The girl i wanted to ask out. is throwing her life away.

[Ice-man]

i value every ones opinion equally, i just hate being told to give up, ive been told that all my life, and look where im standing.

i wish i had people to push me.

 

[Carcharodon]

she knows what shes doing is bad, wrong and harmful, all she has to do is look at her mom and shell see what she can turn into. she tells me how much she wont be like her, yet i see it more and more evry time i see her.

If you already had your mind made up, then why the hell ask?

Jesus.

 

[Erzengel]

That doesn't stop her from her destructive habits does it? Doing drugs, alcohol at 16 years old partying with 25 year olds who probably have no qualms of taking advantage of her?

 

[Mee]

Tiff isand the girl in the pic are two different people, tiff is the girl i like, girl in pic likes me.

I'll try to pay closer attention.

 

[AhabTheArab]

its called high school, i dont know where you guys went to school at, but young girls hang out with older guys, its not a news flash, and these older guys do drugs, also not a news flash, if you seriously are worried about her, let her make her own mistakes. there is only one way to learn and that is to live, you can't tell this girl that her life is going to be ruined when she does not see it happening, from first hand experience ill give you some advice.

DRUGS ADDICTS DONT QUIT FOR OTHER PEOPLE, THEY HAVE TO QUIT FOR THEMSELVES. so once she falls to the bottom of the barrel she will learn to climb out or since she sounds like a weak person... die.

 

[Ice-man]

That doesn't stop her from her destructive habits does it? Doing drugs, alcohol at 16 years old partying with 25 year olds who probably have no qualms of taking advantage of her?

this my friend is oceanside, u have noo idea what its like here, people are scum bags!!!

what tiff needs is to move away from here, start fresh.

 

[Ice-man]

I'll try to pay closer attention.

oo its alright there buddy, you didnt know.... t:

 

[Erzengel]

this my friend is oceanside, u have noo idea what its like here, people are scum bags!!!

what tiff needs is to move away from here, start fresh.

I'm from NYC kid, with friends still in the City. Trust me, I don't need to live in Oceanside to figure out how people are.

 

[Badger]

i value every ones opinion equally, i just hate being told to give up, ive been told that all my life, and look where im standing.

i wish i had people to push me.

If you need people to push you, then you will constantly be watching people pass you by. Ultimately what you need to figure out, and your friend as well, is that you are responsible for yourself. Nobody can motivate you to change or better yourself, unless you want to. That goes with your friends problems or anything else (family, college, work, love). Having people to support you is important, and that's as far as your help should go with your friend, but it's up to the person to do the work.

 

[Ice-man]

I'm from NYC kid, with friends still in the City. Trust me, I don't need to live in Oceanside to figure out how people are.

nyc is the ****.. t:

no better place.

 

[AhabTheArab]

If you need people to push you, then you will constantly be watching people pass you by. Ultimately what you need to figure out, and your friend as well, is that you are responsible for yourself. Nobody can motivate you to change or better yourself, unless you want to. That goes with your friends problems or anything else (family, college, work, love). Having people to support you is important, and that's as far as your help should go with your friend, but it's up to the person to do the work.

he doesn't listen, hes only 16. soon enough he will learn...

 

[Ice-man]

i listen, i just wont give up on her, Il stay out of her way until she wants to come back to me for help (like most of you said), since im the only one left of her friends who still cares.

 

[huskerwebhead]

she knows what shes doing is bad, wrong and harmful, all she has to do is look at her mom and shell see what she can turn into. she tells me how much she wont be like her, yet i see it more and more evry time i see her.

Seriously, take the blinders off. What are the odds that she's just telling you what you want to hear?

 

[Ice-man]

Seriously, take the blinders off. What are the odds that she's just telling you what you want to hear?

i honestly dont know.

