It'll happen for you, Babs. Probably when you're least expecting it. Hell, I was wanting anything BUT a serious relationship when I met my wife and we even tried to just be friends but...when it's right, it's right. She's my other half and we were absolutely made for one another. Hang in there and in the meantime, just have some fun and enjoy yourself. Get out and mingle and date different people. It's good experience and helps you refine even further what you do and don't want in a mate down the road. Plus, you're a girl so you can work it and get some excellent free meals and movies out of it.
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