man, i can't believe how many posts there've been since i checked in yesterday.
i can understand your outrage about all this. i've got an 11 year old niece and a 13 nephew, and if i found out they were sexually active or involved in a pregnancy, i'd be freaked the **** out. but i don't agree with your points. you seem to be convinced that the school is actually forcing this on these kids, which doesn't seem realistic to me. i also disagree with your statement that the school is encouraging these kids to "act on their reckless instincts" or even "hide the information from parents". if these kids in this particular school district are already sexually active and this has been a problem for the last few years, then obviously the parents aren't having much effect on their kids. so, taking that into consideration, you've got kids with raging hormones having sex at a young age, despite whatever sex education or parental advice they've received. so why not give them the option, not "coerce" or force on them, of using contraceptives to at least attempt to minimize the damage from something they're already doing and probably will continue to do. look at it this way, if you had a kid this age and even after having "the talk" with them and maybe even sex ed, they start having sex and you find out about it. what would you prefer, that they had unprotected sex or used some sort of contraceptive? and before you go on and on about not wanting the school to provide this stuff to the kids without contacting their parents first, what do you think would happen to this program if the school did inform the parents that their kid came to them for condoms or the pill and word got around to the kids that the school was ratting them out? they'd stop coming to them for condoms or the pill and would maybe start having unsafe sex. it's not going to work if the kids think they'll get in trouble, because most likely, they'll still find a way to have sex whether their parents find out or not, or whether they have contraceptives available to them or not. i don't see this as a longterm solution, though, but more a stopgap until they can figure out a way to really educate these kids and their parents, because obviously these kids aren't using common sense, but then what 11-13 year old does?