I wanna start this by saying that most of the people I've lived with have accused ME of being a mental housemate because I've screamed at them a lot, broken down into tears over things... At one point a living situation was so bad I started heavily drinking and self harming.
But let's put this in perspective by telling a few stories.
1. I came home once at 5.30 to my housemates and two of his friends doing GBL.
My housemate was sat, glazed eyes, staring at a wall, repeating the motion of lifting a beer bottle to his mouth over and over and making 'uhhhh' noises. The beer bottle didn't even have the lid off. One of his friends was trying to literally eat our furniture. And the other one started hitting on me the minute I walked in the room... Well if you can stroking me and smelling me hitting on me.
I went upstairs to my room, totally freaked, started crying and called a friend of mine in his thirties and a bit more level headed than me.
While waiting for him, my roomate comes to the upstairs bathroom. He starts repeatedly saying 'oh ****, oh ****' and I come out, worried and see him just standing there with his dick in his hand, staring at the wall, still repeating the phrase...
My friend gets there, sees the state of them, and takes me for a walk outside. By the time I get back, they are TOTALLY back to normal, and when I tell them what happened they brush it off, laugh, and say 'yeah that was fun'.
2. Found a roomates friend pissing in my kitchen sink... While there where bowls in there.
3. Found a guy that my roomate had invited in, passed out in my bathroom with a needle in his arm. My roomate never let him back in again and was really angry, but it's not the point.
4. Stupidly told me roomate that for his birthday he could do 'whatever he wanted', which he took to an extreme.
He and his friends put on rubber animal masks and came into my room, jumping on my bed where I was sleeping with an ex. He punched one of them in the face and they left giggling.
5. Came home to find people using my saucepan to cook magic mushroom stew.
6. Was yelled at for moving a glass... Because there was a spider under it that he was keeping as a pet. And when I say yelled at, the guy went psycho!
7. Walked out into a shared kitchen in a house of bed sits to find human **** in the middle of the floor.
8. Came out of my room in the morning, climbed over two people sleeping outside my bedroom door, and in the kitchen found my brand new smoothie maker... Which had been used to wizz up meat. When asked what the hell they were wizzing up meat for, they said it was to post through someones letter box they hated saying it was the persons cat. I told them they were disgusting and that I had half a mind to call the police. When my housemate sobered up he genuinely seemed horrified by what he'd done himself so I forgave him eventually.
9. Came home to find a cage full of rats in our hallway... We weren't allowed pets, and my roomate had not even MENTIONED them. I flipped at him so badly.
10. Moved into a place with one big room and one small room. Before we accepted it, I said to the guy 'are you sure your okay with a room that small?' Which he insisted he was... When I moved in, he'd decided it wasn't, and had taken the living room as his room instead... So we had no lounge for the whole time we lived there.
11. Lived with 4 girls who liked to have group meetings in which they'd decide everything was my fault and then organise an intervention style confrontation in which they'd say 'Someone keeps leaving toast crumbs in the kitchen...' As though I couldn't clearly see they were suggesting it was me and had already discussed it without me.
12. Had a roomate at uni who used to play her music so loud I couldn't hear my laptop at it's top volume.
13. Had a bathroom with carpet in a house with 3 boys who couldn't hit the bowl... Ever... The stench was horrendous.
14. Moved into a lodging situation. It lasted 2 nights before the 50 something father of the house tried to kiss me goodnight
15. Lived in a room with no lock on the door. This house had 4 cats, 2 dogs and 2 little kids. I had absolutely no privacy, and was woken up at 7 in the morning every morning. I was working nights
16. Woke up to the fire alarm. Came downstairs to find my housemate in his pants, curled up in a ball on the kitchen floor. A pork chop was on fire under the grill, and what I'm assuming was vegetables was now a black smoking charred thing in the bottom of a pan.
17. My housemate was having a party when a friend of ours came into my room saying he was in a bad way. When I go to find my housemate to tell him, he says 'leave him too it' and shuts the door. I spend the rest of the night mopping the guys brow while he calls me mother teresa. He died about two weeks later on a seperate occasion at someone elses house, from the same cocktail of drugs he'd been on that night.
18. Had our old lady next door neighbour knock on the door in the morning crying about the noise. Which I had to deal with, not my housemate who was passed out from making the noise by partying.
19. Got stuck with paying council tax and a massive BT bill because my housemate decided after we'd moved out that he didn't see why we had to pay that much... Because we DO, you ass! Even worse thing, he HAD thousands and thousands of pounds from a payout for an accident. He then went swanning off around thailand while I was stuck broke for months.
That's probably enough for now...