I think I'm experiencing the purest form of love imaginable

[Kritish]

You forgot Spelling and Grammar Nazis.

But, how is that different from any other families?

But I'm a spelling nazi.

 

[CConn]

Kritish, no swiping!

 

[Honey Vibe]

To talk about things other than my relationships.

So wait, you don't need Hype to be happy?
...You?

 

[Kritish]

Kritish, no swiping!

Not until I get my Barbara Walters real doll back!

 

[Kritish]

So wait, you don't need Hype to be happy?
...You?

No, but the Hype needs me to be unhappy.

 

[Abaddon]

Yeah, an extended family full of sireal killers and virgins.

But I'm a spelling nazi.

no you're not.

 

[Master Chief]

He's a taco Nazi.

 

[Erzengel]

no you're not.

Glad somebody picked up on it.

 

[Abaddon]

I can pick out about a dozen others.

 

[Hyper Venom]

That's because I find it stupid that people go onto a superhero forum and ask for advice in their pathetic relationships.

I'm still trying to figure out where exactly you're getting this from.

A. I never said this was about a relationship.

B. I never asked for advice.

C. I asked if it's commonplace for people to find themselves caring so deeply for a friend. That's neither asking for advice nor speaking of a relationship.

So, uh...how exactly am I asking for advice on a relationship?

But since you seem to want to keep beating this dead horse, even though it has nothing whatsoever to do with this thread, let me ask you a question: If it's so pathetic for a person to come to a comic book forum and ask for advice on a relationship (which, once again, I did not do), isn't it even more pathetic to spend an entire day whining and moaning about people doing so, which is pretty much what you've been doing all day?

Introspection - The other OTHER white meat.

 

[Honey Vibe]

^owned.

 

[patrickbateman]

totally

 

[Kaleb]

Kritish just got served.

 

[CyberFaust]

this was good, holesome, farm fresh fun. kritish owned

 

[Erzengel]

I'm still trying.....
Lots of words
....white meat.

Anywho HV, I think you and your friend need to take a break from each other especially, if you are trying to work things out with an ex and she is otherwise involved. Having these feelings for each other and spending time with each other, is just asking for trouble.

 

[Hyper Venom]

Anywho HV, I think you and your friend need to take a break from each other especially, if you are trying to work things out with an ex and she is otherwise involved. Having these feelings for each other and spending time with each other, is just asking for trouble.

Sounds reasonable. I honestly wouldn't expect the issue to come to that point, but I do see where you're coming from.

 

[Erzengel]

Doesn't take too much, you'd be surprised. An arguement with your gf or she having an arguement with her bf and running into the arms of a friend for solace. Doesn't just happen in movies my friend.

 

[Hyper Venom]

Now you're getting me nervous. But if such a thing did happen, I certainly wouldn't mind. Of course, then it brings up that whole "we don't want to ruin the friendship" thing.

 

[Erzengel]

I hate that excuse. Mostly because I feel it's a cop out. And when it's used by a woman it usually means she's just not attracted to you.

Life is all about risk and choice. We risk things in order for something more and usually better.

At the end of the day, if you can say if given the choice between lover and friend and you choose the latter? I'd say you were lying.

But hey it's possible that she's just a great person that you want to keep her as a friend but normally the feelings of love aren't there.

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

I have this friend. She and I are very close. I'm not attracted to her or anything, but we're really great friends. And something hit me not too long ago when I was thinking about her: I love her. I mean I really, truly love her. I would give anything for her without a moment's hesitation. And the reason this perplexes me is because we're not in a relationship, and we're not related. Until now I never thought a person could feel that kind of love for somebody who doesn't fall under either of those categories. It's really kind of confusing.

So, am I odd? Or is this sort of thing commonplace?

WTF is wrong with the world?
You're wondering if it's abnormal to love your friend?!?
You think you can only love family members and people you're ****ing?!?
That's warped.

In fact, seeing as how you never chose your own family, and that really the only thing that necessarily bonds you is genetics, to me it's WAY more likely that you'd love a friend than a family member.

GD

 

[Knives122]

Wasn't the guy who started this thread the same guy who slept with his gf's sister and ended up giving her anal rappage?

 

[jaguarr]

I'm going to give another take on this. It is indeed possible to have a very close, platonic relationship with someone of the opposite sex in a lasting fashion that does not interfere with the rest of your relationships. I have two such very close female friends that I have been close to for YEARS and YEARS. I love them like they were my own sisters and I'd do anything for them. Too many people automatically identify the use of the word "love" with the romantic connotations it carries but there's a lot more to that word than just that. It CAN make relationships a little tricky if you don't handle them right at the beginning and make sure that the people you're respectively dating understand that it truly is platonic (and, yes, a lot of people have trouble believing that). But it can be done. My wife is now great friends with both of these women I have been friends with for so long. It can work without being forced to choose one or the other. It honestly depends on the people involved and their level of maturity. That's my experience with it. Take that as you may.

jag

 

[jaguarr]

Wasn't the guy who started this thread the same guy who slept with his gf's sister and ended up giving her anal rappage?

No, that was Mr. Credible, a.k.a. Mr. Chocolate Dick.

jag

 

[jaguarr]

WTF is wrong with the world?
You're wondering if it's abnormal to love your friend?!?
You think you can only love family members and people you're ****ing?!?
That's warped.

In fact, seeing as how you never chose your own family, and that really the only thing that necessarily bonds you is genetics, to me it's WAY more likely that you'd love a friend than a family member.

GD

jag

 

[Erzengel]

a.k.a I don't realize that endowed girls' boobs sag.

Which is a personal favorite of mine giving that Mr. C is somewhat of a braggart when it comes to women and sex.