Babs Gordon said:My second heartbreak was similar to yours in a way Erzengel. I posted about it while I was still highly involved int he situation. It wasn't a relationship in the traditional sense... we weren't together. But he was my friend and spend most of every day with me showering me with what girls dream to get from guys. Attention, humor, songs, adoring teasing, compliments. Then he revealed what an emotional f**k he was and how self absorbed he really was. I was basically an ego trip for a solid year after spending so much of my emotional energy on him. I loved him and he used me. >8'( So much for friendship.
Good God! I think we've been involved with the same guy!

Only it took me almost 2 years to figure out his self-absorbtion and that I was only an ego trip for him.

I said once, and it was much like Babs.
Although, I'm starting to think I have another one comming on real soon.

