Hey Jana.. good to see you here.
I guess I'm a little torn. Just as there are certain forums at K-site I regularly read, there are also a few at DTTW (part of DFN). They are mostly Tom-related ones because I do truly enjoy sharing the Tommy love with other fans.
I have my own observations about the direction DFN seems to have headed. The thing I like about Sweet is that not only are they purely a Clana shipper site, they make no excuses about it, they say it loud and proud.

Some of it is a bit much, even for me.. but I find the honesty refreshing.
I still peruse some of the Tom threads at DTTW, there are a lot of very devoted Tom fans there. Although in light of the recent thread on his new potential movie role, some of those fans are apparently.. conditional.
Meh. My favorite sites for SV info are still K-Site, TW.org, and Sweet. Oh.. and HERE. I think we get a nice cross-section of fans here at SHH that contribute things from
all the various sources. And we're just the right size for a balance of information and socializing.
LJ is fun, but mostly just for play

, not so much hard news. The SV Usenet group is a cesspool of idiots and arrogant jerks.. IMO, of course.

Some of the foreign sites are great resources to have.
I'm just glad the internet is such a big wide place with niches for all of us.