It Lounges - - Part 126

[DarkSentinel]

Brother... I feel you. You have no idea how I feel you. But you are relatively healthy and gots all your parts in working condition. Ease up on the self pity peddle man. That's not ever constructive or helpful and you know that. Don't go full Van Gogh on us Senty.

It's not self pity, it's a fact. Good **** simply DOES NOT happen to me when it comes to women, it just doesn't. I might as well accept it. My generation has been warped by materialism and vanity which I vehemently despise, so I have no chance of finding anyone.

Fact.

 

[KRYPTON INC.]

She doesn't know how desperate I am (thank God) but all the same, not hearing from her is the worst ****ing agony in the world. And I've done my damnedest to NOT constantly text her. But I hate that this ****ing game has to be played. If she likes me, why can't she just ****ing TALK to me? I'm a communicative individual, take that away and you might as well sap my life force.

And no, I DON'T have a lot of time. I have to have at least ONE stable relationship before I'm 30.

Senty... Oh Senty... That's not rationality talking. That's self pity. Despite what TV and Movies tell us, not everybody has the luck to find a life companion in their 20's. And it has been ever thus, yet the world keeps turning. If you don't have a long tern relationship before 30 it's not like it's LOGAN'S RUN and you suddenly die man. Real talk, this kind of thinking isn't healthy in the long term. I'm not gonna say my piece because I sense you are in "stewing in my depressed juices" mode. Just take it easy. You never know what's just over the horizon.

 

[DarkSentinel]

Dude, it's cool. I've already decided, and that's just the way it has to be because that's my lot in life. I'm meant to die alone and miserable because that's what the universe wants. So that's what the universe'll get, and it'll be satisfied.

 

[KRYPTON INC.]

It's not self pity, it's a fact. Good **** simply DOES NOT happen to me when it comes to women, it just doesn't. I might as well accept it. My generation has been warped by materialism and vanity which I vehemently despise, so I have no chance of finding anyone.

Fact.

Aye... aye... aye... I said my piece. Take your conclusion to it's logical end and it's gonna be bad juju brother. Take what I and other say to heart and be realistic and tomorrow is another day... Just stay strong, sleep it off and don't do anything foolish Senty.

 

[DarkSentinel]

I'm not. I'm sparing her the burden of ending things with me.

 

[PacificBoy]

How about this, DS: Break it off with her in your head and in your heart. Just enjoy her company in the moment and see where it takes you. Take it for what is instead of what you hope it should be.

 

[Reek]

I say you keep your mouth shut and see what she does.

 

[Greens]

Dude, it's cool. I've already decided, and that's just the way it has to be because that's my lot in life. I'm meant to die alone and miserable because that's what the universe wants. So that's what the universe'll get, and it'll be satisfied.

The universe doesn't give a **** about you.

 

[DarkSentinel]

I want a relationship. A formally declared relationship. I have to have my heart in it. I can't be in a purely physical relationship. That's what *****ebags do, and I would rather die than become a *****ebag.

 

[KRYPTON INC.]

Krishna H. Vishnu Senty... Don't be so Zod-Damned dramatic. I luv ya, but you are sounding way too navel gazing right now man. And I speak from experience. Believe me... Your lot in life is most likely WAY better than my own. What I wouldn't give to be 27 again.

 

[PacificBoy]

But you only had a handful of dates with her yeah? Are you two even exclusive? Too soon to put this much stock into it.

 

[Reek]

You're being irrational. I'm 29 and was married. Now single.

Stop being paranoid.

 

[Reek]

Paranoia makes girls hate you because they are more paranoid. It is known.

 

[DarkSentinel]

But you only had a handful of dates with her yeah? Too soon to put this much stock into it.

You don't live in Florida, PB. It's rank with vain, materialistic *****ebags that can take her away on a whim. Might as well let them because there's no way in hell I can keep her interested.

If I don't hear from her today, I'm ending things. If she wants to be with me, then she should be WITH me. Plain and simple. No games, no nothing. I don't have time for it.

 

[AnneFan]

Dude, it's cool. I've already decided, and that's just the way it has to be because that's my lot in life. I'm meant to die alone and miserable because that's what the universe wants. So that's what the universe'll get, and it'll be satisfied.

Nothing is written.

 

[DarkSentinel]

Nothing is written.

And yet you can't fight fate.

All I've ever known when it comes to women is the worst, so what else am I to expect?

 

[Greens]

And yet you can't fight fate.

No such thing as fate. There is a thing called self-fulfilling prophecy, and you're fulfilling it right now.

 

[PacificBoy]

You don't live in Florida, PB. It's rank with vain, materialistic *****ebags that can take her away on a whim. Might as well let them because there's no way in hell I can keep her interested.

If I don't hear from her today, I'm ending things. If she wants to be with me, then she should be WITH me. Plain and simple. No games, no nothing. I don't have time for it.

Fair enough, but you're kinda assuming the worst of her when she met you in person and asked you out the following day. She doesn't sound that shallow to me. Not giving yourself a chance is one thing; you're also not giving her a chance.

Just drop her a text and say how are things going. No need to rush to a decision.

 

[DarkSentinel]

All I've ever known is the worst. And I know that Florida is a festering, corruptive cesspool that drags in its victims and devours them in materialism and vanity and superficiality.

 

[PacificBoy]

Well, at least sleep on it and make the call with a bit of a clearer head tomorrow (or later in the day). It's late. Get some rest and cool yer head.

 

[Reek]

Or. dont call at all. trust me.

 

[DJ_KiDDvIcIOUs]

Sentry I say this with all due respect:

Stop being a whiney b****!

You don't know what's going on in her life, maybe something bad happened and she likes you but doesn't want to tell you for fear of freaking you out. Maybe she is working doubles at work and has time for nothing. Maybe her phone is messed up. The last thing you want to do is send her some crazy message that you don't want to see her anymore. I've been through this so I know from experience man, if you still haven't heard from her today just send a message and tell her you were just making sure everything is alright and then leave it at that. I'm 31 and don't date and it's no big deal. I also leave in FL and can tell you yes there are plenty of materialistic idiots here but it sounds like you found a good one so don't destroy your budding relationship because you can't handle hearing from her for a few days. That's stupid.

 

[Tanin]

Which proves my point.

That doesn't prove anything. Just because Chronicle is nothing like Akira doesn't mean that there aren't plenty of live action films that are.

 

[Fallen Angel]

Has G2K been reincarnated inside Senty? Dude there's someone out there for everyone.

Love itself is calm; turbulence arrives from individuals.

 

[Pink Ranger]

Senty, I'm like the last person here who should have anything to say about relationships with women, but you're not sounding like yourself right now. Take some time to reflect before you do anything, think about some of the other stress factors in your life right now that might be adding to your burden, and talk to some friends, either your real-life ones or through PMing members here that you know.