Why women are stupid, The Myth of "The Nice Guy"

[Eggyman]

Don't be so egg

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Ok

 

[Monster]

I'm nice.

I'm a guy.

I wouldn't put myself in that catagory.

 

[LexCorp]

I'm nice.

I'm a guy.

I wouldn't put myself in that catagory.

Meh we are all many categories put together.

 

[Monster]

We are one.

 

[LexCorp]

We are one.

We are all.

We cover many different stereotypes at once.

 

[LastSunrise1981]

Meh, I'm not really sure if I buy the whole "Women complain about not finding a nice guy, but always go for the *******s" theory. It's true that some women do like a challenge, hence why they go for those type of men, however, there's no reason for you to go for a young lady if you can't be who you are.

If she doesn't accept you for you, then obviously you don't need her and you're much better off in my opinion. For example, there's this girl I work with and for a while I had a crush on her, spoke to her, hung out with her, and so forth. In the grand scheme of things I thought she liked me too until she pulled out the dreaded "friends card" and went for a guy who was immature, unintelligent, unemployed, and mooched off of her.

I was hurt and I let that hurt, anger, and sadness turn me into a major prick and I took it out on anyone and everyone. I then realized that she wasn't worth it as she went behind my back talking about me saying I was irritating, a loser, and she only spoke to me because she felt sorry for me.

Know what the funny thing is though? Just recently this new girl I'm talking to now came to my job to visit me, and my co-worker that I just told you about, got pissed off because she parked right in front of her box office window, asked for me, and gave me a hug when she saw me. Keep in mind that I did not plan this whatsoever nor did I think she would park in front of the Box Office window. Needless to say she stormed right by me giving me an evil glare and didn't say a word to me.

Then in a strange turn of event SHE shows up with a guy like an hour after the girl I'm currently talking to came by to visit me. Not that I really cared it was just amusing that people can be childish at times.

 

[Erzengel]

Best way to get to someone is to not care. I hope you did that with her when she brought the guy in. Actually not caring, is also a good way to get a girl like that to be interested.

 

[LastSunrise1981]

Best way to get to someone is to not care. I hope you did that with her when she brought the guy in. Actually not caring, is also a good way to get a girl like that to be interested.

I didn't show any emotion really. Hell, I held the door open for them as I was getting off of work. I really didn't care at all and it was just pretty interesting how it all turned out.

But the point I was getting at is sometimes it's best not to rush things and just let a girl approach you, rather than approaching said girl.

 

[Erzengel]

Eh.....that's really on a case by case basis. Not necessarily rushing things but some people are really oblivious to people's intentions. Getting them food, hanging out with them, etc. some people don't see that the person giving them that attention is into them.

 

[SpideyVille]

Meh, I'm not really sure if I buy the whole "Women complain about not finding a nice guy, but always go for the *******s" theory. It's true that some women do like a challenge, hence why they go for those type of men, however, there's no reason for you to go for a young lady if you can't be who you are.

If she doesn't accept you for you, then obviously you don't need her and you're much better off in my opinion. For example, there's this girl I work with and for a while I had a crush on her, spoke to her, hung out with her, and so forth. In the grand scheme of things I thought she liked me too until she pulled out the dreaded "friends card" and went for a guy who was immature, unintelligent, unemployed, and mooched off of her.

This is so true, the only problem is that it usually takes a bad experience for a guy to learn this. When you're in the moment of liking someone, you're common sense and good judgement is always skewed. When you see someone you like, you think they're perfect and even if they have flaws, you think it's a cute habit and that's what makes them special. But this trance ends as soon as they do something to hurt you and that's when you finally see them for who they really are.

And may i add, i HATE the friend card. It's always such a BS excuse because usually after someone uses it, that immediately breaks whatever bond two people share. You call them a friend one minute, but the next week you're not even talking to them.

I was hurt and I let that hurt, anger, and sadness turn me into a major prick and I took it out on anyone and everyone. I then realized that she wasn't worth it as she went behind my back talking about me saying I was irritating, a loser, and she only spoke to me because she felt sorry for me.

