I don't know if I'm the only one with this, but I never wanted Spider-man 4! I was hoping for a reboot way before problems started to show up with SM4.
I wanted a new edgier Spider-man film, with a more slim and dynamic looking spidey with an edgy costume, that's why I loved the new costume from the start.
Let me explain: I grew up watching the 90's animated show (actually, that's how I was introduced to the character), and while the humor was there and peter was a wisecracker, the world he was in wasn't really that lighthearted or cheesy. The show, at least from the start, was heavy on that unique atmosphere, and I loved it.
After that I started to read the comics. I was way too late for the ditko era, but the comics I got my hands on that time were edgy with a more dynamic looking spider-man. Again, the trademark humor was there with Peter, but the world he was in wasn't really lighthearted.
So, it was the year 2002 and I saw the first raimi movie. I liked the movie for what it was, but for me it was kinda backwards that they made Peter more serious and the world around him kinda cheesy. And when Spider-man 3 came, I just couldn't stand the raimi version anymore. So, while everybody seemed to hate the idea of a reboot when it was announced, I was happy