 

[Golgo-13]

remeber the first i need help topic, well this girl i love alot, yes love.

shes ****ing up her life sooo bad, drinking herself ******ed, smoking **** snorting ****, i spill my heart out and speak my mind to her and she still dosnt want to take my opinion to heart.

i care sooo much about her and wish she would stop this ****, shes got noware to live, her moms in jail, and i want to help her so bad, but i cant.

she wants to be emancipated but to do that she would have to listen to me and stop everything shes doing before it gets too far out of hand.


what can i do, i dont want to see her get hurt.

You sound whipped..poor you.

 

[jaguarr]

I can't do that, im not giving up on her, I'm not going to sit here and let myself feel responisible if something bad happens to her. and if i know i could have helped the situation in some way.

all these guys shes chylling with, they dont care about her, they care about how she looks, shes nothing but an object to them and i pray to god that she dosnt get raped by any of them while shes ****ed up..


id give my life for her. i wish she would realize this already.

You're displaying signs of codependency with what you have written above. This girl is circling the drain. It's up to her to stop it, not you. It's her life, not yours. She'll take you down with her and hurt you in multiple ways if you stay after her. I guarantee it.

jag

 

[Harlekin]

I do like the irony of you thinking she's ****ing herself up with drugs, while in another thread you admitted to taking one that had you so ****ed up you were passing in and out of consciousness and you forgot most of everything else about the experience.

And oh yeah, best thing to do is ditch the broad.

 

[jaguarr]

I do like the irony of you thinking she's ****ing herself up with drugs, while in another thread you admitted to taking one that had you so ****ed up you were passing in and out of consciousness and you forgot most of everything else about the experience.

That's right, he's that same kid, isn't he? Didn't he also swear off drugs awhile back, only to start posting about how he's using them again? Never mind. I'm sorry I responded to this thread.

jag

 

[Mr. Credible]

I do like the irony of you thinking she's ****ing herself up with drugs, while in another thread you admitted to taking one that had you so ****ed up you were passing in and out of consciousness and you forgot most of everything else about the experience.

And oh yeah, best thing to do is ditch the broad.

wow, i didn't make that connection... good one!

crushing up and snorting xanax, wasn't it?

hypocrit much?

 

[Carcharodon]

Yeah. I've only been saying that for two pages now.

 

[Harlekin]

It's all in the execution, bro.

 

[Carcharodon]

It's all in the execution, bro.

Agreed.

*Executes Harlekin*

 

[Kmack]

Your intentions are noble Kmack however, if this girl feels like she's not doing anything wrong or harmful to herself, him "being there" or "pushing her in the right direction" isn't going to do much to disuade her from her destructive habits.

I know you would want to be there for someone you absolutely care about or even love, but you can't save someone who doesn't want to be saved.

True, I absolutely agree. Maybe I'm too optimistic for my own good but for her sake it will be very comforting knowing that she has had someone constantly pushing and trying to prevent her ultimate self-destruction, whenever she finally realizes she's bull-*****ting her life away. The road to recovery isn't an easy one, but it's inspiriting for her to know she has had a true friend who never gave up on her. Sure it's up to her if she wants to change, but true friends just don't give up on the one's they love or believe in.

 

[Carcharodon]

This entire thread is so full of cliches it's regoddamndiculous.

 

[jaguarr]

True, I absolutely agree. Maybe I'm too optimistic for my own good but for her sake it will be very comforting knowing that she has had someone constantly pushing and trying to prevent her ultimate self-destruction, whenever she finally realizes she's bull-*****ting her life away. The road to recovery isn't an easy one, but it's inspiriting for her to know she has had a true friend who never gave up on her. Sure it's up to her if she wants to change, but true friends just don't give up on the one's they love or believe in.

He doesn't want to be her friend, he wants to love her forever and live happily ever after and make babies and stuff with her even though she's never even shown an interest in a romantic relationship with him. Ergo, the only reason he wants to "save" her is so he can have her for himself. That's not being a true friend, it's pursuing one's own selfish motivations.

jag