How do you convince...

[Fanticon]

This used to happen at my school all the time...18-20yr old guys who'd graduated from the same school would hang around in the parking lot picking up girls from freshman to juniors....it happens all over the country. Heres what you do...find some dirt on him...how many other younger girls has he been "interested" in, then show her the facts and figures on kidnappings, date rapes, std's....statistics that all point to the behavior of a 19 yr old deviant. It might not win you any points...but its a small battle...and if word gets back to him...he might have fighting words with you...in which case you can suck it up, get into a fight with him...and then have his @$$ thrown in jail for assault on a minor, perhaps you could even mention that you intended to stop him from going after younger girls in your school and that you were being protective....naturally, the girl in this situation will take the side of her knight in shining armor after your broken nose heals...and hopefully you guys are the same age to be dating...and you'll fall in love, be the homecoming king and queen one year, go to prom the next, spend every summer together before going off to different colleges. but u still write to eachother, and then everytime you return home for a holiday you'll meet up at your secret rendezvous and watch a nice sunset or gaze at the stars...question how serious your relationship is...move on with your careers...and then a few more years pass, and its time to settle down, you've bought a conflict-free diamond engagement ring and are ready to propose....but a few days earlier...the guy you got thrown in jail has just been released from jail...and he's heard your back in town...you'll need to stay alert...bring some protection so that youre prepared for anything...and stand up for yourself...because "its a sick sick world" you tell yourself, "a world where 19 year old guys get away with taking advantage of 14 yr old girls"...which is how you got involved in this mess in the first place...so...are you really ready for all that? The road less travelled my friend...its all about what happens if you went right instead of left...or what if Dorothy didn't follow the yellow brick road? You wanna be responsible for not telling someone about this? I wouldnt.
http://www.cnn.com/2006/LAW/09/18/text.rescue/index.html

 

[Mr Sparkle]

you use " ... " an awful lot, are you William Shatner?

 

[Abaddon]

a friend of my mother has a daughter who got knocked up at 14 by a 19 year old.

 

[Fanticon]

you use " ... " an awful lot, are you William Shatner?

writer's bad habit. I used to get in trouble for it in school. They loved my writing but hated grading me down for not punctuating.

 

[Mr Sparkle]

are you at least paying child support?

 

[Abaddon]

eww, no it wasn't me. She's a fatty.






also underage.

 

[Kevin]

How many movies have you seen to come up with this, Fanticon? Seriously.

 

[Kyalesyin]

I wish I knew the answer.. my sister turns 14 in february and has her eye on a guy who has to be at least 20. Older brother of one of her friends from school. I pinned him to a wall and told him I'd make his guitar and his rear end good friends if he didn't leave off her, but apparently, she's the one chasing him. I just don't get it.

 

[redmarvel]

You can;

Call the cops
Tell her parents
Explain statutory rape to him

You can also:

tell HIS parents. Sometimes mom's can put the perfect guilt trips on their children

Explain statutory rape to HER. Tell her she could end up putting her love in jail.

 

[Tangled Web]

You can also:

tell HIS parents. Sometimes mom's can put the perfect guilt trips on their children

Explain statutory rape to HER. Tell her she could end up putting her love in jail.

She seems to think that if she won't get found out about, then no one gets in trouble.

Last night, we were talking again and she gave me the crap that "age is just a number." I nearly puked before I told her it's not just a matter of age but a matter of maturity and she has some growing up to do.

 

[jimmy]

Shouldn't you be in school?

 

[Cyrusbales]

The 19 year old dude is gonna bang her, end of story. It's a story we all seen before, just live with it

 

[Tangled Web]

Shouldn't you be in school?

0 period starts at 7:05 and 5th period ends at 1:40.

It's a ***** waking up that early but atleast I can get out earlier.

 

[Kyalesyin]

She seems to think that if she won't get found out about, then no one gets in trouble.

Last night, we were talking again and she gave me the crap that "age is just a number." I nearly puked before I told her it's not just a matter of age but a matter of maturity and she has some growing up to do.

My sister says pretty much the same to me. Shes convinced that this guy is the one, that they're in love, and oddly enough that if she tells people that they won't have a problem with what they want to do.

