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Love.

All I will say is this. There are times in your life where you will THINK you are in love. But, when true love really finally does find you, you'll realize that what you'd felt before was just a pale imitation when compared to the real thing. It's worth the wait, though. I promise. :up:

jag
 
http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=lust&x=0&y=0

Lust 1.intense sexual desire or appetite.

:o I must be in lust a lot...or it's my teenage hormones.

Now, if I can be serious for a moment here.

Regular old love...sure. I love my cats, my tiny brown stuff bear, family, and my green dinosauer. The two stuff animals...I've had since I was born or very soon after. So, if they ever got destroyed or lost, I'll go all :hulk: on something.
 
The closest I've ever been to real love, I think, was my freshman year in high school. I fell head over heels for this beautiful senior on my track team. Seriosuly, she was everything I wanted in a girl. And she fell for me, too, but was hesitant to act on it because of our age difference.

We became the best of friends that school year, and in the following summer, we got together romantically physically. It was great, and there was definitely something else there. I though I was in love with her, and every morning I woke up and she was the first thing on my mind. But before I knew it, the summer was over, and she was off to college. We kept in touch, but nothing else ever came of us.

It's been yearssss since then. And I've had a bunch of relationships, but I've never felt the same way I felt about her.
 
theShape said:
The closest I've ever been to real love, I think, was my freshman year in high school. I fell head over heels for this beautiful senior on my track team. Seriosuly, she was everything I wanted in a girl. And she fell for me, too, but was hesitant to act on it because of our age difference.

We became the best of friends that school year, and in the following summer, we got together romantically physically. It was great, and there was definitely something else there. I though I was in love with her, and every morning I woke up and she was the first thing on my mind. But before I knew it, the summer was over, and she was off to college. We kept in touch, but nothing else ever came of us.

A senior getting involved with a freshman? In high school? What the hell is this, the Candyland Fantasy World?
 
Bottomline, love sucks.

Women to me are like life's Da Vinci Codes, and I'm not Robert Langdon. :(
 
I was with a chick for four years and really thought I was in love. I'm with a different chick now and it's not the same in a good way. The one I'm with now I can honestly say I would do anything for, even die. The first chick I don't think I can say that. So, the question is: Would you die for her or him? This isn't a Bryan Adams song, I mean for real, would you?
 
cmill216 said:
A senior getting involved with a freshman? In high school? What the hell is this, the Candyland Fantasy World?

I know, and she was one of the hottest senior in my school, too, though she was much more than that.

Honestly, it started out as a crush for me in the beginning of that year. But as time went on, it slowly became real, to my amazement.
 
theShape said:
Call me crazy, but I truly believe that you only really fall in love once. And hopefully, that person is the one you end up spending the rest of your life with.
Ya, youre crazy :)
Ive been in love twice so far.
One guy was perfect but I wasnt ready and the other guy I know Ill think of when I die.
I am not with either now.

You just love people differently.
If you think people only fall in love once I sure hope that girl/guy doesnt die on ya theShape 'cause apparently you will be SOL.
theShape said:
We became the best of friends that school year, and in the following summer, we got together romantically physically. *snip* And I've had a bunch of relationships, but I've never felt the same way I felt about her.
Ya, was she your first? Because guys are weird about that.
 
theShape said:
I know, and she was one of the hottest senior in my school, too, though she was much more than that.

Honestly, it started out as a crush for me in the beginning of that year. But as time went on, it slowly became real, to my amazement.

Bulls***. :mad:
 
Love hurts, love scars, love wounds and mars
Any heart not tough nor strong enough
To take a lot of pain, take a lot of pain
Love is like a cloud holds a lot of rain
Love hurts, love hurts
 
7Hells said:
Ya, youre crazy :)
Ive been in love twice.
One guy was perfect but I wasnt ready and the other guy I know Ill think of when I die. I am not with either now.

You just love people differently.
If you think people only fall in love once I sure hope that girl/guy doesnt die on ya theShape 'cause apparently you will be SOL.

Ya, was she your first? Because guys are weird about that.


