why do some girls like to get choked when having sex?

[Kyalesyin]

Gay men give the best sex advice ever. One of my close gay friends told me how to give a perfect *******.

I don't think I could ever blow a guy... pee comes outta there, but they do seem to give the best advice. Its like they put more effort into the whole thing, so they've got more to talk about.

Ky, are you bisexual or gay? Not craving penis once in a while seems other-worldly.

I think I'm bisexual, but I lean heavily towards girls. Sexuality is not three boxes- hetro, homo and bi- its a line marked from 0 to 100. If you class 100% hetro as 0, and 100% homo as 100, I'm at about an 80. I can appreciate the male form, sure, I can look at a guy shirtless, if its the right guy. Pants come off? I'm outta there. I just don't find men attractive in a sexual context. Aesthetically, yes. Sexually, no.

While we're on the subject of gay women, do you think its true that women can choose which sex they prefer or just go back and forth? I mean for guys, either they are gay, bi, or straight, there's really no middle ground. But with women, I only know of one woman over the age of 18 who has never done anything sexual with another woman.

You'll find that the majority of women who've had 'sexual experiences with another woman' were doing it to pick up a guy and had no interest in divining their own gratification from it. That comes both from my personal observation and talking to a fair few women who are now in their mid twenties/early thirties.

 

[kainedamo]

My brother... I'm serious man, you and me should have a conversation face to face sometime. The only time I can talk properly is if I'm giving a presentation to a group I have academic authority over. Then, you can't stop me or get me off topic.

I can't do that at all. In fact, groups are one of the worst things for me socially. That, and girls I find attractive.

But isn't it odd how talking to people on the Internet and talking to people in real life are two completely different things?

 

[Kyalesyin]

I thinks it's the same with woman, just as it is with men. Either you are or your not gay.

Wrong! Sexuality is not an 'either/or' system. Preference is not a polar opposite. Its all about degree of preference. Some people can do either gender without preference, some can look but get squicked out by touch, like me, and some like by buddy Richard can't look at clothed breasts without feeling a little ill. Its all a matter of scale.

 

[Kyalesyin]

I can't do that at all. In fact, groups are one of the worst things for me socially. That, and girls I find attractive.

But isn't it odd how talking to people on the Internet and talking to people in real life are two completely different things?

Internet communication is single-filter. It works on only one level of processing. There are no hidden messages, no pitches, paces, tones to take into account. Plus, visual and audio are handled by two different parts of the brain, so we actually react differently to the written and spoken word.

 

[AndThePickles]

Wrong! Sexuality is not an 'either/or' system. Preference is not a polar opposite. Its all about degree of preference. Some people can do either gender without preference, some can look but get squicked out by touch, like me, and some like by buddy Richard can't look at clothed breasts without feeling a little ill. Its all a matter of scale.

That is a very good way of describing it

 

[X-Chick]

True, but most of those women are drunk, in clubs and have a camera in their faces. 95% of the time their just trying to get attention.

Not me or the other ones I know.

You'll find that the majority of women who've had 'sexual experiences with another woman' were doing it to pick up a guy and had no interest in divining their own gratification from it. That comes both from my personal observation and talking to a fair few women who are now in their mid twenties/early thirties.

Yeah, but my point is that most men are grossed out by the thought of making out with another man, while many women aren't and even do it at some point. I also don't know of any woman who hasn't at least considered getting a girlfriend.

 

[Kyalesyin]

That is a very good way of describing it

Best description of it is like this:

Take a straight line. Put 0 at one end. Thats 100% squicked out by the same sex hetro. Put 100% at the other end. Thats 100% squicked out by the opposite sex homo. Put 98 marks inbetween the 0 and the 100 mark, and draw and X where you fit.

We did that at a pride meet once. I come out as about 80% gay

 

[kainedamo]

I'm probably about 95% then. I'm neither disgusted by homosexuality or turned on by it. Sometimes I get a kick out of slapping a friends ass, but its only a joke.

