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Speaking From The Heart

Dude, on the off chance you are being on the up and up about this.

There are 3 important parts of a relationship, communication, honesty and intimacy. If this broad, isn't being the first 2 and you have repeatedly tried then you have to do what makes you happy and move on.

Erz is right. I'll add something else, though; when women clam up and don't want to discuss anything no matter how much effort the man puts into trying to clear the air, particularly in Tai's age bracket, it's often because they're pretty much at the end of the relationship and are trying to figure out how to break it off.

jag
 
Break it OFF?!?


With Taiwarrior?!?

What?
NO!

He keeps her in as much venison and trout as she can hope to eat.
His life is directed by the creator of the UNiverse, so you know he's always right about stuff.
He can lift a Mazda.

Only a fool or sinful ****bucket would break it OFF. :huh:
 
I feel sorry for all those ducks and fish that will perish while Tai tries to quell the sadness in his heart.
 
Had a cup of orange juice, took a sip of the juice, now I have an orange juice stain on my shirt. Thanks. :up:
Yeah. jag still owes me for the dry cleaning from last week of a huge coffee stain on the front of one of favorite shirts.
Hype is a wardrobe destroyer, unless you get this book
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Hah, I remember watching an hour or so long Haley's Hints infomercial. It was awe inspiring.
 
I "think" what he's trying to get at is, when you know something is wrong with your lady, you know for sure, but when you ask she says oh nothing. It's like oh come on, I think I know you well enough to tell that something is wrong. Don't insult my intelligence.

you hit it on the mark bud.
 
Tai doesn't need this sh't.....he's got 4 girls on the side waiting to hook up with him. :up:

yea...but I have only one in mind. I really dont feel like dating the 4 that are interested in me. I know that it's kind of wrong to flirt a bunch with them, but it's kind of fun and gets my mind off other things. Flirting doesn't mean commitment so I should be straight.
 
Why do women keep things hidden inside and don't talk about them, until the worst time? I dont know why they just cant vocalize themselves so issues won't come up. Just speak from you heart and let me know how you truly feel...that's what I say. I say I'll give you sometime and we'll talk about it later on...And later on never comes...Things shouldn't be put away, but dealt with so things dont get worst...It eats me up inside daily not being able to pour out my heart to her, but I'm not going to go out of my way to do it anymore, if tried enough...Oh well I guess screw it!

I couldn't find anything that wrong with the grammar and spelling of that post. Stop stealing other people's this tai.
 
Hah, I remember watching an hour or so long Haley's Hints infomercial. It was awe inspiring.

Yeah. Now it's like:

*Friday Night*
"Whadayoo guys wanna do?"
"HEY! Let's clean the silver!"
"YEAH!!!!!"
"w00000t!"
 
yea...but I have only one in mind. I really dont feel like dating the 4 that are interested in me. I know that it's kind of wrong to flirt a bunch with them, but it's kind of fun and gets my mind off other things. Flirting doesn't mean commitment so I should be straight.
jag has a point, if a girl especially early 20's is kinda beating around the bush about her feelings and what not, it's usually because the feelings aren't there and she maybe looking to break it off.
 
jag has a point, if a girl especially early 20's is kinda beating around the bush about her feelings and what not, it's usually because the feelings aren't there and she maybe looking to break it off.

yea but one month she omg i'm sooo crazy about you and then all of a sudden it's like..."I think we got in to this relationship to quick, school and takes up alot of my time. Why don't we just take some time and go a bit slower." IDK I'm not interested in anyone but her and I guess if time helps, hell yes I'll give her some. I see every Sunday in sunday school and church, so it's not like she's going anywhere. We're good good friends, but I hope that we get back together. We've had too much history to just throw it away, which I know isn't going to happen. She's great and worth waiting a little while on.
 
yea but one month she omg i'm sooo crazy about you and then all of a sudden it's like..."I think we got in to this relationship to quick, school and takes up alot of my time. Why don't we just take some time and go a bit slower." IDK I'm not interested in anyone but her and I guess if time helps, hell yes I'll give her some. I see every Sunday in sunday school and church, so it's not like she's going anywhere. We're good good friends, but I hope that we get back together. We've had too much history to just throw it away, which I know isn't going to happen. She's great and worth waiting a little while on.

Want my advice? She's looking for a way out. It's common for girls that age to feel smothered in a relationship. Give her her freedom and start dating other girls INCLUDING her. If she's got a little bit of competition, she might start to realize that she had it really good with you. Worst case, you might discover one of these other girls is more to your liking, anyway. Best case, you show her that you're not dependent on her and will give her way more space than she ever wanted if that's what she's asking for. A lot of girls like to know they've still got you on the line, waiting for them to reel you back into the boat whenever and if ever they feel like doing so. But, they also usually won't respect you for playing the loyal puppy dog after awhile, either. Tell her you're sorry that she feels that way and that you'd really like for the two of you to go out once in awhile, but you're going to start seeing other women also in the meantime and getting out there and having fun. Assure her that you're not ending things with the two of you, but since she's not sure about things anymore then you're going to go back to having fun and dating other girls. I bet she'll change her tune after a few months. :)

jag
 
LOL, I seriously thought I was open the thread and it was just going to say


"I hate Black People"


LEUXL
 
Want my advice? She's looking for a way out. It's common for girls that age to feel smothered in a relationship. Give her her freedom and start dating other girls INCLUDING her. If she's got a little bit of competition, she might start to realize that she had it really good with you. Worst case, you might discover one of these other girls is more to your liking, anyway. Best case, you show her that you're not dependent on her and will give her way more space than she ever wanted if that's what she's asking for. A lot of girls like to know they've still got you on the line, waiting for them to reel you back into the boat whenever and if ever they feel like doing so. But, they also usually won't respect you for playing the loyal puppy dog after awhile, either. Tell her you're sorry that she feels that way and that you'd really like for the two of you to go out once in awhile, but you're going to start seeing other women also in the meantime and getting out there and having fun. Assure her that you're not ending things with the two of you, but since she's not sure about things anymore then you're going to go back to having fun and dating other girls. I bet she'll change her tune after a few months. :)
jag


Yea dude I hear you. That's kind of what I've been trying to do...IDK I probably need to somehow get away from being soo attached and have some fun. My everyday is spent thinking how I can cover-up how I really feel, so I dont push her away. I do believe I need to give some of the other girls their chance. Maybe things start going good if I let up and start dating one of them. Maybe my girl will come running back? That's what my heart really wants.
 
Yeah. jag still owes me for the dry cleaning from last week of a huge coffee stain on the front of one of favorite shirts.
Hype is a wardrobe destroyer, unless you get this book
1-HH.jpg

Intriguing...
 
yea but one month she omg i'm sooo crazy about you and then all of a sudden it's like..."I think we got off too quick in bed. Why don't we just take some time and go a bit slower." IDK I'm not interested in pleasing anyone but myself in bed, hell yes I'll give her some. I do her every Sunday in sunday school and church, so it's not like she's going anywhere. We're good **** friends, but I hope that we get back together. We've had too much history to just stop ****ing right away, which I know isn't going to happen. She's great and worth doing a little while on.

This is glorious.
 
Tai, you're all about pre-marital ****ing? :huh:

I never thought you'd be like that.
 
How dare you say Screw it!!! You're a TaiWarrior Damnit!!
 
This Taiwarrior isn't like the others...

He's a different beast entirely...
 
I am so utterly confused by these turn of events. Tai has a **** buddy, WWJD Tai, next your going to tell me he's starting a 'Catch&Release' program.

Great now my ****ing head hurts. :cmad:
 

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