Well, thinking back now, I think it might have just been deep infatuation, rather than true love. Know what I mean? It wasn't only because I was young and though she was hot. I really did like her. But I don't know that i LOVED her.

She wasn't my first, and I'm not weird like that anyway. :up:
 
I adore this woman as of now.. I dont know if I'm in love with her... I love talking to her... being around her makes me happy... I dunno...
 
I wrote and performed a rap song about a girl I loved and set it to a Jedi Mind Tricks instrumental. This was a couple of months ago...

Oh the horror...
 
theShape said:
Well, thinking back now, I think it might have just been deep infatuation, rather than true love. Know what I mean? It wasn't only because I was young and though she was hot. I really did like her. But I don't know that i LOVED her.

She wasn't my first, and I'm not weird like that anyway. :up:

Were you crushed when you guys broke up? If not, it was likely just infatuation.
 
Theres a big difference between being in love with someone and loving someone.
So, which are we talking about?
Being in love with someone can take a few weeks and loving someone takes years.
I think the 3-4 year mark is when you can tell whether or not you were/are really in love with someone.
 
49erVenom said:
Were you crushed when you guys broke up? If not, it was likely just infatuation.

Well, we never officially went out. We were just..."together". And yeah, I was pretty crushed when she left for college. We had this whole emotional goodbye, and kept talking for a while, but it didn't last long.

I moved on fairly quickly, but it's not like I've forgotten about her. It's been many years since then.

I bet it was just like...serious infatuation.
 
theShape said:
The closest I've ever been to real love, I think, was my freshman year in high school. I fell head over heels for this beautiful senior on my track team. Seriosuly, she was everything I wanted in a girl. And she fell for me, too, but was hesitant to act on it because of our age difference.

We became the best of friends that school year, and in the following summer, we got together romantically physically. It was great, and there was definitely something else there. I though I was in love with her, and every morning I woke up and she was the first thing on my mind. But before I knew it, the summer was over, and she was off to college. We kept in touch, but nothing else ever came of us.

It's been yearssss since then. And I've had a bunch of relationships, but I've never felt the same way I felt about her.

Jeez. Thats really unfortunate. Seems like you two had a good thing going. Alot of people say that age is just a number, and I do agree with that to a certain extent. However, it can cause issues/hardships in a relationship. And I think what you went thru was a pretty good example of this. Maybe you were in love? Maybe it was just infatuation? But I do think it's possible you'll find someone that will make you feel the same way as you did with her. And even more so. Whats funny, is that when you do find your significant other, atleast in my experience, it was basically like, "Where the hell have you been?" :)
 
Superboy Prime said:
Jeez. Thats really unfortunate. Seems like you two had a good thing going. Alot of people say that age is just a number, and I do agree with that to a certain extent. However, it can cause issues/hardships in a relationship. And I think what you went thru was a pretty good example of this. Maybe you were in love? Maybe it was just infatuation? But I do think it's possible you'll find someone that will make you feel the same way as you did with her. And even more so. Whats funny, is that when you do find your significant other, atleast in my experience, it was basically like, "Where the hell have you been?" :)

Yeah, thanks, man.

I don't know what it was. But it was certainly something that I never thought would happen at such a young age.

But yeah, I can't wait until I find that "significant other". I certainly hope it's worth the wait.
 
theShape said:
Well, we never officially went out. We were just..."together". And yeah, I was pretty crushed when she left for college. We had this whole emotional goodbye, and kept talking for a while, but it didn't last long.

I moved on fairly quickly, but it's not like I've forgotten about her. It's been many years since then.

I bet it was just like...serious infatuation.

It sounds like you just have fond memories of her but I could be wrong. Being apart from someone you really love isn't easy to get over. Had you spent a couple of years trying to stay in touch and wishing for her, I'd guess it might have been more. Of course, I'm generalizing not telling you how you should feel.
 
What's it mean when you like someone then?

I think 'crush' is just when you think someone's cute.

What if you think they're cute, but you also think that they're really nice and funny and you wouldn't mind dating them?:confused:
 

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