 

[AndThePickles]

Best description of it is like this:

Take a straight line. Put 0 at one end. Thats 100% squicked out by the same sex hetro. Put 100% at the other end. Thats 100% squicked out by the opposite sex homo. Put 98 marks inbetween the 0 and the 100 mark, and draw and X where you fit.

We did that at a pride meet once. I come out as about 80% gay

I find many women attractive. One of my lesbian friends in high school had a crush on me and I did like her, but decided to put on the brakes when she asked to kiss me. I wasn't ready for it, and decided not to fully explore that territory. I've always chosen to be with men. I'm certainly not against the possibility of bisexuality, but it's hard for me to imagine being physically intimate with another woman.

I've made out with a girl before who used to be my best friend, but we were both super drunk and I don't really count that lol.

 

[GunBlade]

While we're on the subject of gay women, do you think its true that women can choose which sex they prefer or just go back and forth? I mean for guys, either they are gay, bi, or straight, there's really no middle ground. But with women, I only know of one woman over the age of 18 who has never done anything sexual with another woman.

Ahhhh, sexuality is so complicated. I think the majority of lesbians are not strictly homosexual. That **** is impossible. I can sit here and admire the softness of a woman's body but still not see the appeal in having sexual relations with her because she lacks a) penis b) the male physicality. In my opinion, it all burns down to penis. To put it boldly, feeling a man's power over your body has got to be the best darn thing about being a woman. Why wouldn't you want it? Even dudes want to get penetrated!

Same with guys too. A nice warm poosay or a bland doody-packed anus. C'mon..

 

[Crooklyn]

I don't think I could ever blow a guy... pee comes outta there

Same thing goes for a vagina.

 

[Golgo-13]

Ahhhh, sexuality is so complicated. I think the majority of lesbians are not strictly homosexual. That **** is impossible. I can sit here and admire the softness of a woman's body but still not see the appeal in having sexual relations with her because she lacks a) penis b) the male physicality. In my opinion, it all burns down to penis. To put it boldly, feeling a man's power over your body has got to be the best darn thing about being a woman. Why wouldn't you want it? Even dudes want to get penetrated!

Same with guys too. A nice warm poosay or an bland doody-packed anus. C'mon..

That just made my night.

 

[Golgo-13]

Same thing goes for a vagina.

Along with monthly blood.

 

[X-Chick]

It's not like they can't be washed.

 

[Grizzly Mac&Cheese]

I don't think I could ever blow a guy... pee comes outta there

Hahaha, I had that same concern about giving a girl oral when I was much younger.

Same thing goes for a vagina.

Not the part you should really be paying attention to

 

[X-Chick]

Can we just cuddle?

No. I need a real man.

 

[Crooklyn]

Along with monthly blood.

There was this joke that would've went so well with that line, but I f'n forgot it as I typed.

 

[X-Chick]

Hahaha, I had that same concern about giving a girl oral when I was much younger.

I always thought the thought of oral was disgusting. Then I tried it. Pretty awesome on both counts.

 

[AndThePickles]

I always thought the thought of oral was disgusting. Then I tried it. Pretty awesome on both counts.

First time on both counts was a bad experience, but now it is superbly wonderful

 

[Grizzly Mac&Cheese]

I always thought the thought of oral was disgusting. Then I tried it. Pretty awesome on both counts.

I wonder how it started...

 

[Fran]

...Spoons?

 

[X-Chick]

I wonder how it started...

How what started? Getting a giving oral? It started with making out.

 

[Grizzly Mac&Cheese]

How what started? Getting a giving oral? It started with making out.

Getting and giving oral. Like who was the first person to think that was a good idea? Especially considering humans haven't really been too hygienic about our private parts until recently.

 

[WorthyStevens]

I've no idea, but thank you to whoever came up with it.

 

[Crooklyn]

Getting and giving oral. Like who was the first person to think that was a good idea? Especially considering humans haven't really been too hygienic about our private parts until recently.

Well for me, there was no dialogue...just took my hand, placed it on her head, and gently pushed down ever so slightly....