''um I not sure , but did I just pay for sex'' ?

[Wilhelm-Scream]

Wow. This stupid thread again.

So, the girl has no sexual attraction to you, but she's just so hungry, and just wants to see that movie SO bad, but she's broke...so, she decides, "Oh well, I have the valuable commodity of "sex with me", so we'll barter."

Th^t would be "paying for sex".

Also, pretty much every chick I've ever been with has bought me nice things, had me over and cooked me a "special dinner", etc.
I, uh, would've f***ed 'em either way. They weren't "compensating" me for all that pelvic labor.

More sexist, backwards, dork-think bulls***.

 

[Danalys]

some women and men are eager to please. and some are playing games with each other. and some are being played and don't know it.

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

Do you have any other statements of the freaking obvious you'd like to share?

 

[JLBats]

Do you have any other statements of the freaking obvious you'd like to share?

Pie is delicious.

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

good one.
But if you make a cat-turd pie, it is not delicious.

 

[Danalys]

not so obvious to some. and some obvious things require saying at times. and what you said was obvious. i just put it in a way that wasn't venting agression at the world.

 

[JLBats]

Lol, not really on topic, but I just found a pretty misogynistic quote that belongs here.

"Women can get sex anywhere, any time and any way they want it. The problem for us guys is that women don’t want sex anywhere, any time and any way we want it. For women, sex comes bundled up with an onslaught of dizzying and complicated emotions, most of which they don’t seem to deal with very well. The result? It’s infinitely easier for women to place men into the category of “friends” rather than admit them as lovers.

In fact, for a woman, a male friend is the best of both worlds: She can reap all the benefits of having a man around (strength, decision-making, solid advice, logic, common sense, and so on) without the hormone-based entanglements that sex brings to the table.

But men are different. Since we aren’t saddled with psychologically crippling emotions, we aren’t burdened with the senselessness of separating friendship from sex. In fact, for us, it’s just the opposite: When a man likes a woman, he naturally wants to express his feelings by drilling her deep into the mattress. This is natural.

Unfortunately, the female brain can’t process this logic. Instead, it quickly “either-ors” any guy it encounters: Either he’s going to be a lover or he’s going to be a friend. And once a woman has relegated you to the “Friend Zone,” it’s all but impossible for her to see you in any other way. Of course, she’ll still expect you to act like the lovers she’s currently sex-ploiting -- by forcing you to pay for her meals and cart her around like a chauffeur -- but without the fringe benefit of doing the horizontal hula."

From the good people at AskMen.

 

[Ronny Shade]

sex gives me a dizzying complicated array of emotions.


at least I assume it does.

 

[Danalys]

that's just because the stereotyped woman should only be lovers with men they would want to get pregnant by. were as the stereotyped man would like to get every women pregnant. but really there are many people we each could impregnate or get impregnated by. it can take a while to choose tho.

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

not so obvious to some. and some obvious things require saying at times. and what you said was obvious. i just put it in a way that wasn't venting agression at the world.

obviously

 

[Danalys]

and you too.

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

fine.

 

[Ronny Shade]

yes

 

[Shuley]

Every guy who gets laid pays for it,most guys just pay for it indirectly...try having a wife,all you do is pay.

 

[redmarvel]

Id really like to hear a girls view on this.

You didn't actually pay for the sex, consider it a "gift".

The dinner & movie & whatever else are to get our undivided attention. It gives us a chance to "vet" the guy. Does he meet whatever un-named criteria we have for a guy? If not, then no matter how much money he spent he doesn't get the "gift". However, some guys can get our "gift" without spending any money at all, because they meet our other needs/desires.

 

[redmarvel]

Every guy who gets laid pays for it,most guys just pay for it indirectly...try having a wife,all you do is pay.

Odd... It seems I pay for a lot of things in my household. Hubby is constantly saying "your paycheck is higher than mine, you should cover this one". We do try to take turns with a lot of the items we buy.

 

[Kaleb]

You didn't actually pay for the sex, consider it a "gift".

The dinner & movie & whatever else are to get our undivided attention. It gives us a chance to "vet" the guy. Does he meet whatever un-named criteria we have for a guy? If not, then no matter how much money he spent he doesn't get the "gift". However, some guys can get our "gift" without spending any money at all, because they meet our other needs/desires.

thanks for that.

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

The motivation for the generosity is in the mind of the giver.
So you can only ask YOURSELF, "Did I just pay for sex?"
If you really, honestly only bought your girlfriend flowers because you wanted to grind her hole, and not because you have overwhelming affection for her, and know that she likes flowers, and wanted to offer a token to make her happy, because she makes you happy, and you're grateful, then yeah, you were trying to buy an ugly-bumping session with some flowers, and you're a piece of s***.

 

[Ronny Shade]

Wilhelm's a softie

 

[Lackey]

in the pants

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

buh-ZANG! lolomgwtf?


EDIT: I'm waiting for a mod to take issue with "Grind her hole"...but so far, nothing.

 

[Lackey]

Morg isn't here right now

 

[Ronny Shade]

buh-ZANG! lolomgwtf?


EDIT: I'm waiting for a mod to take issue with "Grind her hole"...but so far, nothing.

you'll be okay

 

[Angry Sentinel]

Why should it only matter what's in your heart, shouldn't it also matter what's in theirs?

Basically I agree, but I think it should also be about the reasons the recipient had for accepting the ... 'gift' or 'payment'. Also, why is a wonan's sex considered a 'gift'?

 

[JLBats]

buh-ZANG! lolomgwtf?


EDIT: I'm waiting for a mod to take issue with "Grind her hole"...but so far, nothing.

Maybe the mods go for quantity.

Grind her hole, grind her hole, grind her hole, GRIND HER HOLE.