How many times have you been heartbroken?

[Erzengel]

This was an earlier tale of heartache.

I remember my first real job and this girl, dark hair, light eyes, perverted sense of humor. We hit it off fast and it sounds corny but I liked her even before I even spoke with her. She came in as interviewee who was later hired.

We became friends but she's the reason why I'm hard on everyone here about being friends with a girl you like. Though there were many times I should have just kissed her, I was too naive and insecure to.

She then got involved with some waste of space and in a way I was heartbroken that she settled for that and because our senses of humor were so so similiar.

We were never involved but in a way she broke my heart. I still run into her every now and then and I still consider her a friend. She's my only real big "what if"? But like I said earlier, I'm not a big fan of regret.

Ugh, rereading this, this is the same stupid sh't I make fun of others for writing.

 

[danielisthor]

Twice by the same woman. She should really give me my heart back so i can try and get it ripped out again.

 

[Erzengel]

All this talk of ice cream, I'm going to make myself a bowl of Breyer's Cookie Dough.

 

[Immortalfire]

What about your favorite cheerdown or heartbreak song. There are so many...

 

[Dwarf lord]

Just once. She was a good friend of mine, but I saw her as more than that. I was getting up my strength to ask her out, but before I could, she began going out with another friend of mine. Needless to say, I was a bit devistated. She didn't like that very much, so she decided to stop being my friend entirely. I was hurt for a little bit, but I realized something like that really wasn't worth my time and effort, so I moved on.

 

[X-Chick]

This was an earlier tale of heartache.

I remember my first real job and this girl, dark hair, light eyes, perverted sense of humor. We hit it off fast and it sounds corny but I liked her even before I even spoke with her. She came in as interviewee who was later hired.

We became friends but she's the reason why I'm hard on everyone here about being friends with a girl you like. Though there were many times I should have just kissed her, I was too naive and insecure to.

She then got involved with some waste of space and in a way I was heartbroken that she settled for that and because our senses of humor were so so similiar.

We were never involved but in a way she broke my heart. I still run into her every now and then and I still consider her a friend. She's my only real big "what if"? But like I said earlier, I'm not a big fan of regret.

Ugh, rereading this, this is the same stupid sh't I make fun of others for writing.

It's okay to write emotional crap every once in a while, as long as you don't emo on us and make threads about it.

I have like two "what ifs" still out there, but I'm not a big fan of regret either. We make the choices, whether they're wrong and right, and are forced to live with them and learn from them.

 

[Erzengel]

It's okay to write emotional crap every once in a while, as long as you don't emo on us and make threads about it.

I have like two "what ifs" still out there, but I'm not a big fan of regret either. We make the choices, whether they're wrong and right, and are forced to live with them and learn from them.

I know.

But it just seems to f'ing insignificant because of all the meaningful, reciprocal relationships I've had since then.

Yet years later in a way it still kinda bothers me.

 

[DBella]

I wish I could say the same and good lord this thread is depressing.

I'm not waiting or hoping. If it happens it happens, if not, I'll still live my life.

Wanna share Haagen Daaz ice cream with me?

 

[X-Chick]

I know.

But it just seems to f'ing insignificant because of all the meaningful, reciprocal relationships I've had since then.

Yet years later in a way it still kinda bothers me.

I've discovered that relationships that never were tend to bother you more than the ones you actually had and lost. I guess because not knowing what might have happened is worse than just losing it. At least then you have some resolution and later you can look back and realize that it never would have worked. Its the ones that might've worked and could've even been great that will haunt you.

Ugh, now you have me doing it. I'm going to get some mint chocolate chip.

 

[Babs Gordon]

My second heartbreak was similar to yours in a way Erzengel. I posted about it while I was still highly involved int he situation. It wasn't a relationship in the traditional sense... we weren't together. But he was my friend and spend most of every day with me showering me with what girls dream to get from guys. Attention, humor, songs, adoring teasing, compliments. Then he revealed what an emotional f**k he was and how self absorbed he really was. I was basically an ego trip for a solid year after spending so much of my emotional energy on him. I loved him and he used me. >8'( So much for friendship.

