It's just a shame that this is the version they have to follow because of the... dare I say it? Forced entry of the character in Civil War. The set up was, Tony barges into Peter's life and basically recruits a 15 year old to fight for him because...uh, he's Spider-Man, or something. Regarding the comics Harry, this is a mash up of all the Spidey comics into one character, I thought. So whatever we know about previous comics and what he did in those is irrelevant, they SHOULD go by those, but some reason, they've gone off road with it all and made this version, some Frankenstein's monster Peter Parker.
We can only hope that it's the marketing making him seem a little obsessive, with the whole 'I'm going to call Happy each and every time I save a cat from a tree' As I've said in other posts, the main problem with this incarnation is that it's going off of two different universes so Sony/Marvel are trying there very hardest to set it apart from Garfield/Maguire, so they're really, really pushing the child Spider-Man, I believe the key word they're going for is endearing. I think all of it is meant to be endearing.