Is it ok to fantasize about being with someone else....

[Mee]

That is normal.

Oh ok, that's a relief.

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

...for maladjusted pervs to do that.

 

[Mee]

Kid me not?

 

[mightiest_mortal]

I stand corrected sir. Why would any man fantasize about this:

I'd just get flashbacks to watching Catwoman... wudnt be pretty.

 

[Ronny Shade]

I stand corrected sir. Why would any man fantasize about this:

The **** is she wearing?

 

[BloodyWolverine]

I don't think it was suppose to matter. The pic was to show off her hotness. You should know that that FHM or Maxim are for sex appeal not wardrobe.

 

[Ronny Shade]

It just looks stupid

 

[BloodyWolverine]

Yeh i agree and she's not really my type. Personailty wise for there are several black hotties i like. She just doesn't do anything for me after she let Billy Bob slobber all over her.

Now Rosario Dawson, Gabrielle Union now i can go there. I like a girl named Kelly Monaco and Maggie Grace. I am into many celebrities really. But not had a girl yet but my point is she's not my imginative fantasy.

 

[Kritish]

...while your being intimate with your gf/bf/ s.o?

I know i've done it in the past with my past gf's like, i'd close my eyes and imagine i was doing Halle Berry or whoever. And i'm sure she has done it too, as i think it's healthy and o.k, so long as your not calling out someone elses name during the heat of passion. But that's just my opinion.

Your thoughts.

It’s just part of being human, I’ll bet that your wife thinks about Brad Pitt every once in awhile…
People are going to act like people, and people like to screw.

 

[Symbiote Hulk]

I stand corrected sir. Why would any man fantasize about this:

CUZ SHEZ A BLACK LADY!!!!!!




JK

 

[Golgo-13]

It’s just part of being human, I’ll bet that your wife thinks about Brad Pitt every once in awhile…
People are going to act like people, and people like to screw.

..Thanks, that made my day.

*runs to the gym and works out like crazy*

 

[Golgo-13]

Yeh i agree and she's not really my type. Personailty wise for there are several black hotties i like. She just doesn't do anything for me after she let Billy Bob slobber all over her.

Now Rosario Dawson, Gabrielle Union now i can go there. I like a girl named Kelly Monaco and Maggie Grace. I am into many celebrities really. But not had a girl yet but my point is she's not my imginative fantasy.

Are these two, then, more fantasy material for you, good sir?

 

[Orko Is King]

Fantasizing about someone else is the best cure for erectile dysfunction.

 

[SapphirePrima]

I had a horrible dream about White Boy from I Love New York I'm not even attracted to men like that.

 

[Arkady Rossovich]

...while your being intimate with your gf

Your thoughts.

I dont know why,but i have heard of such a thing before.I think its something primal,the urge to be with more than one partner.

 

[Babs Gordon]

I don't mind as long as I have no clue.

 

[ang_hulk]

No!

 

[Halcohol]

I agree with what Matt said... if you're fantasizing about someone else, what does that say about your level of satisfaction with your current partner? Sure, there's something to be said and gained from role-playing, but if it's only one-way, that's just kinda... sleazy.

 

[nosebleed.]

If you're fantasizing about one of your top 5 then its all good.

 

[Colossal Spoons]

I was hoping that the scenario in question wasn't "during intimacy". I think the idea of thinking about being with somebody else at any point while you're in a relationship would breed better discussion.

 

[Halcohol]

I was hoping that the scenario in question wasn't "during intimacy". I think the idea of thinking about being with somebody else at any point while you're in a relationship would breed better discussion.

In that case, it's only natural to wonder what a certain situation or experience would be like with a different person. That's the curious nature of the human condition, to always be thinking about things differently.

When you start to WISH you were with someone else, then that's a bad thing. A very bad thing.

 

[Colossal Spoons]

The line between thinking and wishing seems veeeery thin.

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

."My PreeEEcioussSSSSss!"

 

[CeeJay]

There's a difference between role-play and actually having to fantasize about someone else while you're sleeping with your husband/wife - that's kinda, uh, a no-brainer.

Shouldn't be with them if you aren't sexually attracted to them in the first place. You're essentially cheating.