me get her than some other guy. I don't think I believe him as he is the jealous type. We'll see, prom isn't that far away. I don't know what I'm going to do about that but we'll see.

 

[Tangled Web]

Alright this has escalated to a point where I didn't want it to go.

He and I are talking on AIM and she signs on and he starts giving me this **** aboyt : "go talk to her, you know you want to" and it's starting to bother me.

What's bothering me more is him saying that he can see it in my eyes that I like her. He says that because I'm happier when I'm around her is how he can tell. I told him that it's because I feel more appreciated around her and no he's being an ass and saying that I need to quite filling sorry for myself.

 

[Master Chief]

This reinforces everything I've always suspected about male/female friendships. That is, that most if not all, of a guy's girl "friends" are girls he would sex if given the opportunity.




Go for it.

It's human nature, yo. Actually I don't think I could let it get that far. 'Cause it'd be like diddling a sibling's pooter.

 

[Kritish]

Web's thread reek of a sex offender in the making...

 

[Tangled Web]

Yes, Kritish. Don't read through the thread just say a canned response.


I said I like talking to her because she's nice and now he's saying "how do I know she's being real." Why the hell would she send me chat invites and initiate conversation just to not be sincre?

 

[Erzengel]

This reinforces everything I've always suspected about male/female friendships. That is, that most if not all, of a guy's girl "friends" are girls he would sex if given the opportunity.

Really Spaceman? What else have you been able to discern from living among us?

 

[November Rain]

gone are the days when people could talk directly to one another about their problems.

the end is nigh...

on the flipside, alpha and omega is back...

 

[kytrigger]

Alright this has escalated to a point where I didn't want it to go.

He and I are talking on AIM and she signs on and he starts giving me this **** aboyt : "go talk to her, you know you want to" and it's starting to bother me.

What's bothering me more is him saying that he can see it in my eyes that I like her. He says that because I'm happier when I'm around her is how he can tell. I told him that it's because I feel more appreciated around her and no he's being an ass and saying that I need to quite filling sorry for myself.

Just tell him to drop it. You'll do whatever you decide to do, no matter what he keeps saying.

And what the hell is with this line? Just so you nkow, this line kind of makes it sound like you have a crush on him but he just doesn't treat you right.

 

[Calvin]

That theory doesn't sound too far off considering the tone of this thread.

 

[Mr Jide]

TW, to hell with your "friend". He's a loser, a reject. He can see it in your eyes?? wtf? Tell him to p1ss off. If you like this chick go for it. Be a man, be assertive, stop worrying about stepping on people's toes because you're not. Go get the girl.