How many times have you been heartbroken?

How many times?

  • Never been in love, so I couldn't have my heart broken

  • Been in love but my heart wasn't ever broken

  • One

  • Two

  • Three

  • Four

  • Five or more


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Nah he really isn't manipulative. I've known him for a long time and he's never been anything but genuine and honest with me. We shared a lot back in the day, a lot of it because we had this experience in europe in the same place with the same people at different times. He was... always a gentleman. Never pushed me. Quietly waited for a while after I started going out with someone else and during that time faithful e-mailed me and drove several hours each way to visit me to assure me of his friendship/feelings. I was the idiot in this situation. I am sorry our friendship waned but he and I will always be able to jump start it. There's more there than fluff.
 
I got dumped once, I've only had one g/f. I really wasn't too heartbroken, more pissed. That sounds kinda odd I guess, but its true.
 
I knew this guy, for a while actually, and we always had a weird relationship, but it was a good weird. Then I had to get stupid and catch feelings for him. My next stupid move was to tell him, which he eventually, in a round-about way, said he did too. Then he turned into a complete *******. And like a dumbass, I still tried talking to him. Now I hope he burns forever in the fiery bowels of hell. But he'll probably be a "what if" for a while. And that sucks. :cmad::csad:
 
Babs Gordon said:
Nah he really isn't manipulative. I've known him for a long time and he's never been anything but genuine and honest with me. We shared a lot back in the day, a lot of it because we had this experience in europe in the same place with the same people at different times. He was... always a gentleman. Never pushed me. Quietly waited for a while after I started going out with someone else and during that time faithful e-mailed me and drove several hours each way to visit me to assure me of his friendship/feelings. I was the idiot in this situation. I am sorry our friendship waned but he and I will always be able to jump start it. There's more there than fluff.

Aw, I have a story like that, too. It's like the only one I haven't told. :csad:
 
I've never had my heart broken, but I've broken a few of those myself. :ninja:
 
Where do broken hearts go....

Can they find their way home....

Back to the open arms....

Of a love that's waiting there for me....

LOL

Sorry listeing to a cover of this song by Me First and the Gimme Gimmes. :o
 
It was a long distance love and he was my boss with a company that did a lot of traveling.
He lived in NC and never dated outside his race,I date a lot of those. :huh: I loved the southern accent and he was cute,also hung like....um hmm.:O
We dated for a very long time,the sex was amazing,we had a lot in common,we both love to travel,love the outdoors and so much more. He'd come up cause the company was located here. I never met his family or friends,apparently they would never approve of our relationship. He's met most of my family. I was just having a good time and all my friends and family were pushing me to get married so I started questioning him. We grew apart only getting together for sex and he began just using and manipulating me. We'd physically get into fights. The last time we talked he was engaged and he was seeing dollar signs,they were going to start a business together,when I asked about if he loved her I got no reply. So I haven't heard from him but we dated for about 4 years,I was celibate for 3-4 years before that.
I'm leaving a lot out to protect my heart and those that are reading it.
 
Dude, am I the only guy who actually went into detail? :huh:
 
Erzengel said:
Dude, am I the only guy who actually went into detail? :huh:

Looks like it.

Sad story. The race thing is just stupid, but being from the south, I can unfortunately understand the family thing. People here are so close-minded. :csad:
 
I meant by telling a story not just saying yes no. :o
 
tzarinna said:
He lived in NC and never dated outside his race,I date a lot of those. :huh:
i've never dated *inside* my race :huh:

that guy sounds like a real winner though :down:down
 
It's odd cause I talked to his mom and dad on the phone several times.
 
X-Chick said:
Looks like it.

Sad story. The race thing is just stupid, but being from the south, I can unfortunately understand the family thing. People here are so close-minded. :csad:

X

I'm white and asian but it's apparent to both races that I'm mixed. So I was dating this girl. Not a heartbreak but more of a pissed off scenario and her mom goes to her, and they are both white and says "What if you 2 have kids together?"

And this was the northeast. Close mindedness doesn't know any boundaries. :down
 
triplefive said:
i've never dated *inside* my race :huh:

that guy sounds like a real winner though :down:down

Some people are stupid. You're with someone because you love them, not because you share skin color. :whatever: :csad:
 
He broke off the engagement with the woman saying she didn't love him. :huh:
 
Erzengel said:
X

I'm white and asian but it's apparent to both races that I'm mixed. So I was dating this girl. Not a heartbreak but more of a pissed off and her mom goes to her, white girl and says "What if you 2 have kids together?"

And this was the northeast. Close mindedness doesn't know any boundaries. :down

I know, but its rampant around here. :csad:
 
X-Chick said:
Some people are stupid. You're with someone because you love them, not because you share skin color. :whatever: :csad:

But if you aren't attracted to them in the first place.....

Some people just don't go for certain races cause they just happen not to be attracted to them.

I've never dated an Asian.
 
Erzengel said:
But if you aren't attracted to them in the first place.....

Some people just don't go for certain races cause they just happen not to be attracted to them.

I've never dated an Asian.

Right, but people who are attracted and won't do it just because they're not the same race are ******ed.

I've never dated an Asian either. Mostly because I don't know a whole lot or just never clicked with one. I have dated outside my race though. My dad wasn't very thrilled. :o
 
Erzengel said:
But if you aren't attracted to them in the first place.....

Some people just don't go for certain races cause they just happen not to be attracted to them.

I've never dated an Asian.
yeah, it's not race, per se, for me; it's a person's interests and culture. i've never dated a chinese person, but i've dated a caucasian/japanese mixed guy and he was a hockey player.

i just don't like the things that the chinese guys i've met are into.
 
I blame my mom for trying to push me into dating within my race during my rebellious stage. I was never the same since.
 
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