I feel for you man. Been there many times before.

Know what the funny thing is though? Just recently this new girl I'm talking to now came to my job to visit me, and my co-worker that I just told you about, got pissed off because she parked right in front of her box office window, asked for me, and gave me a hug when she saw me. Keep in mind that I did not plan this whatsoever nor did I think she would park in front of the Box Office window. Needless to say she stormed right by me giving me an evil glare and didn't say a word to me.

Haha, nice

Then in a strange turn of event SHE shows up with a guy like an hour after the girl I'm currently talking to came by to visit me. Not that I really cared it was just amusing that people can be childish at times.

Yeah people always get jealous for no reason, and will result to anything to feel better about themselves.

 

[SpideyVille]

But the point I was getting at is sometimes it's best not to rush things and just let a girl approach you, rather than approaching said girl.

Eh.....that's really on a case by case basis. Not necessarily rushing things but some people are really oblivious to people's intentions. Getting them food, hanging out with them, etc. some people don't see that the person giving them that attention is into them.

Yeah sometimes it isn't good to rush things, but you also can't wait for the girl to approach you. Some girls like to be swept off their feet in an instance while others rather take it slow and enjoy things the way they are. I approached this girl once because i thought she was interested in me and we had a nice long chat. We went our separate ways because we both had something to do after school, but after we both got out, she approached me and started introducing me to a bunch of her friends. I had planned to take it slow with her but then a week later she ended up hooking up with some dude. She never told me about him, I had to find that out myself. But we still talked a little after i found this out. She eventually broke up with him a week or two later, and started talking to me a lot more. She kept commenting to me on myspace and facebook, then she wanted my screenname, all in a matter of a few days. It was right before christmas break and one day she said we should do something together sometime. I wanted to take it slow but i had seen what happened the last time i did that, and from what she was telling me and the way she would say it made it sound like she was really interesting in me. All my friends even said she was interested and that i needed to make a move fast. So the day before the break i asked her out, but she told me she wasn't ready to date anyone, but when i said it didn't have to be a date , just a "mutual get together", she gave me her number and told me to call her sometime. Yet when i tried to get a reach of her throughout the whole break she wouldn't talk to me, and this didn't change after the break either. I don't know what i did to deserve this but it just shows that you can't always wait for the girl to approach you, but you also can't try to rush things. It really is a case by case thing.

 

[turtlefocker]

If you're in an abusive relationship, its your fault and you deserve to get hit/abused in other ways.

 

[Erzengel]

Wow, that was idiotic. So it's the woman's fault that she gets hit.

 

[Logan's Runt]

Wow, that was idiotic. So it's the woman's fault that she gets hit.

Naturally. And she deserves more where that came from.

 

[Erzengel]

Well I'm sure if she has 2 black eyes, he told her twice already.

 

[terry78]

She ran into my fist. That's all that was. She wasn't aware of her surroundings.

 

[Deep Thinkin'!]

I've noticed that there was one really good nice guy that I adored, then another that was a total badass that I also fawned over. Just depends on how they work it.

 

[terry78]

I've noticed that there was one really good nice guy that I adored, then another that was a total badass that I also fawned over. Just depends on how they work it.

"Work it?"

 

[Deep Thinkin'!]

"Work it?"

work it baby, work it!

 

[terry78]

Gross.

 

[Deep Thinkin'!]

Gross.

You've got a nasty mind.

 

[LexCorp]

Yeah people always get jealous for no reason, and will result to anything to feel better about themselves.

Jealousy rules! What a motivator

 

[turtlefocker]

If someone (guy or girl) ever came to me complaining that their significant other hit them/abused them in any way and would beat the **** out of them for getting in that relationship in the first place. Face it - if you're in an abusive relationship it's your fault.

 

[Logan's Runt]

Also, if you get raped, its your fault for being there, with the rapists.

 

[Obi-Ron]

If someone (guy or girl) ever came to me complaining that their significant other hit them/abused them in any way and would beat the **** out of them for getting in that relationship in the first place. Face it - if you're in an abusive relationship it's your fault.

I would probably disagree with this post if it made any sense.