The one thing your mind keeps coming back to..

[Drakon]

I'm sure I'll regret this thread later, but I'll ask now. What is it that, no matter how long ago it was, or how petty, your mind keeps coming back to? Is it a "what if she and I had stayed together?" or "Imagine had I not gotten into that car accident and had to miss my last month of college".

Spill your guts, guys. There's reasonings behind this.

 

[Twitch]

Will I get the girl?

I really want to beat the **** out of that guy.

 

[The Geek Vault]

What if I had left them with her?
Will we ever be back together?

 

[The-Dark-Knight]

Generally Ex girlfriends.

 

[rdh007]

Cemetery trees. There's got to be a poem one could make about a tree that roots in death.

Also, ex-girlfriends I should've tried to hit it with rather than trying to be a gentleman.

 

[lollycop]

Somtimes I hitt on girls and then when I do somthing really ****ing stupid, I think about it for a day or two about how stupid I am.

 

[Addendum]

My mind is constantly playing video games and my music collection

 

[Superman4ever]

Right now it's this girl (isn't it always the case?). We were going to get married, and then (to cut a long ass story short) she and I broke up for the stupidest reason ever. 8 months later, she wants to try again, and I said, "OK", but am kinda regretting it at the moment.

She said she wanted to change for me, to be different from the way she was before...more open. I'm doubting the hell out of that statement!

I told her we should take it REALLY slow this time, but I feel weird about the whole situation.

I REALLY care for her...I really do, but I'm SO confused at the moment.

 

[Symbiotic]

Generally Ex girlfriends.

same.

 

[hammy]

I don't want to think about it ...

 

[Poetic Chaos]

What if I chose the other sister...

definitely mine.

 

[Jack Rabbit]

"What if I'd gone to college?"

I wonder that quite a bit, especially when I talk to friends from back home.

 

[hammy]

It's never too late.

 

[Jack Rabbit]

Was that directed at me?

 

[Superman4ever]

Was that directed at me?

Sounds like it...it really is never to late!

 

[doc ock rules!]

I might ask myself, "What if I had never met my friends?" They were the first to make me actually think about what was happening to me instead of letting life just carry me.

There's one petty thing as well that comes to mind. One time, I bumped into this one kid. He looked like that kid from Different Strokes with a blue sweater vest. He called me a ***** and kept walking. I kind of regret that I never got to meet that kid again. Most absurd person I've ever met.

 

[GoldenAgeHero]

agreed its never too late. nor are you never too old.

 

[Jack Rabbit]

Sounds like it...it really is never to late!

Well, that's just the thing...I'm going once my enlistment is up, and I'll have the government pay for it. The thing that makes me look back is seeing all my friends from high school still together, having a grand time, and I feel like I'm missing out, and maybe should've gone to school with them rather than enlisted.

So a better way to say it is "What if I'd stayed with my friends?"

 

[Drakon]

One of my biggest things, is "What if I hadn't moved to Ohio?".

I'd never have become SHH admin, because I would have had limited internet connetion.
I'd never have met some of the people I've met here, who really are great friends.
I'd have had to deal with my ex pretty much sleeping with all my old friends basically in my face.

And a few others.
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Also, I am dealing with the same thing Jack Rabbit is. All my friends are graduating college right now, and I've not even been.

 

[GoldenAgeHero]

Well, that's just the thing...I'm going once my enlistment is up, and I'll have the government pay for it. The thing that makes me look back is seeing all my friends from high school still together, having a grand time, and I feel like I'm missing out, and maybe should've gone to school with them rather than enlisted.

So a better way to say it is "What if I'd stayed with my friends?"

government will pay for it, they're stuck paying loans. and you'll make new friends(sure they can't replace the current ones). but you have a new group to hang with.

 

[hammy]

Well, that's just the thing...I'm going once my enlistment is up, and I'll have the government pay for it. The thing that makes me look back is seeing all my friends from high school still together, having a grand time, and I feel like I'm missing out, and maybe should've gone to school with them rather than enlisted.

So a better way to say it is "What if I'd stayed with my friends?"

Yes, it was directed at you. And you can't punish yourself over your decision. The grass is probably not as green as you think, anyway.

 

[Deep Thinkin'!]

"What if I had never moved?"
"What if I hadn't revealed my true age on the hype?"

 

[Ghostvirus]

What if....

I have so many what if moments. My life is pretty much built on regret.

 

[Jack Rabbit]

government will pay for it, they're stuck paying loans. and you'll make new friends(sure they can't replace the current ones). but you have a new group to hang with.

Well, a lot of their parents paid for them. My family was never as wealthy. And I've made plenty of new friends, but it doesn't make me miss the people I grew up with any less, you know?

Yes, it was directed at you. And you can't punish yourself over your decision. The grass is probably not as green as you think, anyway.

I just really miss some people, and wish I could still hang out with them once and a while.

"What if I hadn't revealed my true age on the hype?"

LMFAO!!!

 

[Poetic Chaos]

I transferred high schools my sophomore year and about a month in was introduced to the major asian group of the school. Around the same time I had found one of my junior high best friends and reconnected with him and his smaller group of friends. So I had a choice. The large, 15+ members, everyone rotates girlfriends group or the small, 6- but more personal group.

I went with the small crowd. I don't regret it because I can honestly call every single one of those guys my best friends, even now with everyone in different colleges. But I can't help but wonder how different I would've been running around with a mob mentality, rolling deep. Parties every weekend. I imagine I'd be a very different man.