Its because of statements like this that makes it so hard to for people in general to believe in decent, honest and chivalrous men these days. Being one of those men, I'll let you know I waited a year and six months. Until both me and my soon to be fiance were ready to say 'I love you' to each other, in the absolute sense of the words.
And as for 'normal' guys, I don't know where you live, but there are more than enough guys out there who feel if not the same way, similarly to me.
And for the record, yes I have and still do love someone so much it makes me want to cry sometimes. Specifically when she has to be away from me for long periods of time. It hurts, in a way I never knew anything could hurt.
So call me a gay man, a wuss, emo, whatever. But there are alot of things worse than stupid people thinking you're effeminate or whipped, and one of the worst is dying without ever finding true love.
P.S. That list bit wasn't actually at you muertvilla, just at people in general.