Love, Men, Women, Boys, Girls, Relationships, Life

[The Spawn]

Instead of creating seperate topics for the follwing issues which would result in "spamming" apparently, I will put what's on my mind here.

How do you feel about relationships?

Do you think life is too short to be tied down to one person?

Is a relationship more "authentic" when it's the first and the last? (High School Sweethearts kinda thing)

 

[November Rain]

Relationships for me should be an equal 50/50 partnership where both parties like and rely on each other as much as each other and both put as much into the relationship as they take out. however this ideal case is rarely seen or at least incredibly hard to aquire.

well unless you marry the first person you date, then i don't think people are tied down to the same person throughour their years. Again this question really depends on one's definition of the relationship. I don't think that the majority of people, even married couples are ideal for one another across their whole lifetimes (or even adult life) but this usually becomes a problem with separation and also children. I think if property and other earthly goods weren't tied into the spiritual bond that is a marriage (i.e. the ceremony is no longer one seen by the eyes of the law), and also children were somehow not involved, it would be a better thing.

the last question completely depends on the individual. First naiive love can be just as good as finding love after a lot of heartache, it all depends on the chemistry of the two people in question as well as their current circumstances and basis of the relationship.

 

[Calvin]

It's a good thing for Erzengel that your topic title leaves the "Men and boys" option open

 

[Erzengel]

Exactly. Wait what?

 

[Calvin]

I dunno, I had to choose a name, and yours came to mind first for some reason.

 

[Erzengel]

Out of the JALs, TWs of the Hype it's my name you choose?

Anyways, clear some space I'm going to answer Spawny's questions.

How do you feel about relationships?
Good.

Do you think life is too short to be tied down to one person?
Depends.

Is a relationship more "authentic" when it's the first and the last? (High School Sweethearts kinda thing)
Yes and no.

I hope that clears things up.

 

[The Spawn]

It does...?

 

[Calvin]

Out of the JALs, TWs of the Hype it's my name you choose?

" See, that's the genius of it!"

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

How do you feel about relationships?

I feel that without them, you'd be a lone, intangible entity. But even then, you'd have a relationship with yourself. So, a total lack of relationships is impossible, which would lead me to believe that relationships are one of the key things in the universe.
One draw back of Death is that it precludes having relationships, at least temporally.

Do you think life is too short to be tied down to one person?

For some. For others, life is too short to squander it by getting close-ish to many people, because it requires a lengthy chunk of time to get profoundly close enough to someone to really, deeply know them, which is more rewarding than having a surface knowledge of many different entities.

Is a relationship more "authentic" when it's the first and the last? (High School Sweethearts kinda thing)

Absolutely not.
There is no general formula to acheiving a more "authentic" relationship with someone (aside from the time required).

 

[BloodyWolverine]

Heres my take on it despite what Erzengal opinion is. No its is not pot shot at you man. Its just sometimes we class over in the movies threads but nothing personal.

I think person cannot exist without love. I have not been in love so i cannot say how good it is but a person cannot live without love.Relationships is a alien world to me so i know not the answer but me personally each one is differant some good other not so good. Its all a matter of indvidual opinion.

I am old fashioned and so i believe there can be that one person for everyone and when you find that you should not think about the next pair of legs that walks by. If you truely love that person then don't look at anyone else. However if you cannot stay without that ideal then you don't love them enough so let them go.

Wouldn't know about the highschool sweetheart thing but to be honest the couples i knew were disgusting perfect to me and were in there so called click and that may make me unpleasant with that answer.
Can love be found in school couples. Yes but in these times it likely ends at collage but maybe will be rekindled after they have grown in maturity.

 

[Immortalfire]

Goodness, when did Spawn turn into GAH?

 

[jaguarr]

Goodness, when did Spawn turn into GAH?

Ever since he went to that Panic! At The Disco concert and met that nice girl who let him rub up against her?

jag

 

[Erzengel]

Heres my take on it despite what Erzengal opinion is. No its is not pot shot at you man. Its just sometimes we class over in the movies threads but nothing personal.

Uh, yeah, that's great and all but maybe you should wait til I actually post a valid opinion in a thread before you comment on it.

 

[Immortalfire]

Ever since he went to that Panic! At The Disco concert and met that nice girl who let him rub up against her?

jag

Ah, I see.

 

[jaguarr]

Uh, yeah, that's great and all but maybe you should wait til I actually post a valid opinion in a thread before you comment on it.

He's part of the Pre-Crime Unit, apparently.

jag

 

[Halcohol]

Uh, yeah, that's great and all but maybe you should wait til I actually post a valid opinion in a thread before you comment on it.

Maybe he's pre-emptively hating you for any opinion you may or may not have. In which case, you should think about launching a pre-pre-emptive strike as a show of force. Make an example out of him.

I want to see some blood.

 

[Erzengel]

Maybe he's pre-emptively hating you for any opinion you may or may not have. In which case, you should think about launching a pre-pre-emptive strike as a show of force. Make an example out of him.

I want to see some blood.

 

[Immortalfire]

JAL: Whatchoo say 'about my woman, Alba?!

Tangled Web: OMG...that was a guy.

 

[Machx72]

I've never been one to be too huge on relationships... Probably because I haven't had many.

Sure, I've wanted to be in them from time to time, but it's less of, "I want a relationship," and more of having strong feelings for someone I've known.

Either way, I don't think relationships are something to just mess around with [like a couple of my exes seem to think], and when I'm in it, I'm in it. For some reason, I just never could get the whole dating-to-see-what's-out-there thing down, even though my close friends have been pushing me for months to finally get out and do exactly that.

I guess the strict rules I put on myself are probably big factors in the reason why I rarely ever enter a relationship with anyone, but who knows for sure?

 

[Halcohol]

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