I had this posted in the Drooling for Fellas thread, but it didn't seem appropriately placed, so I'm moving it. This seems like the best thread option for it.
Why are Clark's feelings for Lana written off as an "obsession" by some people, as opposed to simple love? This is Clark Kent, you know.. future
, he's not a shallow or unstable young man, and he doesn't love lightly. He's not a player, and he's never going to go from girl to girl.
He loves Lana, through all the ups and downs, and yes, secrets and lies. Out of the past 6 years, they had a total of maybe a few months of happiness together, but that was without full disclosure.
Now they finally have that curtain lifted - now is when we'll hopefully see them realize that love just isn't always enough.
To write his feelings off as an 'obsession' is insulting and belittles him.
People who belittle my Superman piss me off.