 

[tzarinna]

I'm not waiting or hoping. If it happens it happens, if not, I'll still live my life.

Wanna share Haagen Daaz ice cream with me?

Word.

 

[Babs Gordon]

ok... stonyfield farm chocolate frozen yogurt... it's all i got.

 

[X-Chick]

That sucks Babs. Have some ice cream.

Also, I lied before. I have 3 what if's floating around, one I became friends with and the other two I guess I'm kind of friends with but it still hurts like hell when I talk to them.

 

[Erzengel]

My second heartbreak was similar to yours in a way Erzengel. I posted about it while I was still highly involved int he situation. It wasn't a relationship in the traditional sense... we weren't together. But he was my friend and spend most of every day with me showering me with what girls dream to get from guys. Attention, humor, songs, adoring teasing, compliments. Then he revealed what an emotional f**k he was and how self absorbed he really was. I was basically an ego trip for a solid year after spending so much of my emotional energy on him. I loved him and he used me. >8'( So much for friendship.

I think I remember replying to several of your posts about this relationship, giving you a guy's point of view.

I guess I missed out on the latter part of it.

 

[DBella]

Word.

You get to pick the flavor since you find this thread to be depressing.

Okay, after reading Erz's and Babs' posts, I am officially depressed.

 

[tzarinna]

Mine are too fu^ked up to share.

 

[Babs Gordon]

yeah... i've been lucky so far. knock on wood it will stay that way.

 

[tzarinna]

You get to pick the flavor since you find this thread to be depressing.

Cappuccino Commotion,if we can find it,it's a rarity.

 

[Babs Gordon]

however... knowing me and living in this town i'll fall for some *****y olympic athlete and give and give and give hoping for the best back from him only to realize too far down the road that i deserve better and that i've just been "*****ed". haha.

 

[Iceman]

I've discovered that relationships that never were tend to bother you more than the ones you actually had and lost. I guess because not knowing what might have happened is worse than just losing it. At least then you have some resolution and later you can look back and realize that it never would have worked. Its the ones that might've worked and could've even been great that will haunt you.

Yeah, I know what you mean. A relationship that never developed fully can stay alive without any flaws. When you lose a developed relationship there's nearly always a good reason behind it.

 

[Erzengel]

If I wasn't secure in my masculinity, I'd almost feel a lil embarassed swapping love stories with all the women on here.

I swear we aren't playing Mystery Date and you aren't touching my hair and giving me a makeover.

 

[Babs Gordon]

my friends and i would typically take turns braiding and rebraiding each others hair. or give shoulder massages.

 

[Erzengel]

Shoulder massages sound kinda nice actually.

 

[X-Chick]

You get to pick the flavor since you find this thread to be depressing.

Okay, after reading Erz's and Babs' posts, I am officially depressed.

I have one. This guy I had a crush on since I was 13 moved down the street from me. He was so amazing, we had so much in common, always had a blast together, and he was ridiculously hot. He used to drive all the way to my high school to pick me up even though he'd already graudated, it was so bad I even lied about my car being broken. I remeber how adorable he looked when he practiced with his band and exactly the color his eyes were when he looked at me while he was singing. There was this one night when we were hanging out and we both almost took the leap, but I guess we were both to afraid to make that move. He started dating some other chick and I was crushed. Just like he was when he found out I was engaged. It still hurts like hell for us to talk.

God, that sounds so pathetic. Young love sucks.

With the other one, we were both just too afraid to make the move and didn't want to ruin our friendship. And the other one is just an *******.

 

[tzarinna]

I swear we aren't playing Mystery Date and you aren't touching my hair and giving me a makeover.

Alright,you got a chuckle out of me.