The "selfishness" is not for us to judge, because Marvel Comics Inc. can do to its characters whatever they like, because the bottom line is that Marvel Comics Inc. owns the character of Spider-Man and not the fans.
And Marvel is looking to maintain fans for many generations to come rather than to keep the ones they had now that have dwindled over the years...
I don't like it... did NOT like OMD at all... but at my age, I can now enjoy Spider-Man comics like I once did... anxiously waiting for the next issue... as opposed to waiting many more years for someone to try and "right the ship" yet again, and fail miserably.
Ah, but I can judge it. I buy (or bought, past tense) their material. I'm hoping others judge the same way, by not buying the books.
I mean, even if you are okay with the marriage being dissolved (and that's the royal "we", not pin pointing or picking on you), it's got to grate that so much else just went out the window on whim.
I swear, Marvel reminds me more of Congress every day. Don't listen to the people who pay your salaries, just do your own thing.
Arg.

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