I don't mind certain jokes about certain family members. Hell, I call my dad "Dr.Robotnik" all the time, because of his beer belly, chicken legs, and easily stressed personality. But joking about a five year old being strip searced [which would eventually lead to other jokes], who has no idea how to defend herself, just isn't decent.
Jonty's cool enough to know that I'm leinent and that if I don't want a line crossed so bad that I deem it necessary to point out, then there's a good reason for it. And I'd like to think that it's not because he doesn't want me to feel it necessary to adminster reprimands, but out of respect for my wishes, as a peer and overall decent guy, not as a red name.