Just got a new girlfriend...

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  1. Ice-man Registered

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    Need a bit of input, i can talk to her fine on aim or text or on phone, but in person its somewhat harder, shes just soo pretty and like i just don't know what to talk about with her.

    but than when I'm on aim, i can talk to her no problem, well somewhat i run out of things to talk about, and i try to come up with questions.

    what do girls like to talk about, what do they like to do?
     
  2. Apollo Registered

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    Well Congratulations!!!!:cmad: :csad:
     
  3. Morg Super Moderator

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    movies, books, tv shows, food, what's her hobbies
     
  4. Ghostvirus Registered

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    Ask her questions. Let her do the talking. Be interested in her.
     
  5. SuperFerret King of the Urban Jungle

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    If you have nothing in common to talk to her about, how is she your girlfriend?
     
  6. knowsbleed Registered

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    Get to know her, ask her questions and let her talk and LISTEN! The conversation that usually follows said formula will be stimulating for both of you...as long as you don't talk about Green Lantern too much. Oh snapples, wrong person...[/mybad]
     
  7. jaguarr Be Your Own Hero

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    I'm going to nickname this girl "training wheels".

    jag
     
  8. Ghostvirus Registered

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    Hey! I just said that man. GRRRR:cmad:
     
  9. Abaddon Watching

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  10. Mister J Enlightened to the Great Darkness

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    Seriously. He can't talk to this chick in person, yet she's the girlfriend? :huh: :dry:

    Anyway, here are some surefire conversation starters that Ice-man can use for in person-chats with his main squeeze:
    • Is your dad in the mafia?
    • Do you smoke weed multiple times a day?
    • Has your mom ever portrayed a police officer in an internet video?
    • Do you feel the world is full of poo-poo head authority figures who just want to restrict your fun?
    • Doesn't opening a surfing/skating shop with a bunch of guys (most of whom don't have college educations) sound like a kickass idea?
    That broad will be yammering away in no time. :up:
     
  11. Ice-man Registered

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    Hmm, i asked her about music so far, and what she likes to do.

    I just met her last week, but shes had a crush on me for a bit, so shes shy, id let her do the talking but she doesn't say much, I'm very interested in her, theres just something about her, her smile is contagious. she very pretty. =]

    We do have a bit in common, so far, we both love our families yet HATE them at the same time, We're both born on holidays=]

    some of her friends are my friends, they say she likes me alot, but her being quiet always makes me think that maybe shes not that interested, and that worry s me a bit =[
     
  12. The Original Bamfer Big, Bald and Beautiful

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    Does she know she's your girlfriend? :huh:
     
  13. Avangarde Avan a Good Time

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    Slap her around and tell her who's boss :cmad:
     
  14. SuperFerret King of the Urban Jungle

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    I meant like common interests, hobbies, etc. You share some friends so that's a good jumping off point, find out what she likes to do and talk to her about that.
     
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    Dads not int the mob

    I quit 3 days ago, i smoke a few cigarettes a day now, trying to quit those too.

    Yea she did, the show pitch went threw and its now gonna be a movie, i think they're calling it my hands to god. shes not playing a cop anymore, they switched her to something else.

    Ive learned to deal with the world, even if it does get to me a bit. im more open minded now.

    and as of last week i started ged, if i pass by June my dads friend said he can get me into training to get a job as a construction survayer.

    it pays a decent amount a year, id like to go for thaat.
     
  16. Ice-man Registered

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    Haha yea she does, i asked her out in person. it would be rude if i did it any other way.
     
  17. Ice-man Registered

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    Were both into music, we love some of the same movies.



    i just wanna be a good boyfriend. :csad:
     
  18. knowsbleed Registered

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    Is this your first gf?
     
  19. Darthphere Kneel before 'Drox!

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    Seriously, Ice-Man is a joke right? Like he's faking all of this? We're being made fools of right? That has to be it.
     
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    Is Ice-Man really Dax Flame?





    (and if you don't know who that is, shame on you, go youtube him now)
     
  21. teh Puffy COME ON AND HIT ME!

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    Are you Seth Rogens Character in 40 Year Old Virgin! haha right when i saw that, I started to laugh so hard.
     
  22. Showtime Your Friend In Time

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  23. Lighthouse Fairness, Equality, Bacon

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    You can talk to her on AIM because you can think about what you are saying. There are also no distractions. Its just you and the text. Real life dating will take some getting used to. You'll have to do what the rest of us do on new dates. Just wing it. Its going to be tough, hard and frustrating, but just be yourself, remember your manners, try to find common ground on a subject you both find interesting, and the rest should take care of itself. If she doesn't like you now, theres nothing you can do on a date that will suddenly make her like you. You just have to do your best and hope it works out. Good luck. :up:
     
  24. Showtime Your Friend In Time

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    I'm writing this down.
     
  25. bunk superhero fan

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    Just skip to 3 years in... Ask her about her day. Tell her you're sorry(doesn't matter if you did anything). Remind her you're more than ready for the next step. Remind her you're sorry. Tell her you cut all ties with friends with whom the two of you don't share. Switch on John and Kate Plus Eight. Go to bed at 10 pm so you can cuddle. She'll sleep, you'll stare at the ceiling for 3 hours until you can sneak out of bed to post on SHH and watch Southpark.
     

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