She also called me a control freak and screamed at me that she hates me and I should leave her alone because I can't possibly understand what its like to be in love... Hmmm. Five years older. Happily married. Four-year relationship now... clearly I know nothing about love. I now realise what a pain in the ass I must have been at fourteen.

Effectively, nothing you can really do. If you tell them not to- they'll do it. You encourage them, they'll do it.

 

[Tangled Web]

My sister says pretty much the same to me. Shes convinced that this guy is the one, that they're in love, and oddly enough that if she tells people that they won't have a problem with what they want to do.

She also called me a control freak and screamed at me that she hates me and I should leave her alone because I can't possibly understand what its like to be in love... Hmmm. Five years older. Happily married. Four-year relationship now... clearly I know nothing about love. I now realise what a pain in the ass I must have been at fourteen.

Effectively, nothing you can really do. If you tell them not to- they'll do it. You encourage them, they'll do it.

I guess all young girls are like this. I told her it's just a phase.

 

[Super Mark]

^ Don't get your heart broken. That's my advice. Impossible to follow as it is.

I've had LOTS of injuries. I spent almost 20 years in judo, going to many competitions -- and getting my a$$ handed to me a lot (hey, you always hear about the guy who is "undefeated"; there has to be someone out there losing, right? It's me.) . Also spent my growing up years in the Army. I've been injured (or diseased... don't ask), all told, in ways you can't even imagine. Some extremely injurous. NONE of them, not ONE of the physical pains I've suffered, made me want to drop dead worse than the one or two times I've truly had my heart broken.

You, fellow Hypester, sound like you could be setting yourself up for a broken heart. Back off. Or pay attention to someone else who might like you. Or focus intently on school work. Or learn a language. Just don't put yourself in the position to get your heart broken. It's freaking agony. And it sounds like in this case, it's not worth it. She's made a choice, and sadly, it's not you. And it may not be the right choice for her. You've had your say. You've made your plea. For your own sake, move on to another interest of some sort. Let her think she's being "so mature" and "cool."

Good luck,
Mark

 

[Hades]

Ha, that kind of stuff happends all the time where I live.

You tend to just ignore it.

Yeah, the guy probably does just want her for sex. But she'll find out herself for being stupid.

 

[terry78]

Sit her down and make her watch a Kids and Thirteen marathon. That may do something.

The irony is that girls always want someone older than you when they're your age, yet when you get to that age, you can't date the younger ones, and the ones your age are no longer interested and want younger ones.

 

[Kevin]

Then she'll be all hurt, and then that'll be your chance to be like "I TOLD you, you stupid b****. Now you're nothing but a ****e to me. BE GONE, ****e!"

 

[Tangled Web]

Thanks Mark, Hades. Yeah, I'll just kick back see how this turns out. When she realizes she's made a mistake, I guess I'll be supportive. I don't know. Hopefully this pervert grows a soul or something.

 

[unstoppable]

a 14 year old girl to not want to go out with a 19 year old guy?

I know this girl, she's kind of cute. We've been talking for a while but she's starting to bother me with her being so naive. She likes some 19 year old guy and she says that he likes her back. I felt so frustrated with how dumb that is. I told her that he knows he can take advantage of a young naive girl. But she thinks that he likes her "for real"" and not just for sex.

She's making a dumb ass mistake. What kind of 19 year old guy is trying to have sex with a 14 year old girl? It's creepy and wrong.

beat the crap out of the guy

 

[Asteroid-Man]

talk to your friend

 

[terry78]

beat the crap out of the guy

He mentioned the guy could possibly do the same to him. Just because some dudes are jerks and losers doesn't mean they're physically weak. Mentally, maybe, but most strong guys are.

 

[Tangled Web]

talk to your friend

Pfft... Believe me, I've tried. I just can't get through to her.

He mentioned the guy could possibly do the same to him. Just because some dudes are jerks and losers doesn't mean they're physically weak. Mentally, maybe, but most strong guys are.

Exactly.

 

[mightiest_mortal]

OOH OOH!! IVe got an idea, get some other kid, who you knows a slapper, to pull him, and make a sex tape to show her thatl put her off.
(though you might have to pay the other girl... depends how much of a slapper she is)