i'm helping with problems again.

[Danalys]

your super power is your mind. also if comics have taught me anything radiation radiation radiation. try gamma mixed with cosmic mixed with what some machine produces. remember your curse is your gift tho.

 

[Hades]

your super power is your mind. also if comics have taught me anything radiation radiation radiation. try gamma mixed with cosmic mixed with what some machine produces. remember your curse is your gift tho.

Where am i going to find anything cosmic

 

[Danalys]

in ssspppaaaaaaacccccccccceeeeeeeee.

 

[The Amazing Lee]

I have a problem. I can solve myself, I think but I just want you to have a go at seeing what you would do in this situation.

So, I have a friend. Let's just call him Craig (cuz that's his name )

You see, he's a good mate of mine, but lately, I can't trust him to save my life, and yesterday was the icing on the cake.

He lies, steals (which came alot more apparent yesterday when he told me he stole 20 pounds from his till at work because he drunk WTF)

He just seems to be a sorry excuse for a guy, he lies alot and I can tell when he lies because I've seen him do it!!

Sometimes it makes me go insane because I think he's stolen something of mine even though he hasn't gone near it. I mean when he stayed round mine once, a fiver went missing....concidence, I think not.

But now he seems to be going lower in the sense that he just seems to be destroying a life that was pretty healthy with seeing loose women (Well, I know for a fact the girl he was kissing and said would see is definetely no saint) and I know he's grieving over losing his girlfriend....but I know that either someone's gonna teach him a lesson or I WILL!

 

[Danalys]

your friend is going through alot of ****. i'd just wait for an opertunity to really talk with him about whats going on in his life both now and in the past. what has led to this self destruction. what hurt him. but it has to be at a time when he is comfortable and feels safe stuff like that. a time when he couldn't possibly get embaressed. i think you are the guy who can talk to him tho lee. he's probably got lots of respect for you. you can try to make him more comfortable and secure if the opertunity doesn't seem to naturally occur. look on the bright side for him. remind him of good times. be the good friend you know you can be in this time. this could take along time lee. depending on how hurt he is. he might try to fake recovery since he may feel he shouldn't be helped. it all depends on the kind of guy he is.

 

[The Amazing Lee]

I'll sum up our relationship and it's near identical in some ways.

I'm shaun from Shaun of the dead and he's Ed.

He's my best friend and were together we have the best of times but he also needs to sort his priorities right. Sometimes were just as bad as eachother in terms of lazyiness and being slob like but it seems like he drags me down at times and I seem to be part of his lie. Even though I HATE lying.

 

[Danalys]

yeah you have to do the things that are good for him not the things he wants to do when he's misserable. friends can say this stuff aint good for you. or i don't want to be doing this.

 

[Danalys]

anyway i just remembered a problem i have. basically i got off with this older woman who's in great condition for her age. but really all i want is a fling. i'm not sure if she will understand that or not. how blatent should i be in telling her that. it'll be weird for her aswell i guess since i'm only 8 years older than her eldest daughter. she also bad mouths her ex-husbands trists with younger women. she thinks they are money grabbers. and considering i let her buy me a drink there's a chance she could think that's what i want from her.

 

[Hades]

anyway i just remembered a problem i have. basically i got off with this older woman who's in great condition for her age. but really all i want is a fling. i'm not sure if she will understand that or not. how blatent should i be in telling her that. it'll be weird for her aswell i guess since i'm only 8 years older than her eldest daughter. she also bad mouths her ex-husbands trists with younger women. she thinks they are money grabbers. and considering i let her buy me a drink there's a chance she could think that's what i want from her.

sacrifice her to Satan. Or you could just tell her what you think

 

[Danalys]

yeah but i might not remember that stuff at the time. horniness makes me forget everything but the moment.

 

[Hades]

yeah but i might not remember that stuff at the time. horniness makes me forget everything but the moment.

Write it on your hand, or above your groin.

 

[Danalys]

if that wasn't horribly inapropriate that might be a good idea.

 

[Hades]

if that wasn't horribly inapropriate that might be a good idea.

I don't see what's so inapropriate about it

 

[Danalys]

the words wouldn't be tailored to the moment. since i can not predict how the moment would go without understanding her more. also i would be uncomfortable and i'm quite the shy guy about somethings. which would increase my chance of messing things up.

i figure i'll probably remember now at the apropriate time. since i've thought about it conciously.

 

[Hades]

the words wouldn't be tailored to the moment. since i can not predict how the moment would go without understanding her more. also i would be uncomfortable and i'm quite the shy guy about somethings. which would increase my chance of messing things up.

i figure i'll probably remember now at the apropriate time. since i've thought about it conciously.

Then i guess that is that. Aren't you glab to have me around for advice?

This thread is starting to remind me of when I was in the hospital
and we all had to sit around this table and talk about are problems, or give people...compliments. I have no idea what was with the compliment part, I guess they figured it would improve eveyones self esteem. I felt like I was in some AA group. Speaking of hospitals one of my friends also apparently has lymes disease. I don't think she can walk anymore and she's only 20.

 

[Danalys]

do you see her regulary?

 

[Hades]

do you see her regulary?

No, not really close friends. I worked with her, so we'd talk quite a bit, or whenever we'd see each other in public. I just learned this at work today though. It just really upsets me, it's not fair. I'm thinking maybe I should get her some flowers and visit her at the hospital. Should I?

 

[Danalys]

i think so. your gut feeling about this is correct. also i think you might love her.

 

[Hades]

i think so. your gut feeling about this is correct. also i think you might love her.

Lol, love her? I did have a crush on her, but she has a boyfriend....and she's a few years older then me.

 

[Danalys]

yeah you love her. you nearly always lie in your humour. be yourself she might like you.

 

[Hades]

yeah you love her. you nearly always lie in your humour. be yourself she might like you.

Are you saying she doesn't like me?

 

[Danalys]

she does like you since she can see through to your true self subconciusly. the problem is that she might have issues herself that could get in the way of it. her boyfriend also might be good for her and in that case you would have to move on. but admitting it is the first step. sort of like those several step program things.

 

[Hades]

she does like you since she can see through to your true self subconciusly. the problem is that she might have issues herself that could get in the way of it. her boyfriend also might be good for her and in that case you would have to move on. but admitting it is the first step. sort of like those several step program things.

I don't see how you can say she see's through to my true self subconciusly without even knowing her.... And I'm sure the whole Lyme disease thing is a pretty big issue in itself. I just want to give her some support.

 

[moop501]

There's always sexual tension between me and just about everyone. I dunno if it's just my paranoia/imagination,or if they really want in my pants. Ugh,I can't even enjoy eating hotdogs and licking the cream out of an icecream sandwich anymore.

 

[Danalys]

that's the best way to help her but it wont help you at all. you must find away to help both of you. the subconcious thing is something that's true for most people. or perhaps you are at ease around her so she knows you are a good lad. and you should just be her friend. but if you love her being her friend will hurt.