I've had this problem for many years. And the thing that's kept me in comics has always been my totem. The comic that has been closest to my heart since I was a kid. No matter what titles came and went, this one title has been the constant for me. Even through the "bad" years. I can even look at those years fondly because despite the stories, they are still a tether to a time in my life.
Obviously that title for me has been the Fantastic Four. And when I could afford it I branched out to my second favorite title the Green Lantern. Luckily Hal Jordan was missing for a few years so I didn't feel bad about skipping that title for a bit. But after committing to my FF mag, it was the job of the publishers to catch my eye for the other mags. When I started doing that it helped my wallet alot. I didn't have to pick up a mag just because I had always done so. Except of course for the "Constant".
If I'm any judge of character, I'd guess that you should stick with Uncanny X-Men and let the market convince you what to buy. Don't be a sucker. Make them work.
And you can always pick up cheap story arcs later.
Just my first thoughts.
Great post. This is exactly,
exactly the way I operate as well, except my "tether" (perfect term for it, by the way) would be
Daredevil. And while the writing on it has been excellent for the past ten years or so, there are actually a couple of arcs that I very well may have skipped had it been any other title. I justify it, though, because I truly do love the character, and figure every comic book fan should have one book that they strive to have a complete set of.
By and large, though, my advice to fellow fans is don't buy books out of habit, and if you do, try to limit yourself to the one(s) that features your favorite group or character. I came to this conclusion early on in life, being that I was only granted a $3 allowance a week at age eight. Of course money's not nearly as tight now, but because of that constraint placed on me at an early age, I realized that having a gap of a few numbers in my collection outside of
Daredevil didn't spell the end of the world, especially when those issues wouldn't have entertained me anyway.
Anyway, it looks like you've gotten your pull list under control, so congrats. I think once you let go of the OCD mentality of "MUST COMPLETE RUN" that so many of us unfortunately suffer from, you'll be a happier comic book reader/collector. I know for myself, I actually feel good when I drop a title like
Cry For Justice after issue #2, because I'm not rewarding DC for a story that's failing to captivate me in any way, shape, or form.